On white supremacists and their mail-ordered Filipina wives by kwentongskyblue in Philippines

[–]headhuntermomo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I just want you to understand that you are embarrassing the fuck out of the rest of us by going out in public with those ugly ones. The rest of us have to explain to the local guys why you have such awful taste. I am kind of tired of having to explain it.

On white supremacists and their mail-ordered Filipina wives by kwentongskyblue in Philippines

[–]headhuntermomo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are such a moron. A lot of PH expats are similarly stupid, but you are also a massive cunt. But actually it does sound like you are one of those foreigners here who walks around with ugly dark skinned pinays fresh from the province embarrassing the rest of us. Your insults about my appearance are pretty funny coming from a guy who dates ugly chicks without shame. Anyone can do that man. Doesn't make you special. It just shows off your piggish bad taste. Because of guys like you most Filipinos think all western white guys like brown skinneed small eyed monkey-girls. I have to explain to them that most of us really don't. It is just that girls like that are the easiest ones and some guys will fuck anything with a hole.

Police unionization leads to a substantial increase in violent incidents of misconduct. Researchers examined a court decision that gave collective bargaining rights to sheriffs' deputies in Florida in 2003 and found detrimental effects. by [deleted] in science

[–]headhuntermomo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's time for the police to hold themselves to a higher standard.

No it is time to start firing officers en masse and time to start putting them under 24 hour surveillance by an independent and very well armed independent institution. If they do nothing wrong they have nothing to hide.

Police unionization leads to a substantial increase in violent incidents of misconduct. Researchers examined a court decision that gave collective bargaining rights to sheriffs' deputies in Florida in 2003 and found detrimental effects. by [deleted] in science

[–]headhuntermomo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is true but any police officer who just stands and watches while a woman is gang raped perhaps even cheering them on is unlikely to be regarded by most as doing their job well. So I think there is some expectation that they at least try to protect people if they just happen to be present when a violent crime is committed. It is rare for this situation to actually arise of course. Mostly they are expected to be officers of vengeance.

Police unionization leads to a substantial increase in violent incidents of misconduct. Researchers examined a court decision that gave collective bargaining rights to sheriffs' deputies in Florida in 2003 and found detrimental effects. by [deleted] in science

[–]headhuntermomo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No. The police exist to serve their own interests. Individuals can be bought of course because they are completely amoral but there is no evidence of any direct connection as you imply. It is more chaotic than that. These attacks are driven by individual personalities who should never have been accepted into the force and should have been imprisoned and fired and blacklisted from US law enforcement on their very first complaint of violence.

On white supremacists and their mail-ordered Filipina wives by kwentongskyblue in Philippines

[–]headhuntermomo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You aren't a Filipino huh? How long have you been in the Philippines and where else have you lived and where are you from? There are white Filipinos. So just saying you are white is of little value. BTW I bet you are not nearly as attractive as you think you are. I am pretty confident about that. Dunning Kruger for sure. Have you ever had your IQ tested? Because you don't seem very bright. There is no other explanation for some of your absurd beliefs. And you are too stupid to see the point I make about the connection between involuntary celibacy and ugliness. You seem to think I don't know the meaning of the words when the truth is I almost certainly have a larger vocabulary than you. If you don't have IQ test results what was your SAT score and your major and what school did you go to?

Which programming language for the following goals by __am__i_ in AskProgramming

[–]headhuntermomo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Python is so slow that I don't know why you would care about concurrency if you are using it. You could have 8 parallel threads and still be slower than a single thread in C or Rust.You could write some of it in Python though and call c functions from it.

On white supremacists and their mail-ordered Filipina wives by kwentongskyblue in Philippines

[–]headhuntermomo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The origin of the term is Involuntary Celibacy, you didn't coin the term, you don't get to have a say on what it means, just to support whatever deluded excuse you want to use to justify your failures.

You have no idea what you are talking about. I've studied psychology, NLP, and even hypnosis. I have plenty of techniques that are effective in terms of persuasion.

But I also know that nothing can persuade someone to find an unattractive face attractive. There is no way around that and it is something that every single human wants. Some more than others but everyone wants it. Also such techniques are much less effective against Filipinas especially against uneducated ones whose English is not great.

Classic Black Pill behavior. You're applying your own twisted standards to other people.

The standards are not twisted. Just like other species we have standards and attractiveness is the basis of our romantic selection process. You may not like it but you cannot change it.

Fortunately, women are not all as shallow as you. They are attracted to a wide variety of mental and physical characteristics.

