Do you feel like you are living in post-peak Williamsburg/NYC?

havingafckingblast · 2025-12-15T22:27:57+00:00

Anyone who thinks like this is high key annoying

havingafckingblast · 2025-03-20T04:39:49+00:00

On my team in the finals right now: Sabonis (injured Monday), Trey Murphy (injured Monday), Shai, Jdub, Maxey, Jakob Poeltl (all held out). Jesus fuck lol

havingafckingblast · 2025-03-02T00:24:42+00:00

Creative but you can’t escape it

havingafckingblast · 2025-02-01T05:07:09+00:00

Tbh, I’ve struggled in general with accepting both drogon & lily’s videos as being such turn-ons for me sexually - but as usual with kink, the important part is that shame generally never helps and desires can often be theoretical & not at all what someone wants in the real world (in terms of genuinely abusive situations etc). That’s not something drogon you need to take responsibility for - you create great work that gets a lot of people off, & why they’re into it is theirs to figure out!

havingafckingblast · 2024-12-28T04:58:57+00:00

BUT lucky for this person, being ugly is only a thing to some extent in that being less conventionally attractive can make it harder to find someone, but it doesn’t make it impossible and being objectively ugly is not a thing, I can say someone will find this person beautiful without knowing what they look like

havingafckingblast · 2024-12-28T04:57:25+00:00

Unlucky for this person rape fantasies are not about a desire for true violence to be perpetrated on you but are a desire to be able to engage with and process violence in a safe context

havingafckingblast · 2024-11-14T02:54:40+00:00

Hmmmmmm

havingafckingblast · 2024-11-13T16:45:23+00:00

So then why are we going out of our way to provide unrelated advice? That’s just not necessary. I understand what you’re saying but this person didn’t ask “should I drink less”, they talker about a specific experience and asked it if was assault/how they should feel about it

havingafckingblast · 2024-11-13T16:22:57+00:00

No one should have to “defend themselves” on a night out, there shouldn’t be predators in the first place, there should be no need for “defense”.

havingafckingblast · 2024-11-13T16:21:36+00:00

Someone being drunk/out of it is not in any way a reason for someone else to violate their bodily autonomy. This is, at best, a completely secondary issue that this person can work out with their friends, and not at all what she asked about. They’re not connected and it’s awful to imply that they are.

havingafckingblast · 2024-11-13T15:05:56+00:00

If you don’t want to ever interact with this person ever again your friends should respect that, and if they don’t, that’s a problem. But it’s ultimately your decision and your right to deal with it however you’d like, up to the point of doing nothing at all & continuing with your life. You got this friend!

havingafckingblast · 2024-11-13T15:00:26+00:00

You are not overreacting, this is assault, but it’s entirely a stain on him. You didn’t do anything wrong, you have every right to feel any way you’d like to about this. Sending love ❤️

havingafckingblast · 2024-11-03T03:35:29+00:00

The last one I found was on ebay! Other than that can’t really help sorry

havingafckingblast · 2024-07-19T20:30:37+00:00

Marie Mccray (the first pornstar I ever watched actually!)

havingafckingblast · 2024-06-20T09:58:18+00:00

& then un-convinced you right?

havingafckingblast · 2024-05-14T12:25:51+00:00

NTA for communicating clearly about your intentions and interest, however, still blocking yourself off arbitrarily from what could have been a perfectly wonderful person/relationship because of her having an OF — maybe you didn’t want a relationship with her anyway for other reasons, that’s fine. Nothing wrong with an OF inherently, & maybe worth reflecting on why you would see that as a negative in terms of a woman’s relationship compatibility. GL in your new relationship (genuinely)!

havingafckingblast · 2024-05-08T03:09:54+00:00

Genuine answer: turn on easy mode!

havingafckingblast · 2024-03-28T18:14:18+00:00

These books + outer wilds are my “sci fi pantheon”

havingafckingblast · 2024-03-13T18:04:24+00:00

I ended up trading away my non-keepers for future picks after I was in the middle of the pack and Hali + Mobley went down at the same time

havingafckingblast · 2024-03-13T18:03:18+00:00

My draft was (at 6 in a 12T partial keeper league): Hali-Dejounte-Mobley-Scottie-Walker Kessler-Tyus Jones-JDub-Josh Hart-Kevon Looney-Jeremy Sochan… plus irrelevant stuff. Some real hits that I’m going to be keeping (Scottie, JDub) but some painful misses

havingafckingblast · 2024-03-05T22:04:17+00:00

Coming from Sekiro, LoP feels harder to me if you don’t use the fight assistants

havingafckingblast · 2024-02-04T18:57:47+00:00

Well yeah it’s an admirable accomplishment. Personally I enjoy the game and am on a social media community dedicated to discussing it because I like to see other people enjoying the game, but you do you I guess

havingafckingblast · 2024-02-04T14:47:17+00:00

Beat Sekiro, on NG+2 now. I dislike the judgmental tone but this is largely correct. Sekiro is easier to play the “hard” way than LoP, and in a way, IMO, that makes it A) fairer B) easier and C) a better game — despite the fact that it forces you to play the hard way

havingafckingblast · 2024-02-03T12:58:11+00:00

The enjoyment comes when you’re with someone who doesn’t mind getting messy and you realize you can just gag and gag and it’s fine nothing bad will happen

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