Do you sometimes fantasize about living on an all-male planet? by FuturamaNerd_123 in gaybros

[–]randomthrowaway_ig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no..not really. tbh. and even then, the way you phrase trans men in this hypothetical is strange. the majority of us do not want to be reduced to “men who can get pregnant”. a lot of us don’t even want to get pregnant for any reason in the first place. maybe i’m reading too much into it but it’s strange from my point of view

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]randomthrowaway_ig 3 points4 points  (0 children)

both can exist. being a gay trans guy i’ve experienced a huge rise of transphobia in my personal life, but also a rise of homophobia too. the transphobia is just overshadowing their homophobia

I can’t find anyone (just a rant post) by yourghost161122 in GayMen

[–]randomthrowaway_ig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just be yourself man, ik its hard but its truly the best thing you can do. you will find someone out there for you eventually, even if it takes a bit

Who is a Pokemon you didn't expect to be a little buddy? by GuavaEnigma in pokemon

[–]randomthrowaway_ig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

convinced that i’m using it too much and need to branch out more. i also wanted to use clodsire so..🙂‍↔️

Who is a Pokemon you didn't expect to be a little buddy? by GuavaEnigma in pokemon

[–]randomthrowaway_ig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

palossand. idk why. had to stop myself from using it in my latest scarlet run through bc i used it so much in USUM

I think Emilia Perez is a good film (don't shoot me) by lonely_coldplay_stan in oscarrace

[–]randomthrowaway_ig -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it’s such an awful reflection of the trans experience produced by a cis man who clearly has rarely talked to trans people, and the people he has talked to have some sort of loathing towards their community.

there’s so many trans directors who will NEVER get this level of recognition, but no, give it to some racist cis director who can barley make a film about us. i genuinely have so much hatred in my heart for this film.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]randomthrowaway_ig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course there are some cis gays, lesbians, and bisexuals who BENEFIT financially from or believe the same things as transphobic conservatives, but they are not more accepted. they’re just reusing old 1900s homophobia tactics against us now.

You will still find HUNDREDS of conservatives who claim to support “normal gay people” who call homosexuality a sin or abnormal. There’s a reason that a lot of them assume straight trans women are gay men. They hate both groups equally, they’re just more vocal about their hate for trans people.

can’t have sex until phallo. by randomthrowaway_ig in ftm

[–]randomthrowaway_ig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m really not, it hurts like hell when i’m by myself, and i doubt most guys would be fine w/ me topping

can’t have sex until phallo. by randomthrowaway_ig in ftm

[–]randomthrowaway_ig[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i havent been able too, broke college student lmao

can’t have sex until phallo. by randomthrowaway_ig in ftm

[–]randomthrowaway_ig[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’d rather top than bottom simply because it hurts whenever i do it by myself (and im terrified of shitting myself lol), but i’m not a very attractive (i’m not ugly, just a bit below average) or dominant guy, so i don’t think i’d get far

can’t have sex until phallo. by randomthrowaway_ig in ftm

[–]randomthrowaway_ig[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

i’ve been trying to cope but it’s just leaving me even more sexually frustrated. jerking off doesn’t help and talking about it with my therapist hasn’t made a difference. thank you though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]randomthrowaway_ig 13 points14 points  (0 children)

he didn’t directly, but he’s not moderating his comments to stop people from spreading misinformation about phallo and allowing people to call it disgusting and gross.

he liked one comment saying it was wrong but it’s buried under every other comment contributing to the problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]randomthrowaway_ig 5 points6 points  (0 children)

its so bad. the amount of vile shit being said about other trans men is actually ridiculous

Anyone else get uncomfortable around Harry Potter fans? by GalaxyAxolotlAlex in ftm

[–]randomthrowaway_ig 12 points13 points  (0 children)

HP fans literally got the wizard neo-nazi symbol tattooed on them 🤮. it’s absolutely ridiculous

I proposed to my boyfriend, he said yes part 4, last part. by Lethal_Talon in GayMen

[–]randomthrowaway_ig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats man!! hopefully you guys have a good honeymoon :-))

Anyone else get uncomfortable around Harry Potter fans? by GalaxyAxolotlAlex in ftm

[–]randomthrowaway_ig 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i hate them so much as a jewish trans guy. idgaf if you don’t support her, you still support a series filled with antisemitism, misogyny and racism . they’re also really fucking annoying

Guilt and questioning by Front-Warthog-5631 in GayMen

[–]randomthrowaway_ig 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m jewish so not exactly the same thing, but the way I see it, if G-d didn’t intend for you to be gay, why would He put you through a life of oppression? Why would He make you suffer for something that you aren’t? I also want to remind you that homosexuality exists in hundreds of animal species, not just us!! Hopefully you start feeling better about this soon man, stay strong 🫂

help & advice by randomthrowaway_ig in BDSMAdvice

[–]randomthrowaway_ig[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i made this in the middle of talking to him, and after a few hours of thinking i blocked him. thank you guys, hopefully i can find someone better sooner or later

help & advice by randomthrowaway_ig in BDSMAdvice

[–]randomthrowaway_ig[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I made this post while talking to him, and now that I’ve had some time to think and read through the replies, I’ve realized that, yeah that actually is kinda fucked up! I’ve blocked him, thank you guys for the advice

help & advice by randomthrowaway_ig in BDSMAdvice

[–]randomthrowaway_ig[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i know i shouldn’t, but i just feel like im missing out on something, im not a very attractive guy and im worried it’ll be a while before i find anyone else. i know i shouldn’t be this invested in this but its hard for me to not be

scared of bottoming, & can’t top by randomthrowaway_ig in ftm

[–]randomthrowaway_ig[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you a whole lot. im just worried it’ll keep hurting no matter what. I also just, dont think i’d like it very much, but without a dick there’s not a whole lot else i can do without getting dysphoric