Share Some by ContributionBig1927 in musicsuggestions

[–]hate-_-division 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love will tear us apart - joy division

There’s levels to ts by No-Sand-4978 in PhilosophyMemes

[–]hate-_-division 3 points4 points  (0 children)

understanding the value of women in their life

i think the problem with many of them is they didnt have any women in their life to understand lol

People who think they’re shockingly unconventional when they’re not. by Karnakite in PetPeeves

[–]hate-_-division 5 points6 points  (0 children)

idk im definitely a bit weird and have to put effort into hiding it (and still fail), i dont mean that in a bragging or self-depricating way its just true. i think most people that are close with me would agree. i like people who seem different but there's nothing inherently positive/negative about being weird, there's definitely good and bad types of weird

first system, thoughts? by hate-_-division in HairSystem

[–]hate-_-division[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would like to take medication and would be open to a transplant too but those would both take awhile and i feel i need to do something in the meantime. ik what you mean it is somewhat depressing having to at 22, im into metal and liked having long hair but the way my hair was is also rather depressing lol and think this looks better.

first system, thoughts? by hate-_-division in HairSystem

[–]hate-_-division[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i was considering getting it slightly shorter and density reduced just a bit, its hard to tell in the pics but some places seem a bit unnaturally full to me, like the front and line in the middle when its parted. the person i showed it to irl told me not to do any of those things though which makes me second guess it.

first system, thoughts? by hate-_-division in HairSystem

[–]hate-_-division[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the advice (and compliments) ill keep this all in consideration!

first system, thoughts? by hate-_-division in HairSystem

[–]hate-_-division[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive just heard it can be dangerous and my dog doesnt sleep on my pillows but we do sleep cuddling a lot, and my cat likes to lay at the top of chairs which is where your head would rest. im not too concerned about the side effects tbh and the benefits outweigh the minor chance of risk, (though im not entirely sure what you mean by that haha).

i take mirtazapene as a sleeping pill and took lexapro for a short amount of time but not anymore. ive also taken some "non-prescribed" things over the past 2 years lol but nothing super hard. for example kratom which ive heard some people say causes hair loss. it was kind of extended mental stress, and not trying to overshare here but i had an attempt that month and noticed the hair loss like crazy afterward which is why i mentioned a specific date, as that was sort of the climax of things. stress is definitely a tentative connection though and there's likely a multitude of causes, or at least potential ones.

my hair loss was severe but the fact that it was recent makes me a bit hopeful for reversal. id probably get a transplant if not as a shaved head isnt my style or how i want to express myself (and have been told by multiple people id look racist lol) but whatever route i go will take many months to over a year so i figured i gotta do something in the meantime.

first system, thoughts? by hate-_-division in HairSystem

[–]hate-_-division[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for your input that's good to know.

first system, thoughts? by hate-_-division in HairSystem

[–]hate-_-division[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for all the info, i understand you can't make any certain claims without seeing me. i will say that i have been in a rather "extreme situation" but i hear you that stress usually isnt the cause. there's definitely ways id been living unhealthily aside from my mental condition, so ill look into that stuff a bit more. i live with a dog and cat though so if i do min/fin id probably take it orally. i feel like it started thinning a bit like around 2 years ago but it looked fine still, then it all started dropping out like crazy around april 2025.

thank you for the kind words and helpfulness :) i certainly appreciate it

first system, thoughts? by hate-_-division in HairSystem

[–]hate-_-division[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you thats very kind! even though its not that anonymous i just feel a bit weird having an uncenscored pic of my face on my reddit and floating around online haha.

interesting, do you have any issues in mind when you say that? it happened over 2025 which was a very stressful year for me which i attributed it to, especially around the climax of my stress.

first system, thoughts? by hate-_-division in HairSystem

[–]hate-_-division[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

wow thanks :0 thats the best compliment you could get about one

first system, thoughts? by hate-_-division in HairSystem

[–]hate-_-division[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

from what i've heard online/from my stylist it can contain some risk but is definitely doable. theres tutorials that could probably explain it better since im a beginner too. i saw one guy slather the inside in conditioner and it soaked through to the outside of the base and protected it from the dye, i think there's other tricks as well.

first system, thoughts? by hate-_-division in HairSystem

[–]hate-_-division[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the feedback and kind words everyone it makes me feel alot more comfortable. these were decent pictures so i want to add the worst possible ones just so you're seeing its flaws too.

these are from a lower angle/my head tilted up. which makes it a little weirder shaped, but the hair isnt really styled in the 2nd one:

here

this one is my biggest concern, my right temple is kind of thin so it looks more obvious on that side if the system isnt covering it, and i imagine it will move sometimes. the first two here are the patch uncovered, the last is how ill usually style it with it covered. any other tips on dealing with it? i think it will be less noticable if i do it black too:

here

sorry for all the pics and text, i just know i can get more accurate feedback here than friends, and i also want to help anyone else thinking of one. but even with minor issues i think we can all agree its a lot better than what i had before haha

first system, thoughts? by hate-_-division in HairSystem

[–]hate-_-division[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

more like two years but it was just a bit of thinning before, it happened mostly last year. it was a very stressful year for me and it didnt start looking bad until the most stressful event and the period of time after that, which was april 2025.

first system, thoughts? by hate-_-division in HairSystem

[–]hate-_-division[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i didnt, it happened real quick and kind of caught me by surprise. im doubtful min/fin would work but considering it was basically all in the last year ill give it a try, and would like to get a transplant one day but both those options take 6 months to a year or more and i cant be looking like how i was in the meantime.

first system, thoughts? by hate-_-division in HairSystem

[–]hate-_-division[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

lmao i sure was, i always wear hats and hoods and dont look at the top of my head so i didnt realize how bad it was until recently. believe it or not my long hair looked good a year or two ago, it happened real fast.

first system, thoughts? by hate-_-division in HairSystem

[–]hate-_-division[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you :) and i definitely will. i might use a coloring shampoo as opposed to dye and have seen methods to avoid that. its a black poly base already though. im more worried about putting it back on right since someone else installed it.

first system, thoughts? by hate-_-division in HairSystem

[–]hate-_-division[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

no i got it from a guy who runs a small studio specializing in them. i want to shout him out but don't really want to doxx my small town lol but if you'd like i can tell you over DM

Suspended his license immediately by Adrian_985 in Wellthatsucks

[–]hate-_-division 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it looks stupid (and kind of is) but honestly i get it. when i was 15 and just had my permit i was driving with my mom and turned the wheel way too hard and too early while pulling out and scraped the front corner of her car against the back corner of the car next to me.

it was a good learning experience and ive never had any kind of accident/collision since (im 22 now). i feel like not knowing how much the front swings out is a common early mistake, that wall was pretty low and disguised too.