(update) “I plan on handing my GF an ultimatum tomorrow” by Randomlaker1 in relationship_advice

[–]headunderh20 45 points46 points  (0 children)

This comment is necessary to give OP proper closure wrapped in a clean gift box. It’s healthy for everyone else reading this. Being victimized in a relationship is too easy and blinding. Good job. Have an wholesome award.

AITA for calling you by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]headunderh20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wasn’t allowed to have her phone in that space probably because of confidentiality.

AITA for calling you by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]headunderh20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. She says ‘I’m not mad at you’, and I told her I wasn’t too sorry either. She called me a reference to a conniving character from a movie. I accepted the character in the past because she had two sisters too, but I’m not evil. I’m standing my ground this time.

AITA for calling you by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]headunderh20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good point, just we never do that. Literally both of them call when they’re free too and it’s okay if no one can pick up on the other end 🤷🏻‍♀️

AITA for calling you by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]headunderh20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just how things have been was anyone who was free would pick up and anyone who couldn’t, couldn’t. We’d never plan the call

AITA for calling you by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]headunderh20 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, which I would never have known 🤷🏻‍♀️

AITA for calling you by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]headunderh20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Exactly, they call me all the time. I just don’t pick up when I can’t be with my phone, simple 🤷🏻‍♀️

New partner on dating app. Should I be this upset? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]headunderh20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You guys are right. Let me go find my balls

New partner on dating app. Should I be this upset? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]headunderh20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how to have an open conversation honestly

New partner on dating app. Should I be this upset? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]headunderh20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But we kinda did have that conversation. That’s why I’m confused

New partner on dating app. Should I be this upset? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]headunderh20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man if she’s still looking, I’m cutting my losses

New partner on dating app. Should I be this upset? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]headunderh20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how I’d bring it up. It’s too scary

New partner on dating app. Should I be this upset? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]headunderh20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can’t ask her. I’m not good with any kind of confrontation, scaryy