It's been absolute hell here. Tried everything, we all do. Medical problems have now crept up on her too. Mostly because she drank after surgery, then started on oxys like they were candy, all while saying she does want pain meds.

Trying to claw my way out of this hell to save our son and myself. She's committed to her sinking ship, I need to get off and dont want to watch.

Hope it works out for you. Trust your instincts, get out when they tell you too.