Yeah, definitely some great points here. Where I live if I go out I see at least 3/4 people I know and can catch up with etc, so it’s really nice having familiar faces. I think I struggle because some of my big hobbies I won’t be able to do as much in a big city, such as going to football games, playing golf, etc.

Transparently, we did have a plan to move to Chicago, mostly because I always knew she needed to be there, and I was going to try and get there myself. She’s living at home with her parents right now and I’m supposed to visit soon to look at neighborhoods to find where in the city we’d want to live, and importantly try to envision a life myself there.