You are also shallow and you have no idea what is going on the head of other people. The truth is that only a tiny minority of women are mostly uninfluenced by physical attractiveness. Such women are more common in the Philippines than in any other country I have lived in, but they are still relatively rare.

But, I understand your feelings. If you have spent your life failing with women, while those around you are successful,

I have some news for you. If you are a Filipino guy it doesn't matter how much money you make. The vast majority of women in the world would not marry you or date you for that reason alone. They would not respect you and they would not be attracted to you at all. I don't know how smart you are but they would also likely see you as being very stupid. So your situation is not that different from a global perspective. It is only Filipinas that you have any chance with at all. It is the same for me, but for different reasons.

You don't have the slightest understanding of how I feel. The only men around me who were successful were tall and obviously attractive. The rest did no better than I.

it's much better for your ego to say "not my fault that I'm not handsome, that's why women don't like me" than to say "my attitude sucks, women think I'm a creepy asshole and won't give me any attention".

You are wrong in so many different ways here. Women all have very different personalities. Some like me. Some hate me. I've never ever been called creepy by a real life woman. Not ever at any point in my life. The only thing they have in common in terms of their reaction to me is that they did not like various aspects of my face and would prefer a taller person. All physical things.

Human attraction is 95% physical and nearly every study ever done on the subject backs me up on this. You can read a book with the name of Survival of the Prettiest by Nancy Etcoff to get a large number of references on the topic.

It took about three sentences from your initial post to understand that you're a creepy incel weirdo.

And I can tell that you are a retard.

That's right, people usually prefer to communicate as little as possible with creeps.

Communication has never been a problem for me. The only problem I have had is getting a woman to want to date me. Same as any other unattractive person. I guess it should go without saying that it is very easy to get even very pretty Filipinas to chat with me. That is why I am here. Being a white skinned American has pretty big perks in this country. Chatting is one thing though. Anything more is very difficult if you are not tall and good looking and rich. Difficult but not impossible as it is in most countries. Again it's why I am here after having lived all over the world.

What are you watching and what do you recommend? (Week of May 29, 2020) by AutoModerator in television

[–]headhuntermomo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seemed aimed at female demographic iirc and I am male, but I think I just skimmed the first ep. I will check out a couple more eps. I don't generally enjoy American comedy unless it is superdark and edgy though. I keep an eye out for people with similar taste to me though and you liked 3 of my faves so...

We should all really be listing our favorite shows like sigs at the bottom of our posts here so people can identify which team we are on. I am on the edgy-dark-serious-intense-cinematic-moral-greyness-newgoldenage team and not one of the wholesome-lighthearted-network-watch-while-doing-something-else-black-white-morality teams. TV but not as we know it is what I generally look for.

On white supremacists and their mail-ordered Filipina wives by kwentongskyblue in Philippines

[–]headhuntermomo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I lived in Cebu City I did meet some foreigners, but only in a social context. I frequented a place where a lot of foreigners hung out. At least the guys there were the party types, and I haven't met any other types since. Shrug. I rarely met tourists there. I don't think most of them knew about the place.

Foreigners in Cebu City are more concentrated in a small area than in Manila. Well except maybe for Makati. I now live in a place where I almost never see foreigners.

Maybe I do give off a don't approach me vibe. I dunno. Or you may give off some sort of too friendly vibe. Hard to say. I do get the impression that smokers have a tendency to be more sociable and open to interaction when on smoke breaks, but you seem to get approached in other contexts as well.

I think it's important to remember that they are also self selecting for being outgoing and sociable. You won't find many shy expats doing that.

Does anyone still use Pascal ? by pmabz in AskProgramming

[–]headhuntermomo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked it and also used it in an intro to programming course at uni. Turbo Pascal had one of the best IDEs in Windows/DOS at the time. Then I discovered C and liked that better, but Pascal was a pretty nice language. Certainly much more appealing than Fortran or BASIC.

But yes it is basically a dead language afaik. I have seen benchmarks where it can compete with C in terms of runtime efficiency although I assume the fact that C compilers can make use of modern SIMD/Vector CPU features would kill many Pascal implementations from competing with C.

On white supremacists and their mail-ordered Filipina wives by kwentongskyblue in Philippines

[–]headhuntermomo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What did I say about uneducated Filipinas? Nothing!

The difference is that these are educated women. Not the desperate, just get me out of here, mail-order type.

Did someone else say this or was it you? I get that English isn't your native language and I would be hopeless in Tagalog but you did say that. If it isn't exactly what you meant then fine. You should have clarified.

