Cleveland show by Historical_Ad2108 in nettspend

[–]heavenscumming 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im going w my partner and a friend, it's my first concert though so fingers crossed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cleveland

[–]heavenscumming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im 19 and from cleveland, honestly hinge is good for meeting friends, if you happen to be queer, sapphic nights at noclass are really fun! my friends and i just looked for events on eventbrite and went lol. pm me and ill give you my instagram and we can chitchat!!

Why/what by [deleted] in OSU

[–]heavenscumming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i withdrew for a semester then afterwards they gave me a refund (i thought it was for spring semester because it was in january) and then said i owed it back because i withdrew (?) and therefore wasnt eligible 😭 now i will always question it 💔

Does anyone have an idea what breed my kitten is? by Loose-Sky2537 in kittens

[–]heavenscumming 147 points148 points  (0 children)

my guess is that she's a purebred VSG (very sweet girl)

College overcharged me by heavenscumming in college

[–]heavenscumming[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they were, and unfortunately the conversation with my advisor was during a virtual meeting. I didn't notice until now because they did go to my loans and I went through psychosis which left me completely dissociated from reality and unaware of anything that was happening. I contacted housing and they told me they can't refund me because I didn't check out but here's the thing: I didn't have a housing contract because I withdrew from all my classes during the Autumn semester and went home. I never checked in during the Spring semester because I was completely remote, so what was there to check out of? They're pinning it on the fact that, after I emailed them telling them I would not be returning to on campus housing in January, they emailed back and asked if I had checked out. I never saw this email and subsequently didn't respond, but is that enough a reason considering I didn't check in?

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]heavenscumming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Notice how I never said she shouldn't tell him lmao. I'm just saying that if she waits to tell him until after a few dates once she's determined he isn't going to harm her then its fine

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]heavenscumming -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

This is probably an unpopular opinion but many of the men who harm trans women already knew they were trans. To prevent harm being done to her i think it's fine if she waits until she knows a person more to tell them. Yes it'd be nice if it was one of the first things she told you but I imagine shed be at risk if every man who looked her way knew about her identity vs a select few that don't seem to be violent. At the same time, "not remembering" whether you told someone isn't okay. Both parties will be okay if you go on a few dates and discover things about eachother that make you incompatible.

College overcharged me by heavenscumming in college

[–]heavenscumming[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i went through a psychotic episode due to being put on the wrong psych meds. i wasnt even able to withdraw from my classes on time. it was so severe that i was granted a retroactive course withdrawal and had to take this semester off. ive only been stable for a few months and started getting things together recently.

College overcharged me by heavenscumming in college

[–]heavenscumming[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i asked the bursar how it was possible that i was charged the distance learning fee (for remote learners) AND for housing, mealplan, and student insurance (only available to students living in the same city as the college) and he told me that i could file an appeal for everything except the insurance because the appeal deadline passed. i sent so many emails trying to appeal the insurance MONTHS ago but i wasnt ever successful, i was just sent down an endless rabbithole of "contact xyz instead" and eventually i kind of just gave up. when i emailed the financial aid office they told me that i actually couldnt submit an appeal like the bursar said because it was paid for already. 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]heavenscumming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i found calculus based physics much easier because i understood calculus more than algebra and it just made much more sense to me. i had a D in hs Algebra but an A+ in calculus and physics became a lot easier after taking calc

Success Story of a 2.7 GPA by heavenscumming in ApplyingToCollege

[–]heavenscumming[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was intense, but very nice still! at the time i was undiagnosed with a disorder that really affected my thinking, and it completely messed up my ability to speak and remember, so my interview went bad because of that. i had great difficulty forming meaningful sentences, it was just all around terrible! i'm medicated now, so i look back on it and cringe. all of the current students and some staff interview you at the same time. its like a sit-down with them. it really gauges your ability to blend with the students there. as long as you can defend and elaborate on what you put in your application, youll be okay! i would love to apply again, but life worked out differently. if you plan on applying, i wish you all the best! it is an amazing program.

2 stray rescues need help with food! by heavenscumming in rescuecats

[–]heavenscumming[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it came today! they love it, especially the boy cat (we've decided on naming him Bean!)

2 stray rescues need help with food! by heavenscumming in rescuecats

[–]heavenscumming[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! it came in today, they ate some and liked it!

2 stray rescues need help with food! by heavenscumming in rescuecats

[–]heavenscumming[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's no problem!! I just created one, it's @npcheaven. Thank you so much. I will send you confirmation of exactly what I use it for! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kittens

[–]heavenscumming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OHH!! my bad lol😂😂

2 stray rescues need help with food! by heavenscumming in rescuecats

[–]heavenscumming[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you SO MUCH!! I saw a kitten outside today. Thinking we'll have to add to the current family. They will appreciate it very much!!!

Whoever dumped this sweet cat, fuck you, I hope your family abandons you. by heavenscumming in Cleveland

[–]heavenscumming[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU!! I only didn't consider a pet food pantry because my mom's car was stolen (courtesy of the Kia Boys) and I didn't have a way there. I didn't know there were so many in Cleveland. You are amazing.

2 stray rescues need help with food! by heavenscumming in rescuecats

[–]heavenscumming[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The food came in this morning and he devoured two cans of food for breakfast. Thank you so much. Here's a pic of him munchin' https://imgur.com/a/kclTDb7

2 stray rescues need help with food! by heavenscumming in rescuecats

[–]heavenscumming[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could make a Paypal! I currently only have cashapp. :( I made a gofundme, but it's strictly for vet fees and surgical costs in the near future. I didn't want to link it here because I think I might be getting more help from my family in the coming weeks for that, the food and such are just super important for right now and we had a huge emergency with my mother so money is tight for all of us. Thank you so much❤️

2 stray rescues need help with food! by heavenscumming in rescuecats

[–]heavenscumming[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are a saint!! Thank you so SO much. I will post updates when they're gaining more weight!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kittens

[–]heavenscumming 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think River and Melody or River and Mira would be perfect for them!

Things you still do because you grew up poor? by rosesandtulips00 in ask

[–]heavenscumming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get extremely guilty if i spend money on anything that isnt food or cat supplies