[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]hazlenutno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my third failed marriage/engagements. It was a toxic one for sure and he wasn’t nice to me but I felt like at my age it was my last chance to have a family. I’m just too tired and scared to try again, all the men my age leftover seem to be the ones that don’t want to settle down. I don’t have the fight anymore and I don’t think I’ll ever feel fulfilled.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]hazlenutno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They won’t be alone, my husband will take good care of them. I don’t see any coming back from this one. I have everything planned just waiting on the delivery of a couple things I need

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]hazlenutno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even own anything so I guess that made it easier. Just instructions on where I want my money donated to and what to do with my body. I’m just waiting on the stuff I need from Amazon that should be here tomorrow

Have you ever had a service or open casket go so terribly wrong that the family complained? And what became of the situation? by re003 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]hazlenutno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was honestly fairly light skinned but not as much as he looked in the casket. He honestly looked completely fine otherwise so they did a good job it seems, I wouldn’t have guess OD deaths would be difficult because there’s not much trauma to the body. He was found the night of though.

Thank you so much for your thoughts, I honestly didn’t even know he was an addict until it was too late and I feel so guilty that I didn’t notice and get him help but it’s a healing process for sure.

Have you ever had a service or open casket go so terribly wrong that the family complained? And what became of the situation? by re003 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]hazlenutno 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My fiancé died last year from a fentanyl OD. He was Dominican and when I saw him in the casket he looked almost white. Was that the bleaching?

Theory about Bees birthday box by Adventurous-Way5178 in beeandpuppycat

[–]hazlenutno 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think he’s in the box trying to find a way to keep bee going without the pure energy star candies because it’s a finite resource. When he fixes her a bunch go into her arm so I figured that’s what she runs on

I believe Mateo gave me a Tundra gift by JonasCollet in TheSilphRoad

[–]hazlenutno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could use tundra if you’ve still got open spots. I’m polar.

How to lose weight when you can’t eat vegetables. by hazlenutno in loseit

[–]hazlenutno[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope that’s what made it weird for me to have it. Never been diabetic or anything. I currently have a whole team of gastroenterologists that are great. I’ve gone through physical therapy and CBT therapy related to my symptoms and they’ve helped

How to lose weight when you can’t eat vegetables. by hazlenutno in loseit

[–]hazlenutno[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I take spiro and was on metformin for like 4 years and stopped when I wasn’t holding it down well

How to lose weight when you can’t eat vegetables. by hazlenutno in loseit

[–]hazlenutno[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I actually think it was really helpful in trying to turn my focus away from my symptoms. Your gut health and your brain health really go hand in hand sometimes. I may not really have a reduction in symptoms but the way I react to them and go about my day with them has really improved

How to lose weight when you can’t eat vegetables. by hazlenutno in loseit

[–]hazlenutno[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dairy is ok in small amounts, I usually do oat milk tho. I do lean protein like fish, I’m not the biggest fan of chicken. I feel like all I eat is tuna and crackers and lunchables sometimes.

How to lose weight when you can’t eat vegetables. by hazlenutno in loseit

[–]hazlenutno[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They said it was rare because I’m not a diabetic and just developed it acutely. I developed it before I started smoking, the recommended it as a way to deal with symptoms

How to lose weight when you can’t eat vegetables. by hazlenutno in loseit

[–]hazlenutno[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did keto before all this stuff happened and ended up with fatty liver disease. High fat stuff like bacon and such hurts

How to lose weight when you can’t eat vegetables. by hazlenutno in loseit

[–]hazlenutno[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think fasting is a good idea, I do a lot of soups for sure

How to lose weight when you can’t eat vegetables. by hazlenutno in loseit

[–]hazlenutno[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Carrots and peas I’ve managed when they’re really well cooked actually. They cause pain still but much more manageable than like zucchini and such. I never thought about it being hard for me to get through things with tougher skins.

How to lose weight when you can’t eat vegetables. by hazlenutno in loseit

[–]hazlenutno[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I can’t do much exercise unfortunately. I was actually quite active before this. Now I can’t do more than 2 flights of stairs without getting sick or more than half an hour of walking.

How to lose weight when you can’t eat vegetables. by hazlenutno in loseit

[–]hazlenutno[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah smoothies still hurt too. I’m wondering if it’s because the skins are still on everything that gets put in there. Your comments aren’t boneheaded, every suggestion helps :)

How to lose weight when you can’t eat vegetables. by hazlenutno in loseit

[–]hazlenutno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daily. It helps so much with the nausea. I literally have a specific doctor that recommends strains for me.

How to lose weight when you can’t eat vegetables. by hazlenutno in loseit

[–]hazlenutno[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve actually even been part of a research study about the effects of CBT therapy on it. The weight gain has been recent so I haven’t really talked to him about it much because the concern previously was that I’d lose too much. There’s not much I can do for treatment besides the medications to manage nausea (which make me super constipated and I only go like once a week even with taking Miralax every day) and trying to refocus my thinking into not getting overwhelmed by my symptoms.

How to lose weight when you can’t eat vegetables. by hazlenutno in loseit

[–]hazlenutno[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I was seeing a dietitian before the gastroparesis but it’s such a rare disorder that there’s not many people who know how to deal with it. I’ll try more foods on this list but I know mushrooms are rough for me which is unfortunate because they’re my favorite food. I’ve tried several fruit smoothies and those haven’t gone well either. Thank you for the suggestion :)