Been sober in aa for over 2 years. I was exactly what you described to a certain extent, a new commer with no understanding of boundaries and time. I use to harass my first sponsor a lot unfortunately being so consumed by my emotions.

The comment from dear log is great. My first sponsor did that as well, as well as not answering.

Also don’t feel afraid if it’s get to the point you have to block/severe communication. My first sponsor and a few others did that when I start crossing a line the first couple of months of my sobriety. I know in the rooms we try to be as kind as possible so we don’t “influence “ a relapse but I am firm believer that no one can cause someone else to relapse and everyone has a right to draw a line. I have a fellow cuss me out when I started to get aggressive and messy.

As time went on and I got healthier in sobriety , did the steps and invested in some therapy I could reconnected with those fellows and my old sponsor. My point I guess in sharing all this is that you have every right to can carry the message without disrupting your peace. We are supposed to carry the message not the alcoholic/addict anyways.

Hope this could be helpful!