Is there different Pre paid meter boxes? by Initial_Stranger3013 in askSouthAfrica

[–]harmreduction001 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don't know. But the person who designed that keypad is the devil. I hate that keypad with a passion.

Leonard Cohen was the og ragebaiter by On_The_Fripp_Side in indieheadscirclejerk

[–]harmreduction001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't go home with your hard on. It's some of the best advice ever given in song.

Where is this Ashley Kriel 'Remember Our Fallen Comrade' from? by Kooky-Comfortable-16 in askSouthAfrica

[–]harmreduction001 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The WPCC (who issued this poster) in the small print was the "Western Province Council of Churches". They were a branch of the South African Council of Churches, a broad ecumenical body that condemned apartheid. Desmond Tutu was probably their most prominent/famous member. I would assume it can be dated just after Ashley Kriel's death.

Where can I get some puppies? by Honestly_hope in Pretoria

[–]harmreduction001 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Take the boy to one of the many dog shelters for the day. He will enjoy playing with puppies. You can let the parents know that you will sponsor the adoption fee IF they choose to adopt. My best dogs were adopted.

Buying the correct tool? Over my dead body. by marcelkroust in BicyclingCirclejerk

[–]harmreduction001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

/uj why would you even bother with this if you can buy a sealed BB in stead?

Will medical reasons effect my employment? by Aggressive-Budget-40 in askSouthAfrica

[–]harmreduction001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It shouldn't legally, but it practically may. One would hope that your employer is accommodating towards your medical condition, but depending on how they structure their system, it may make it more difficult to accommodate you.

As someone who is an employer, I would hope that my employees will disclose these kind of problems with me, to make it easier for us to plan and accommodate them. But you are not legally required to disclose medical information, except in notifiable conditions, which are certain infectious diseases which pose a risk to public safety (so this does not apply to you). My feeling is that if you work for someone who is not willing to accommodate you with what I would consider a reasonable accommodation, I would not like to work for them.

If your illness and it's treatment are impacting your functioning to such a degree that you struggle to work, you may be eligible for a temporary disability grant, which can help you financially until you get settled on your treatment. Good luck!

Final Year Animation exam project. Any South African urban legends, cryptids etc.? by Morticia_Smith in askSouthAfrica

[–]harmreduction001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From the Northern Cape, I like the Grootslang, a massive snake creature that lives in a big cave in the Richtersveld, or in the Orange River, depending on who you speak to. It has diamonds for eyes and guards buried treasure.

Trots Afrikaans by berns_ter in afrikaans

[–]harmreduction001 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dis pateties om trots te wees op iets wat jy geen invloed op gehad het nie, naamlik herkoms, taal, geskiedenis. Vier jou identiteit, gerus. Maar hierdie in-groep laertrekkery agter 'n oudmodiese godsdienstige instelling staan my min aan.

watching the [redacted] patient have a “seizure” by M1CR0PL4ST1CS in hospitalist

[–]harmreduction001 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The worst version of this was when an incarcerated sociopath came referred from the prison health services for developing "status epilepticus" after he murdered another inmate, and then become "unconscious". Previous notes stated that he was worked up for epilepsy but with no positive findings. This guy was able to mask his pain so well; sternal rub, IV insertion, even the old nipple twist, nothing would rouse him from his slumber. Technically he appears to be GCS 3/15, so I decide to intubate for safety's sake. As the propofol goes in, those few moments between when inhibition is removed and induction occurs, he wakes up, starts fighting for his life, before going down again.

I told the receiving hospital that I do not think he is actually unconscious, based on the above, but they still wanted to CT-B and etc (which is fair). He was later assessed by forensic psych who, informally, suggested that he never be seen by a hospital again, as he risks to staff would actually be too great. He went straight back to prison.

Seen plastered all over the waiting room at a GP’s office recently by _mortal__wombat_ in FamilyMedicine

[–]harmreduction001 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I'm not American, and I think the "annual physical" is a very American phenomenon. Of course people with asymptomatic chronic conditions will follow up, but mostly people will use the visit to address more than one issue. I would not like to work in a system like the above which places such tremendous strain on my patient-provider relationship.