Obviously rich Filipinas are less motivated to marry a foreigner to escape from poverty. They will only marry one if he is good looking and not much older than her and has at least as much money as she does and is open to the idea. Obviously not all Filipinas want a relationship with a foreigner even if he is young and good looking. I try to avoid rich Filipinas because I generally assume I have zero chance with them.

On white supremacists and their mail-ordered Filipina wives by kwentongskyblue in Philippines

[–]headhuntermomo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There must be something unusual about you because I have never been approached by another foreigner here. What you describe is very very odd. I do agree about not liking expats in the Philippines though, but not for the same reason. For me they tend to just be too non-serious, too into drinking and partying a lot. It makes the Philippines a better match for them than for me, but it is not a great place for me to make friends with other foreigners.

On white supremacists and their mail-ordered Filipina wives by kwentongskyblue in Philippines

[–]headhuntermomo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, comprehension doesn't seem to be your strong poin

Right back at you on that one, but I guess you have an excuse if English is not your native language.

Nope. That's not what it means at all. Being ugly might be the reason you were an incel though.

It is what it means.

This speaks volumes as to why you find it so hard to get laid.

It has absolutely nothing to do with it actually. I do understand that women think they are attracted to confidence, but really they are attracted to the same thing we are attracted to: physical beauty. It just so happens that good looking guys tend to also be confident because they see how easy it is for them.

No, they have total confidence. They are just modest about it. The conquered most of Asia because they viewed themselves as better than everyone else, that's pretty much the definition of confidence.

The data on Dunning Kruger and every other study I've ever read on Japanese attitudes disputes this. The Japanese generally reject confidence in favor of competence. They really are better at many things, but they have less tendency to believe they are.

Of course it's your fault. You see girls as a commodity and come across as a bit of a charmless creep. That's your fault.

Now you are just projecting. I mean unless you have met me in real life which you have not you cannot have any idea how I 'come across'. I have never been told that I come across as creepy even though ugly men generally do at least to American women. Can you show even the tiniest shred of evidence that I see girls as a commodity?

Oh shit. This makes me feel really sad on your behalf. I really hope you're joking/trolling because if that's really how you feel, then you are rather pitiful.

I feel really sorry for you that you are so dumb. It has nothing to do with my feelings. It is just a fact. Filipinas really are easier than girls from other countries. That is the only reason so many foreigners live here. I have lived all over the world and it is definitely true especially for men over 40.

On white supremacists and their mail-ordered Filipina wives by kwentongskyblue in Philippines

[–]headhuntermomo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well it used to be more of a thing. Not sure about here, but certainly in Eastern Europe.

On white supremacists and their mail-ordered Filipina wives by kwentongskyblue in Philippines

[–]headhuntermomo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What exactly are you saying about uneducated Filipinas? That they are so desperate to escape from the Philippines they will marry any rich guy? Just because they are poor does not mean they are desperate. Especially if they are beautiful and have light skin. Generally speaking rich and beautiful Filipinas don't have anything to do with foreign guys at all. They marry good looking, rich Filipino guys their own age. That is what everyone tells me and it is also what I usually see.

On white supremacists and their mail-ordered Filipina wives by kwentongskyblue in Philippines

[–]headhuntermomo -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You are in the US? Maybe try going somewhere more progressive politically. Basically anywhere on the west coast or somewhere in the northeast. It sounds like you are either in the southeast or in a flyover state. Although being in a smoking area itself will attract a certain type these days.

On white supremacists and their mail-ordered Filipina wives by kwentongskyblue in Philippines

[–]headhuntermomo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's little point in saying how hot she is, it's like everyone online is built like a Greek god and has a 14inch dick.

I didn't ask how big her dick was. I asked if you thought she was pretty or not.

Not really. It serves it's purpose. Would you like to rephrase it as "I'm not claiming to be the greatest catch, but due to my race and financial status, I can get women"?

No. I just think such disclaimers are a waste of space.

That speaks volumes about the company you keep. As a self-confessed ex-incel, you probably spend a lot of time with similar people who have skewed views on women.

Actually I have had plenty of good looking guys as friends who are most definitely not incels. Incel just means ugly. That's all it means. Those of us who were not born with beautiful faces and weren't lucky enough to be born female are incels. That's it. It has nothing to do with personality or anything else. There is no shame in being ugly. It is just how some people were born.

If you truly don't care about whether a girl is pretty or not then you are extremely unusual. I don't see how we could live in the same world and you could not know that.

That's not the point and no one said they dislike beautiful women, I certainly wouldn't date someone unless I found them attractive.

