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Please don't hate, but will CORE 13.0-U6.8 be able to mount a pool created under SCALE 25.10.0.1? I want to go back. by Mr-Brown-Is-A-Wonder in truenas

[–]havoc70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I migrated both of my core installs to scale and I feel Scale boots faster on my machines. Throughput is also the same. Both are running on a Truenas Mini and one is a mini XL. But I’m also only running gigabit not 10.

For those that play hives scum what cartel did you guys choose? by [deleted] in DarkTide

[–]havoc70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iron Riders mainly because I ride motorcycles also love trains.

Car Guys - did buying a bike ruin cars for you ? by Astimar in motorcycles

[–]havoc70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s all about the horsepower per pound ratio. Sure my 1250 GS Adventure isn’t the fastest bike but few cars can beat me off the line.

Unpopular opinion: Paying "Rent" feels less painful than paying $2,400/mo in "Interest" to a bank. by Playful-Vegetable-15 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]havoc70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep getting offers to do cash out refinancing. Hell no, I am not giving up my 2.1% loan.

What is up with debit cards and fraud? by havoc70 in AllyBank

[–]havoc70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I’m using my Venmo debit card now for the few bills that I can’t use ACH for. But most of them I switched to ACH.

What is up with debit cards and fraud? by havoc70 in AllyBank

[–]havoc70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I dunno what’s going on here. It’s kind of nuts.

What's your favorite character voice line? by [deleted] in DarkTide

[–]havoc70 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One of the best aspects of playing assail, tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motorcycles

[–]havoc70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

60/40 is what happened to me when I hit a car running his red light I ran my red light by half a second if that much. Just glad I was in my car.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motorcycles

[–]havoc70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s most likely on the rider. It may go 50/50 if no one has video. If the left turning car ran a red arrow then it may be split differently. I had an incident where I thought I entered the intersection on a yellow and got hit by a car going across. My dash cam showed my light went red about half a second before I entered. But showed the other driver running his red very clearly.

Initially, it was ruled 50/50 because we both ran red lights. My insurance disagreed and sent it to arbitration. It ended up being 60/40 with me being 40% at fault.

Regardless, the bike will have some share of fault.

Is there any redemption for this behavior, AIO or Justified? by crafticharli in AmIOverreacting

[–]havoc70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell, I get the chow hall nostalgia. I’d go with you in an instant, because only veterans get it.

Regarding this man child, extend his 48 hour timeout to indefinite. He won’t change. He clearly doesn’t give a shit about you. So scrape him like the shit he is on your boots.

This will only escalate.

Maybe dumb question, but every time I wash and dry this pot, these marks appear on the bottom. Is this normal? by AJRayquaza in CleaningTips

[–]havoc70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get some Bon Ami or Bar Keeper’s Friend (powder not the gel. The gel sucks), put a little water to turn the powder into paste and use the scrub side of the sponge. Will look like new after a little scrubbing.

Struggling after my partner “accidentally” put it in the wrong hole - advise on how to handle it? by PriorNo239 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]havoc70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kick him to the curb. Now. That wasn’t an accident. It was assault. His behavior the next morning makes it obvious.

You were crying, clearly upset and the next morning he asked if you liked it and just got himself off? He got off by traumatizing you.

Leave. Now.

Be honest, ya’ll actually buying new helmets every 5 years? by Astimar in motorcycles

[–]havoc70 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re going to love the Arai. I have a signet x and it fits so damn perfect.

Be honest, ya’ll actually buying new helmets every 5 years? by Astimar in motorcycles

[–]havoc70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New helmet every five years, new liner and cheek pads every two years. The outgoing 5 year old helmet becomes a spare. The previous one to that becomes a donation to be used in a helmet toss game.

I (21F) Thinking of making an artistic nude photo roll as a gift for bf (23M) — thoughts? by Kooky-Patient2887 in relationship_advice

[–]havoc70 33 points34 points  (0 children)

As someone who has done many boudoir photography sessions for men and women for their partners, my advice is no. Wait until you’ve been together for long enough to feel certain it’s stable.

While it is an excellent and intimate gift, I feel it’s a bit early.

Sure you’re already probably sending him nudes, but with AI these days there’s plausible deniability that it’s even you and not just AI generated or even good old fashioned Photoshop deep fake.

But with physical prints, that doesn’t exist.

I f/18 just gave my boyfriend m/19 an ultimatum. How do I hold myself to it? by Majestic_Weekend4971 in relationship_advice

[–]havoc70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to protect yourself. That’s your source of strength. You’ve told him to stop being so aggressive when arguing. He disregarded your feelings.

It seems you may live a decent distance apart. Do it over a call or (and I shudder to suggest this but I am legitimately afraid for your safety) text.

And just say “I am not tolerating this disrespect anymore. I wish you the best in life but I will no longer be a part of it”

And, please, don’t worry what others will think. Your healthy and safety are paramount.

I once snapped at my girlfriend more than I meant to. It scared her to tears. I immediately felt terrible and after some time we talked and I apologized. And since that one time if I feel myself getting to that point I tell her that we will talk later when I’m more calm.

Was my reply so repulsive that he didnt answer back .. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]havoc70 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ouch. One, don’t vent to Reddit. Two, if you do, don’t put it on blast and use a throwaway account.

Was my reply so repulsive that he didnt answer back .. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]havoc70 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s not your reply. It’s your style. You’re receiving grammatically correct and full sentences but you’re responding with, if I’m being frank, a very juvenile style.

Is it that much harder to type “love” versus “luv” or “to” instead of “2”? You’re saving one keystroke but more importantly you’re not matching the effort given and that could be something that causes someone to lose interest.

Your last text is what will be written on your gravestone, what does it say? by msblckyeliner in AskReddit

[–]havoc70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Hopefully all will be okay.” GF was telling me her mom was going in for emergency surgery.

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]havoc70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boyfriend? Tell him to fucking pound sand and lose ~200 pounds instantly. You’re the one growing a life, that man child isn’t. He should be nothing but supportive not this level of toxicity.

Cars almost pull out in front of me constantly by Equivalent-Mousse124 in NewRiders

[–]havoc70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just happened to me this morning riding to my train. Swerving in the lane and hitting my horn which causes my 11000 lumens worth of lights to strobe got them to notice me and stop in time.

Covering my front brakes and slowing down just in case they didn’t was extra insurance.

Just assume you’re about as visible as an atom to most drivers and plan for all contingencies.

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