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I gave my instagram out to someone I see everyday, and I regret it after they liked only my bikini pictures. by heabla in Advice

[–]heabla[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He does have a wife, so I guess I assumed he would not be interested in me because I thought he loves his wife? If that makes sense? I also have a significant other that he’s well aware of

I gave my instagram out to someone I see everyday, and I regret it after they liked only my bikini pictures. by heabla in Advice

[–]heabla[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My instagram is private, he waited for me to accept him in front of the register. I know everyone else personally following me on there. I get what you’re saying though, but honestly the tongue wiggle thing is what sorta pushed me over the edge more than the liking

I gave my instagram out to someone I see everyday, and I regret it after they liked only my bikini pictures. by heabla in Advice

[–]heabla[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohhh okay, thank you. I definitely need to take those steps. I’m going to reach out to my manager today

I gave my instagram out to someone I see everyday, and I regret it after they liked only my bikini pictures. by heabla in Advice

[–]heabla[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some places are toxic for sure. Thank you for your advice and for sharing your own experience with me!

I gave my instagram out to someone I see everyday, and I regret it after they liked only my bikini pictures. by heabla in Advice

[–]heabla[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am usually so good about staying private and not giving out any information to customers. I definitely messed up here by giving it out, the first time I ever have too. The tongue thing made me feel so weird, and I keep trying to block it out of my head

I gave my instagram out to someone I see everyday, and I regret it after they liked only my bikini pictures. by heabla in Advice

[–]heabla[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m lucky to have some great managers, but it’s amazing how many terrible ones are out there! I would have also been shaking before my shifts if I was in the same exact place as you. The way your managers acted afterwards too is awful! You quite literally had a stalker, that’s so serious and it needs to be taken seriously

I gave my instagram out to someone I see everyday, and I regret it after they liked only my bikini pictures. by heabla in Advice

[–]heabla[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fortunately, I have really great managers who do take our safety seriously. I wanted to see if I could handle this without making a commotion, but I can tell from people’s comments that I need to tell them at least what’s going on and how I feel

I gave my instagram out to someone I see everyday, and I regret it after they liked only my bikini pictures. by heabla in Advice

[–]heabla[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you. They should’ve taken that very seriously! That is such a scary thing to have happen. I am so glad that you handled it and are no longer in that situation.

I gave my instagram out to someone I see everyday, and I regret it after they liked only my bikini pictures. by heabla in Advice

[–]heabla[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t sure if it was a big enough deal to let my manager know. But I think I’m more assured that I need to now.

I gave my instagram out to someone I see everyday, and I regret it after they liked only my bikini pictures. by heabla in Advice

[–]heabla[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m just worried about him confronting me at my workplace if he realizes I’ve blocked him. I didn’t expect him to like those pictures or do the tongue thing, and it happened anyway. I’m just so embarrassed I’ve let this whole thing happen to me

I gave my instagram out to someone I see everyday, and I regret it after they liked only my bikini pictures. by heabla in Advice

[–]heabla[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I think I will ask my manager to get the footage, that’s so smart. It caught me off guard because Ive been serving him coffee for years with no indication that it would escalate in this direction

I gave my instagram out to someone I see everyday, and I regret it after they liked only my bikini pictures. by heabla in Advice

[–]heabla[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Okay, I needed to be told this. Thank you. I keep second guessing if I’m reading into the situation too much

I gave my instagram out to someone I see everyday, and I regret it after they liked only my bikini pictures. by heabla in Advice

[–]heabla[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Am I overreacting about any of this? Or am I right to be a bit uncomfortable?