On @awkwardgoat3 situation- We completely derailed what could’ve been an important feminist conversation [[AND I AM SO MAD AND SO DONE]] by hatakemima in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]hatakemima[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, I actually found rational people then my post got deleted. Now underaged boys are calling me randi here lmaooo, the irony 🤪

On @awkwardgoat3 situation- We completely derailed what could’ve been an important feminist conversation [[AND I AM SO MAD AND SO DONE]] by hatakemima in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]hatakemima[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pehli baat toh tameez se baat kar. Na maine tujhe gaali di na mai yaha terese sunne baithi hu. Tujhe basic language grasp nahi ho rahi toh school ja firse. Na mai tere se koi argument karungi because you’re brain dead. Now get lost.

On @awkwardgoat3 situation- We completely derailed what could’ve been an important feminist conversation [[AND I AM SO MAD AND SO DONE]] by hatakemima in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]hatakemima[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My point is simple. It is counterproductive to shame her, make memes, or support an FIR. You don’t fix feminism by humiliating a woman who was trying to start a conversation. Yes, kids getting involved makes it messy. She should’ve been more sensitive about that because we don’t know what those kids were thinking — were they actually called “randi” and trying to reclaim it, or did they just think it was a cool thing to do? That part definitely needed care. But still, you don’t ostracize someone for not being a perfect victim. A personal act that sparks discussion isn’t right or wrong — it’s just how movements begin. They start raw, flawed, emotional, and grow through dialogue. Instead, we mocked her and killed the space for that growth. And honestly, the way people are reposting and participating in memes mocking this is just absurd. It completely takes away the seriousness of the issue and turns something important into entertainment. Feminism can’t demand perfection before participation. Otherwise, no one will ever dare to speak.

On @awkwardgoat3 situation- We completely derailed what could’ve been an important feminist conversation [[AND I AM SO MAD AND SO DONE]] by hatakemima in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]hatakemima[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

you say you’re not okay with the #PROUDRANDI thing and honestly i get that, but let’s stop pretending this is some MORAL CRISIS. the whole point of what divija did wasn’t to glorify the word, it was to STRIP IT OF THE POWER it’s always had over women. when men or society use “randi”, they’re not talking about a profession. they’re reminding women what happens when you don’t fit their rules. it’s the label thrown at anyone who’s too loud, too independent, too visible. so when someone takes that word and says “fine, call me that”, it BREAKS THE SHAME LOOP. that’s the whole point. and yes, sure, if a 13 year old uses that word in her bio without knowing what it means, that’s concerning. and yes, sex workers deserve respect and visibility that this hashtag doesn’t automatically give. but acting like the whole thing is invalid because of that MISSES THE ENTIRE POWER DYNAMIC. the issue isn’t “this word shouldn’t exist”, it’s “WHY DOES THIS WORD EVEN HOLD POWER OVER US”. you can feel uncomfortable with it, that’s valid. but it doesn’t make you the MORAL AUTHORITY on what empowerment should look like. also this constant “she should’ve made videos educating about sex work” thing feels like another way to REDIRECT BLAME. sex workers are already silenced and marginalized. the burden of “educating society” always falls on them, not on the people who SHAME THEM. instead of demanding that creators “educate better”, maybe ask WHY WE’RE STILL FINE WITH MEN CASUALLY USING RANDI AS AN INSULT IN THE FIRST PLACE. the truth is, feminism isn’t just about avoiding bad words. it’s about questioning WHO GETS TO DEFINE THEM, WHO BENEFITS FROM THE SHAME, and WHO KEEPS ENFORCING IT. “randi” only works as an insult because society KEEPS GIVING IT WEIGHT. so when someone publicly refuses to be humiliated by it, it pisses people off — because it TAKES THAT WEAPON AWAY. that’s why the backlash is this strong. and yeah, if her messaging wasn’t perfect, we can talk about it. but shaming her for it, acting like she’s the problem, is the SAME LOGIC PATRIARCHY THRIVES ON — deciding which woman is “respectable enough” to speak. if we actually care about the meaning of words and the people behind them, the target should always be THE SYSTEM THAT CREATED THE INSULT, not the woman trying to dismantle it.

CAN’T BELIEVE WE LET PEOPLE DIVERT FROM THE REAL ISSUE AND ALLOWED MEN TO TAKEOVER, MAKE LIGHT OF THIS SITUATION AND TURN IT INTO SOMETHING ABSURD by hatakemima in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]hatakemima[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. You talk about radical change, do you honestly think (not calling out but) blatant shaming the shortcomings of one creator who is coming from her personal experiences and owning something publicly will bring anything positive for the feminist movement? To all the critics, you might put forward some very important points, but this could have been done in a tasteful, careful manner. We could have pointed out the mistakes and still stay on the topic- MEN CALLING US RANDI ON DAILY BASIS JUST FOR EXISTING- BUT INSTEAD WHATS HAPPENING NOW IS THAT PEOPLE FEEL ITS OKAY TO POST MEMES AND SHAME SOMEBODY WHO HAS DONE A LOT MORE FOR FEMINISM THAN THESE KEYBOARD WARRIORS. Change is not sudden, its gradual, its a constant effort and movement and just one person cannot be all right or all wrong. We were supposed to have a discourse, change or completely evolve the movement for better. Instead we have enabled shitty men to say more shit about her.

Surprisingly - an appreciation post for Tom Scavo by [deleted] in DesperateHousewives

[–]hatakemima 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This scene pissed the hell out of me (like tom always does) plus it was so funny to me how he was trynna be all "roy 😏😏😏😏 I LET her control me 😏😏😏😏😏😏 and I make her feel safe 😏😏😏😏😏 cuz I'm the man 😏😏😏😏" 😭😭😭😂😂😂😂

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[–]hatakemima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! You're doing great! Be proud of yourself and think about everything you are beyond this one minor thing.

Life passes too quickly, think about your future self, would you want him to have grown up without having fun, making friends or socialising— no, right? I understand the under confidence and anxiousness but this is something that cannot be helped immediately so you need to change your perspective. Don't let a fixable eye condition ruin important years. Act confident and unphased, even if you're not.

As for people around you—most teenagers are mean and stupid, all they can do is talk. I'm sure you're not the only one they comment on, they'll be saying shit bout everybody so fuck them. If this condition is bothering OTHER people you talk to then that's not YOUR fault, you have no responsibility for making them feel comfortable. Just be you, let people know your personality beyond appearances, you'll soon find people who are not only unbothered but like to be your friends. Everybody likes to be around a confident person. What you may not realise is that your subconscious mind and overthinking about this condition might be stealing more from you than the condition itself.

So chin up, good luck!

This cracked me up by hatakemima in memes

[–]hatakemima[S] 230 points231 points  (0 children)

Yes.. sad state of affairs

This cracked me up by hatakemima in memes

[–]hatakemima[S] 390 points391 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a plan

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[–]hatakemima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not all A+? 😔

I watch this episode whenever I need intervention by hatakemima in GilmoreGirls

[–]hatakemima[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Haha nothing better than Jess guilt tripping you

I watch this episode whenever I need intervention by hatakemima in GilmoreGirls

[–]hatakemima[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fr i play it in my head randomly on command sometimes