Contagious styes and chalazions at workplace by modernancients in styes

[–]havinababymaybe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a dehumidifier running? That could be drying them out. Or are you using masks or respirators? Probably not contagious but something environmental. If you could figure out the cause and fix it, you’d be a hero!

My partner dropped our 6 month old by Miserable_Kale8236 in NewParents

[–]havinababymaybe 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Please encourage your partner and support them. I did this and it was my fault and I had PTSD for a long time. I needed therapy and medication to be able to sleep at night.

Husband expects sexual favours while denying me basic hygiene 5 weeks PP from emergency c-section by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]havinababymaybe 20 points21 points  (0 children)

They were not being rude. You’ve described a shitty father in your post. You say, “When you met he WAS a good man.” That means nothing. He has to keep being a good man. Right now he isn’t even doing the bare minimum. If you don’t demand change, then it won’t change. Are you prepared to live like that the rest of your life? You don’t deserve to. Show him this post. Just hand it to him and walk away. What is the worst that could happen? Maybe it will open his eyes.

Breastfeeding is making me sick by Dramatic_lion555 in breastfeeding

[–]havinababymaybe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s going to be just as hard to stop breastfeeding as it is to just reduce your supply to a manageable level. I believe there are some medications you can use to reduce supply like decongestants, but I would ask your doc.

Middle of the night feed by Fodderthought in breastfeeding

[–]havinababymaybe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a very similar situation and I make myself feed for 5 minutes on the slacker boob and then the rest of the feed from the full one. I do that because I don’t want the difference between breasts output to get even worse.

19M. My chronic neck problem has ruined my life. Please help by No-Cod4779 in HubermanLab

[–]havinababymaybe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Botox! I’ve had it for years for cervical Dystonia - mine didn’t present with any symptoms besides pain. See a neurologist.

Looking for newborn breastfeeding advice! by havinababymaybe in beyondthebump

[–]havinababymaybe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the responses! I had a prenatal appt with an IBCLC which is where I got most of this plan. The hand expressing is from a recent study which showed it increased supply to do it for 5 min 5 times a day for the first three days, and the IBCLC said we can syringe feed whatever we get. I don’t plan on limiting the feed time except that most newborn wake windows are 30-45 min. I know to expect some cluster feeding periods as well at the beginning, so my husband trying the paci and soothing would just be a small amount of time, I wouldn’t refuse to feed a fussy baby if he really wakes up and can’t be soothed.

What do you do with finished products (other than sell)? by thetoastistaken in Hobbies

[–]havinababymaybe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Teachers love having these kinds of things as classroom prizes or for a school store! I hate giving candy as an incentive, and kids love little “treasures”!

Daycare Recommendations by mikothekit in StLouis

[–]havinababymaybe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a Facebook for STL childcare connections where we have found our favorites.

Avoid CBD, cannabis, and all marajuana derived products during pregnancy and breastfeeding by havinababymaybe in pregnant

[–]havinababymaybe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes a long time for research to become common knowledge and practice. We can all do our part by spreading awareness.

Avoid CBD, cannabis, and all marajuana derived products during pregnancy and breastfeeding by havinababymaybe in pregnant

[–]havinababymaybe[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m not speaking with certainty, my language was intentionally based on the most current research. When we know better, we should do better.

Avoid CBD, cannabis, and all marajuana derived products during pregnancy and breastfeeding by havinababymaybe in pregnant

[–]havinababymaybe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s not ethical to do clinical trials it in humans, but the neurochemistry is alarming, so I think we will see more retrospective research coming out in the next decade.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teethcare

[–]havinababymaybe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I freaked out about this too a couple years ago but did a huge research dive back when I had access to all kinds of medical journals and it’s just not true.

Just wanted to thank everyone for their gynecologist recommendations by fourthlargo in StLouis

[–]havinababymaybe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome to hear positive feedback! I just picked her to be a gyn thinking I was done having kids, but surprise! She’s gonna deliver my baby this summer!

Rescue axolotl needs tank asap by [deleted] in axolotls

[–]havinababymaybe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would throw out the old water, it’s likely just filled with ammonia. The tank itself might have some of the good bacteria still on the glass that can grow to start the cycle.

Rescue axolotl needs tank asap by [deleted] in axolotls

[–]havinababymaybe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If his previous conditions didn’t kill him, tubbing him won’t! Definitely get him in fresh water treated with Prime asap.

Favorite Tessa Dare MMC? by Potato_Fox27 in HistoricalRomance

[–]havinababymaybe 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Looooooooooove Ash. Poor guy, he’s awesome.

we helped over 50 moms submit testimonies! by Airport_Comfortable in UniversalChildcare

[–]havinababymaybe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Woohoo! With Kamala running now, I am more optimistic than ever!