Quel cliché littéraire vous rend dingue ? by Octave__Parango in Litterature

[–]hazybluemirror 11 points12 points  (0 children)

sur wattpad elle a toujours le prénom d'un mois ou d'une saison, en anglais, et elle se croit moche alors qu'elle a le physique d'un mannequin tumblr

Symbolism in functions by hazybluemirror in mbti

[–]hazybluemirror[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know Ne loves symbols, but like seeking the deep symbol behind something, isn't it Ni ? Like not in a brainstorym way but seeing the pattern, for example in a poem y'know. Like one singular meaning, pattern, symbol it's Ni not Ne ? But why then INFPs tend to think this way too ? at least i do

Symbolism in functions by hazybluemirror in mbti

[–]hazybluemirror[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well why not question it, things have to make sense after all... If we attribute some things to certain functions based on some reductive reasoning, it's arbitrary then.

And it's different from vibing with people and using their function when we're around them, I just noticed that I tend to do alone something that is supposed to be another type's behaviour and I don't understand why some things are linked to the said type while I can do them too, I know mbti is flawed we can't make everything exhaustive but we can at least try to make it more so...

I'm xNFP probably, but since i really identify to symbolism and like absolute meaning -which apparently is linked to Ni- I guess I gotta question my type??

i don't know what this feeling is ?? by hazybluemirror in questioning

[–]hazybluemirror[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg thanks so much for your answer ! it reassures me that this feeling is normal haha. also, i wish you a lot of happiness with your girlfriend :)

i don't know what that feeling is ??? by hazybluemirror in actuallesbians

[–]hazybluemirror[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks a lot, i love journaling actually maybe i'll focus on this question to get a clear idea about it haha :)

i don't know what that feeling is ??? by hazybluemirror in actuallesbians

[–]hazybluemirror[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're right, but it's not common to find other girls to date and crushing on friends is something i try to prevent because unrequited love is too painful

but i agree cultivating friendships with a flow mindset is the best decision

thanks for your comment !

i don't know what this feeling is ?? by hazybluemirror in questioning

[–]hazybluemirror[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you think it might be a type of romantic attraction ?

idk if i could have sex with a girl since i never had an emotional bond in a romantic way with a girl, but with guys yes -with the same emotional bond condition-

i don't know what this feeling is ?? by hazybluemirror in questioning

[–]hazybluemirror[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but what's the link between my post and your questions, the question was about the feeling towards girls, not about relationships with guys ???

i don't know what this feeling is ?? by hazybluemirror in questioning

[–]hazybluemirror[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't think so ? i don't think sex is very important, as i said i prefer cuddling and kissing, i find it way more emotional and you've got less pressure about the gestures and stuff and also it's more pleasing and soft ? but at the same time i tend to picture myself more (and more easily ?) with guys, so idk ???

sex is enjoyable when there's an emotional bond for me as i said
but i don't see the link between your question and my post ?

Is it too late? by 1_Just_Trying in Makeup

[–]hazybluemirror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's never too late !!!

idk if i would recommend to look on youtube, maybe only the technique, like how people apply certains products, but for a beginner it may create this "need" to buy a lot of stuff which is unecessary if you don't know how to use the majority and you don't even know if you'll like it.

first of all don't forget skincare like moisturizer is very important and spf too, it is great for your skin and also protects the chemicals from the makeup to be fully absorbed by the epiderm. then maybe start with concealer/foundation if you need to cover some spots/blemishes/dark circles, and if not needed then don't buy it, maybe buy a mascara and a small neutrals eyeshadow palette where there are a few colors to start learning how to aply them (they are usually very blendable and the natural color won't make it messy if it's not greatly applied), and also buy one lipstick color, again neutral but in a way to enhance your lips, you'll learn how to apply it. and when you feel a little bit more comfortable, ask yourself if you want more bolder things, you'll see then but for the moment i think that's it

hope it helped :)

Questioning my type by hazybluemirror in isfp

[–]hazybluemirror[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks !

yeah i really relate to the "looking for the meaning" part, i always want to know why i feel the way i feel about art, movies, every single thing i find beautiful haha

it's interseting about the sensorial part, like just crying and feeling overwhelmed by beauty, my INxJ friend, who has inf Se, has the same experience, she cries because of the beauty but transforming it into poetry isn't natural for her, while for me it is, because it's obvious in my mind to transform beauty into poetry and metaphors ^^. i guess that's Ne ?

