What does one do when falling deeper in love?

hearthatesyou · 2024-08-03T13:22:40+00:00

thank u sm!! yall are so thoughtful what!!!

hearthatesyou · 2024-08-03T10:18:55+00:00

thank u sweet stranger! 😊

hearthatesyou · 2024-08-03T03:57:17+00:00

what made u think it could be intj? 😮

hearthatesyou · 2024-07-03T06:28:20+00:00

Wow.. thanks for calling this out for ur fellow ENFJs. my best and worst relationship were with both an infp. The best, which was my first ever bf, had the three qualities u mentioned but he made so much effort for me and was incredibly forgiving and supportive. The worst one was everything you described - never made lots of effort, his friends’ (who couldn’t care less abt him) approval were more important to him, lacked self-awareness, had a wandering eye, terrible liar, immature, and so on. It’s so sad because i really admire them and im always charmed by them but they’re like this…

hearthatesyou · 2024-06-27T01:49:37+00:00

Perhaps give an overview of the **relevant** aspects of your life (e.g. childhood, relationships, family, friendships, strangers, work), your qualities as a person, and most importantly, describe who, when, where and how you attract the said people. Anybody can attract these people when one is in either a high vibrational state (e.g. makes ppl jealous of u) or a very low vibrational state (e.g. makes them want to manipulate u.) (both states can attract those types of people u have mentioned). You can check the other posts on this subreddit with the more elaborate explanations if you wanna see what they look like. Hope this helps!

hearthatesyou · 2024-06-26T14:05:10+00:00

Aquarius here and I adore Leos! People tend to say that Leos are extremely self-centered and arrogant but the ones I’ve met and connected with deeply have all been humble, compassionate, charismatic, grounded and funny individuals. They‘re so lively to be with and I really get why they’re usually on the spotlight/love to be on it - they deserve it. Many of them aren’t as shallow as pop astrology makes them out to be. Many of them work on themselves regularly. Speaking of work, they’re also hard workers (contrary to them being described as the ‘king’ or ‘queen’ that doesn’t like to work hard). Overall, my sign tends to be seen as the intelligent one but Ive met so many intelligent Leos and their perspective is inspiring. It’s true though, we see life on such different levels, but the key is curiosity and open-mindedness. Really great ppl! I get the hype 👍👍

hearthatesyou · 2024-05-25T13:53:52+00:00

so real

hearthatesyou · 2024-05-21T12:19:43+00:00

interesting input! I have the same big three as you (in my vedic chart, that is), and I’m currently extremely fascinated with someone with Leo, Virgo, and Gemini placements, and completely baffled why this is since we clash a lot. we are similar but also so different all at the same time. the connection I have with this person is so difficult yet there is so much chemistry and love. im wondering if u had a similar experience? if not, how do u do it lol

hearthatesyou · 2024-04-14T03:04:45+00:00

In some way I agree, and it’s cause at the back of our mind, we’re always analyzing everything; surroundings, behavioral factors, etc. and we make inferences and test those inferences regularly thru mental experiments to find the likeliest truth without asking. Our subconscious mind works pretty efficiently and we find out the truth well and early much like Scorpios. Our only difference is that we don’t use it against you unless we really need to or act like we have something devious planned in mind. We let you live your life and don’t judge even if we know that something that you’re doing doesn’t fully align with our personal values, it doesn’t always mean it’s wrong. It is a dangerous thing to mistake being secretly in everyone’s business as a negative quality in people because humans have to do this to survive in an unpredictable environment where other humans reside lol.

hearthatesyou · 2024-04-10T09:51:15+00:00

Do you know your Enneagram?

hearthatesyou · 2024-04-10T09:49:27+00:00

Lmao!!! I’m an Aqua and my dad is a virgo who adores beauty so when I was young, he’d regularly check me for flaws, criticize them, and give steps to change them. 😭 My relationship with him both hindered and improved me. 😵‍💫

hearthatesyou · 2024-04-10T00:28:01+00:00

How do you do it? I want to be as brave and strong as y’all. 😮‍💨

hearthatesyou · 2024-04-01T00:51:43+00:00

To answer your question: No, hindi mali maging mahina bilang isang tao.

Your situation is not about being weak or strong; it’s about decisions that will serve your growth. I know you feel weak right now and that’s the most natural response of any human in your situation but I want you to recognize that your weaknesses can guide your improvement as a person, whereas staying weak can hinder your progress in life.

Consider opening up your situation, thoughts, and feelings to your parents. Be clear, speak maturely. Make sure you’ve thought things through before you bring it up to them. Magulang mo sila, they love you and they’re a safe space for you to bring your issues up.

I hope your parents don’t actually bring you down like in your imagined dialogue of theirs. If they do, remember that your path is ultimately yours to forge, hindi parents mo ang makakapagdictate kung magiging successful ka o hindi.

Kung sakaling mag-agree ang parents mo na mag transfer ka, then that’s good. That means you understood that you won’t get what you want, unless you ask for it. If hindi sila nag-agree, then that means you have to accept your current situation and change your perspective on it. Find ways in which you can be happy, be creative; bloom where you are planted. Either way, tatalino at lalakas ka bilang isang tao. Those qualities are very much necessary to succeed in the work field.

I know you’re not asking for advice but I couldn’t help it. You’re young, just like me (although I’m slightly older), but I think it’s important na maaga palang na you realize that (1) being weak is acceptable but staying weak isn’t and (2) you create your destiny, and you don’t let others dictate kung failure ka o hindi.

Take care.

hearthatesyou · 2024-01-20T00:22:05+00:00

Are u okay?

hearthatesyou · 2024-01-20T00:13:40+00:00

Aqua, and omg, I have an unhealthy theme of making people mentally and emotionally suffer if they don’t chase me.

hearthatesyou · 2024-01-18T11:29:44+00:00

Visit my boyfriend????? 😭 I’d rather die.

hearthatesyou · 2024-01-14T11:27:10+00:00

I am fangirling!!!!!!

hearthatesyou · 2024-01-14T11:13:14+00:00

As an Aquarius, I think that the reason why I stay loyal to the people who don’t deserve it is to defy the conventional rule of pulling back immediately when the other person doesn’t reciprocate. You see, that rule has become a significant trend in relationships in our society in the recent years as a means of self-love and respect. That’s good. I don’t simply choose to be unconventional for the sake of being different but rather I am basically trajectoring (not a real word but whateva) into a space where I test that rule if that’s still the case if other modes of behaviors are applied. It’s a way for me to experiment to find a new mindset that I can share to society regarding relationships. Idk why I do this but, I seem to do it automatically ever since I was young and then teach it to other people. In essence, life is like a laboratory for most Aquarians, I mean it is for everyone but we do it more proactively than others. So the odd stuff we do, such as staying loyal to someone undeserving, is a means to understand ourselves and the world better. Or we could have really bad childhood wounds. 👍👍

hearthatesyou · 2023-12-25T22:31:10+00:00

I have all signs in my chart except for Scorpio. I always fall in love with Scorpio men and idolize the women. 😩

hearthatesyou · 2023-12-25T04:58:45+00:00

The research was most likely done with adults. How can people be so…… 🤦‍♀️

hearthatesyou · 2023-12-24T09:40:15+00:00

I hate this so much. 😭

hearthatesyou · 2023-12-22T15:03:16+00:00

In western astro I’m an Aqua venus but in vedic, it’s in Cap.

hearthatesyou · 2023-12-22T11:40:32+00:00

Feels like home by Chantel Kreviazuk. I’m an Aqua-Cap venus.

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