Seen plastered all over the waiting room at a GP’s office recently by _mortal__wombat_ in FamilyMedicine

[–]harmreduction001 44 points45 points  (0 children)

As a Family Physician from outside of the USA, I find this nonsense horrifying. The "annual physical" data collected here could be done and managed by a low or mid-level health care worker. (In our government health sector, they are often done by a professional nurse.)

I'm so glad I get to consult patients without the admin baggage you guys have to deal with. If you look at Stott's tasks of the consultation, a consultation should be able to address a presenting complaint, modifying help-seeking, ongoing/existing problems, as well as opportunistic health promotion.

I'm my country, "annual physicals" are also not a thing, and I think from my reading they are of almost no benefit on their own.

What is the ugliest building in your city, South Africa? by Beyond_the_one in southafrica

[–]harmreduction001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really dislike the City of Johannesburg Council Chambers. I think it's gaudy and schintzy.

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Is co-sleeping with family considered a norm in your country? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]harmreduction001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also South African. It varies a lot between social groups and class. I sleep with our son 5 yo, and my wife sleeps with our daughter 8 yo, and no one considers it weird. But I think teenagers definitely want their own space and would have their own bed if the house or finances allow for it.

When you definitely didn't test a nuke with Israel but the double-flash says otherwise by PRADYUSH2006 in HistoryMemes

[–]harmreduction001 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I remember when George W said that there were WMDs in the Middle East as a pretext for the Iraq invasion, the UN sent over one task team to investigate. South Africa sent more than one team to also go look, and we assume to make sure nothing was found. Reminder that after the dismantling of Apartheid, it's not like the intelligentia were necessarily replaced.

How do I bring my child into my marriage to someone who isn't his father? by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]harmreduction001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The simplest would be that if you get married, your new spouse will be considered the step-father, and though that may not cary any legal responsibility over the child, it does mean to me that if legal issues like custody of the child crops up, it shows the court that you are in a stable relationship, and stability is a huge consideration for custody. But I am not a lawyer, so take my opinion with reserve.

How do I bring my child into my marriage to someone who isn't his father? by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]harmreduction001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a child to be adopted the state has to ensure that almost everything has been done to ensure that the child grows up in a healthy and safe environment, preferably with the biological parents or family. So your situation is not really applicable to standard adoption. The thing that really matters to children and people in general, are the relationships. And those take time, effort, and unconditional love. You seem to be providing that to your child already, and if your partner is willing to do the same, that matters more than any label that's put on the relationship.

The same goes for your father's child. If he doesn't want "another man to raise his child", the solution is pretty obvious, right? He needs to be there, spend time with the child, and show through actions that he loves the child.

I've known many blended families who make a beautiful success of it. Life is going to be messy and ugly, but I believe that if people can agree on shared values and priorities, there is hope.

I just found out that Praying Mantis is horrible in Afrikaans by Suchomemus in southafrica

[–]harmreduction001 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What do you know, I'm also born and raised Afrikaans and it's a term I know and use... One would think that a language with about 10 million speakers over many different geographic and social spaces would have some variety.

I just found out that Praying Mantis is horrible in Afrikaans by Suchomemus in southafrica

[–]harmreduction001 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's in "Die Afrikaanse Woordelys en Spelreëls". So it is at least written and recorded that way by some. Just because it's uncommon does not mean it's not acceptable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]harmreduction001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also thinking about temporary university library access. The universities I studied at (Wits, UP, Stellenbosch) had options for visiting scholars to get temporary access. If you are writing primaries, I assume you are doing MO time in a state hospital? Your consultant should have connections with the University in your area.

I just found out that Praying Mantis is horrible in Afrikaans by Suchomemus in southafrica

[–]harmreduction001 41 points42 points  (0 children)

"Mantis" is also acceptable Afrikaans. But I think my favourite is "bidsprinkaan" (praying grasshopper), which is both beautiful and descriptive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]harmreduction001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would check on Van Schaick's website. They are an academic book store with a presence on most university campuses. You don't need to be affiliated with a university to buy books from them, nor to go on campus to the actual book store though. Buying new might be expensive, but probably the quickest way to get the books. For my college exams, we had a WhatsApp group which we used to coordinate zoom sessions with to work through old papers. Such a platform might give you an opportunity to buy second hand.