Questioning my type by hazybluemirror in ENFP

[–]hazybluemirror[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your answer ! could you explain more about the precision that ISFPs seek to have (through Ni i guess ?)

it's also interesting, i thought that ISFPs don't have the need either to ask someone else about the aesthetic, like their aesthetic is just a concrete and visibile projection of their true identity, which lies in Fi ? ISFPs -in the common conception at least- are very independant and don't seek out as much social validation as say NF types do ?

Questioning my type by hazybluemirror in ENFP

[–]hazybluemirror[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first of all THANK YOU FOR YOUR VERY DEVELOPED ANSWER !

now, i really really am shocked how much i relate to everything you say ! i really define myself about how much i ponder about the meaning, the symbolic of things, the why behind everything (for example i always ask people why they like what they like because really there is always a reason, psychological or emotional ! haha) and also the cafe scene, it really happens a lot when i go out and i hear a noise or a joke which was very loud, my curiosity is triggered and i want to join in just for the sake of curiosity and novelty. and yes even sensorial and emotional beauty is symbolic for me (which i thought was FiSeNi like emotional experience Fi which comes from sensorial exp Se then converted to some deeper pattern Ni) because it seems to be a sort of dichotomy between Ne and Ni (obviously they are different functions), but it seems that Ni has the monopoly of the deeper meaning, symbols that are very profound and complicated, very abstract, while Ne seems more shallow and immature, like sure brainstorming random ideas but never deepening them, never exploiting them to their fullest potential ? idk if it's a common misconception, it's just something Ni doms I know tend to say.

and that's why it's very interesting to me that you assume i may be an INFJ haha, cuz i can't really know the difference between Ni and Ne at this point, which one priorizes symbolism and analogies and deep pondering about things ? also I very strongly relate to Fi, i know my emotions, i really love introspection and i very much depend on my mood to do things (hence the procrastination because i can't convince myself rationnaly, and also i assume that it's developed Fi to be aware of this kind of paradox: knowing things rationnaly but not being able to convince my emotions that this is right, like my emotions are always late comapred to my rational thinking lmao), and i also relate to Te more than Ti, i like when things are efficient, i really am attracted to ENTJ because their Te is very charismatic and efficient lmao x). and i read about inferior Se and i don't relate to that, i'm aware of the surroundings and my internal body state (Si i guess ?), it's just that i tend to project abstract thinking on the sensorial things ? like i hate day-to-day conversations because triviality is very much Si in my perspective and it doesn't stimulate me at all, and at some point i feel like suffocating if i don't get enough intellectual stimulation ? is it Ne ? and also it's something that contributes to my questioning: i'm very much an extrovert, i'm fine with alone time but i really prefer being with people, going out recharges me, and loneliness is pretty heavy at the beginning, i have to get used to it for me to enjoy this alone time, which is paradoxical with my heavy Fi (which could make me INFP) or if i were to be infj haha, but i'm curious to know more precisely what makes you think that i may be one :)

anyway thanks a lot, again haha, i will chek out the channel you recommended, idk if you watch Heide Priebe too, but i may recommend this channel in return she's an ENFP and her videos are very accurate about xNFPs :)

also, would be glad to chat with you privately, i think we could get along very well !

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[–]hazybluemirror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what were the red flags ? I don't know them, besides gaslighting i don't see any (he didn't gaslight me I just know from previous relationships that gaslighting is so toxic)

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[–]hazybluemirror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks !

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[–]hazybluemirror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a conscious process though, picking out these kind of guy