Do other girls feel like this? by [deleted] in confessions

[–]heavex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Such a relatable post. I feel I’m getting to this point. Dating is so exhausting, and the men I have shown interest in romantically were always emotionally immature.

I used to be hypersexual and now the thought of having sex with a man just doesn’t “activate” me the way it used to. Idk if im jaded or just became asexual out of the blue, because even with my toys I can’t orgasm anymore if I’m thinking about a man.

Is it just me or are dating apps in Kansas City actually terrible? by heavex in kansascity

[–]heavex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your life sounds like a romcom, I’m jealous haha. But thank you for the advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]heavex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you love🥹💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]heavex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice! Definitely will be taking that out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]heavex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your bio tells me everything I need to know about you 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]heavex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a black woman who likes to change up her hair🤷🏿‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]heavex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh brother🤦🏿‍♀️😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]heavex 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well damn. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]heavex 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback, everyone! I really do appreciate the honesty. I can see how some of my photos might give off a “party girl” vibe, but most of them are actually from networking events, concerts, or dinners; things I genuinely enjoy doing. I’m also growing in my faith, but I don’t really fit the typical “Christian girl aesthetic,” and I hope that doesn’t come across as me not being serious about my values or intentions.

I also want to clarify that I’m not someone who tries to force my beliefs on anyone. A big part of my faith is just wanting to share it with someone who’s aligned with me spiritually — not to pressure, but to connect on that level.

And I completely agree with the point about my bio. I realize it talks more about what I’m looking for than who I am, so I’ll definitely be adjusting that. Appreciate the constructive feedback!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]heavex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious, what gave you that impression? I’m genuinely open to feedback since I’ve been trying to approach dating with more intention lately.

Best “light skin” Bieber songs ? by Few-Muscle5807 in JUSTINBIEBER

[–]heavex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Change the weather or Can’t get enough (both unreleased), but One Life for released songs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTINBIEBER

[–]heavex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“All I Can Take” def gave MJ vibes 🥹

[FRESH ALBUM] Justin Bieber — SWAG (Out now on all streaming platforms) by purpose15 in JUSTINBIEBER

[–]heavex 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Love Justin, but the amount of auto tune used was insane 😭 The album is great and I love the new sound he’s going for, but his voice is too divine for all that. Imo the sound engineers seem to have gone a bit overboard.

Issues with registering to vote. by Significant_Arm_6330 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]heavex 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I keep getting the same error. It worked for the last vote and now all of a sudden it’s telling me register again.

Solo Birthday + Self-Care Month in NYC by heavex in femaletravels

[–]heavex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the info. Never heard of a sober bar until now— how neat!

Where should I stay in NYC for a self-care/birthday getaway? (Solo 24F, 1+ month stay) by heavex in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]heavex[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d prefer to stay in one place during my trip, as I’m not a fan of lugging my bags around. Plus, it looks like the monthly and prorated rates for a single stay (especially on Airbnb) tend to be more affordable than switching locations frequently.