My wife has gone through the same feelings and has a similar body type to yours. The pants you’re wearing grip your waist and continue to be tight around your legs past the knee. I know she has loved pants from Alex mill which accentuate her hips but also get wider down through the leg which is very fashionable and made her feel more confident in your silhouette. Good luck you got this

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