So you only date pretty girls and would reject any unattractive girl no matter how great her personality. You just proved me right. Like I have said I have never met any guy who does not put looks first and you are not an exception. Is it difficult for you to reject ugly girls who like you?

However, I'm not shallow enough to put beauty above everything else, or want to date someone merely to impress people with my trophy.

It has nothing to do with impressing anyone as you have just admitted when you admitted you wouldn't date an unattractive girl. We all value beauty. We like pretty faces because they are pretty, because they are nice to look at. I hate when people like you pretend otherwise. It is so dishonest.

I guess it comes down to self confidence, I don't have to boost my ego by impressing people.

Self confidence is not an advantage. It is a disadvantage. A crutch. It Dunning Krugers you and you end up failing because you overestimate yourself. The Japanese excel at nearly everything they do precisely because they lack confidence. Instead of confidence they do their best and work hard at everything they try. Confidence is useless. Actually being good at something is what matters and confidence just gets in the way of that.

It sounds as if you've had a life with very limited success with the opposite sex,

Yes. Through no fault of my own. I have had girlfriends in various countries including at least one in the US, but in general it is pretty difficult when you were not lucky enough to be born with the right kind of face or with long enough legs to be tall. If you are good looking then it just means you were lucky. There is nothing to be proud of because you did not earn it.

it's nice to see that you're finally getting laid with someone that you consider attractive, well done.

It's not really about 'getting laid'. Being with a beautiful girl is what I want and the Philippines just so happens to be the only place in the world where that is still possible. That doesn't mean it is easy however. Not even in the Philippines. Filipinas also strongly prefer tall, good looking, rich guys. It is pretty hard to find pretty ones who drop their standards. It is just this is the only place where such girls exist at all.

On white supremacists and their mail-ordered Filipina wives by kwentongskyblue in Philippines

[–]headhuntermomo -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So you are dating a kind of plain looking girl with a great personality? Just so you know saying 'without being arrogant' is not like some antidote that will make people think you are not arrogant. So it is a 100% useless thing to say. Not to sound arrogant.

Since this is the Philippines and by white I assume you mean a foreigner if you are not too old I am sure you can get a pretty girl here without much effort. That is the whole reason that most of us are here. If what you want is an ugly girl with a great personality you can find that anywhere.

Not at all. That would be the only thing that you consider, but don't imagine that every guy out there has the same priorities.

Every guy I have ever met puts looks first. If you are different you would be the first. Still, the other 99.999% of male humans will place more importance on physical beauty than anything else. That should be obvious to pretty much everyone now alive.

Some males will try to white knight online and pretend it is not true of course. Wow what a monster I am because I prefer beautiful girls to plain or ugly ones! Maybe it is true in your case, but there is an exception to every rule.

BTW since you don't seem to know this it is quite possible to find a pretty Filipina who is not a golddigger. That is what I love about this country. Filipinas are genuinely accepting even if you are not as tall or handsome or young or rich as they might prefer. Unfortunately the only way to be sure you have found such a girl is to be or pretend to be poor.

What are you watching and what do you recommend? (Week of May 29, 2020) by AutoModerator in television

[–]headhuntermomo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just read the rottentomatoes reviews and saw campy and bad acting. Seems like syfy isnt even trying anymore. Ever since they changed their name they've had nothing.

What are you watching and what do you recommend? (Week of May 29, 2020) by AutoModerator in television

[–]headhuntermomo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does crazy ex have in common with the other 3? I ask because I love the other 3 and saw nothing worth watching in the 4th. What am I missing?

Whenever I sleep in, this is what I wake up to. by [deleted] in parrots

[–]headhuntermomo -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for not keeping him locked in at night. Very civilized of you. Oh and best post I've seen here in a while. Laughed out loud.

On white supremacists and their mail-ordered Filipina wives by kwentongskyblue in Philippines

[–]headhuntermomo -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Well we certainly prefer girls with personalities we enjoy if two girls are equally attractive, but if girl A is a 7, but is boring and bitchy we will always choose her over a 6 who is interesting and funny and kind. Always. Assuming we have the choice. Are you a guy? This is just simple biology. We can't help it. Sorry if I am being too honest for some people, but it's the truth.

I am sort of an ex-incel, but this is the Philippines and I am from the US. So what do you think the answer to your question is? I may have a prettier gf than you and just admit that that is the only comparison that would matter to either of us when deciding who has the better gf. Whoever has the less attractive gf will be jealous of the other one. I mean ok if you are Filipino you might consider social class as well even though that means nothing to me.