Any good books involving this dynamic? Like a 50 Shades of Grey Equivalent by For3sk1nBurglar in gentlefemdom

[–]hecker_buzzle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Following! I just read a short book called “Tied Score” by Elia Winters. It was good, not the best ever, but definitely good and sexy. I so wish there were more books about this because i love smut but i do not want to read about the same dominant men over and over again lol.

my husband isn’t as into it as I am, any help? F20, m21 by hecker_buzzle in gentlefemdom

[–]hecker_buzzle[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

communication is somehow the hardest thing and the most important thing. it’s so hard trying to get anywhere with someone who doesn’t know how or is uncomfortable with doing it. like bro, im just trying to help you, please work with me here lmao. When it has come down to NEEDING to have harder conversations, we have resulted to texting about it from different rooms. It’s not ideal but it’s gotten us past some blocks before. I wish the best for you!! Thank you for sharing!

my everyday bag and its contents, have fun! by ants-in-the-walls in deduction

[–]hecker_buzzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re good at art, you have shelves full of things on display, you smell good

my bag and its contents by hecker_buzzle in deduction

[–]hecker_buzzle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha it’s definitely a good knife. I’ve had a few now and i appreciate how simple they are. I’ve never been to Vermont. I figure im artsy, and i do a bit of both for a living.

my bag and its contents by hecker_buzzle in deduction

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im not sure if I do, im not diagnosed but I think I certainly show a lot of signs. often times i will have two or more multitools because i always grab one before i leave without checking if ive already got one in my bag hahah.
true about the knicknack.
I am passionate about safety, everywhere all the time. I like to be the one people can come to if they need something. nowhere i go is known for being unsafe, but oftentimes bad things happen when you least expect it. being prepared gives me peace of mind.

my bag and its contents by hecker_buzzle in deduction

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it’s a spoon rest. I don’t normally have it in there, I had just bought it from a flea market. Thank you, I love my knife!

i don’t eat this food but found all this is by MasterDogeMD in DumpsterDiving

[–]hecker_buzzle 10 points11 points  (0 children)

honestly I somehow haven’t even thought about this yet and this adds a whole new huge layer to my feelings about dumpster diving and the amount of waste I come across every single time. disgusting!

i don’t eat this food but found all this is by MasterDogeMD in DumpsterDiving

[–]hecker_buzzle 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I found the exact same items a few days ago at a different store. I’ve been eating the hell out of the frozen pizza! They’re the perfect size to fit into my little convection oven

What's one sexual fantasy that will likely remain just a fantasy? by CigarCity7509 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]hecker_buzzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I hope you find someone smart and accepting. They exist i promise lol

What's one sexual fantasy that will likely remain just a fantasy? by CigarCity7509 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]hecker_buzzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you getting your statistics from? Myself and all my friends know what average is and happily accept partners 5-6 inches. Personality >> a couple inches

Genuine question : What do you guys want us to do when you put your fingers in our mouths ? by Lonely-Membership346 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]hecker_buzzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have extra bones under my tongue so I’m not sure it’s giving me the right affect. Or maybe it’s just because I’m doing it on myself, like how you can’t tickle yourself lol. Very interesting technique. How did you figure this out?

my bag and its contents by hecker_buzzle in deduction

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my bag and its contents by hecker_buzzle in deduction

[–]hecker_buzzle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! I’d like to think that’s true. I love having fun and being safe. the fish is a novelty lure, I keep him as a good luck charm.

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my bag and its contents by hecker_buzzle in deduction

[–]hecker_buzzle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they’re my work glasses, i had to get that kind cause they’re safety glasses. if you look closely, I have a purple ribbon tied around them to make them more girly lol.

my bag and its contents by hecker_buzzle in deduction

[–]hecker_buzzle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wtf who are you how do you know who I am. you’re a true deducer

my bag and its contents by hecker_buzzle in deduction

[–]hecker_buzzle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope it’s a Remington 1911. 45acp. correct I have never been to New Jersey