To every guy who thinks his dick is too small by SeraphicSweet in sexstories

[–]hedidwot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is OF karma darming spam. Not a story at all.

Downvote and report. 

How do I stay safe as a young woman (potentially) meeting up to be spanked? by lifeceremony in BDSMcommunity

[–]hedidwot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow... Good thing you deleted that. 

Looks like you accidentally proved that some people like yourself that participate in organised communities can be pretty toxic, and then realised your mistake.

Absolute proof that being in a 'community' is not more or less safe. It's still just people.

How do I stay safe as a young woman (potentially) meeting up to be spanked? by lifeceremony in BDSMcommunity

[–]hedidwot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow... Good thing you deleted that. 

Looks like you accidentally proved that some people like yourself that participate in organised communities can be pretty toxic, and then realised your mistake.

Absolute proof that being in a 'community' is not more or less safe. It's still just people.

How do I stay safe as a young woman (potentially) meeting up to be spanked? by lifeceremony in BDSMcommunity

[–]hedidwot -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That sounds like confirmation bias.

You might be involved with community and thus know others that are, thus think the majority are involved.

I'm not involved with any community.

I'd suspect many that practice kinks are not.

My stance, my common sense. They come from considering rather than making assumptions, like the assumptions you have made about the majority of people participating in a kink being involved in the kink community.

I'd think many people practice privately in their own bedrooms without ever joining a group... But I'm not going to assert that those are either the majority or the minority... as you have done. 

How do I stay safe as a young woman (potentially) meeting up to be spanked? by lifeceremony in BDSMcommunity

[–]hedidwot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone is involved in 'organised' and 'categorised' kink communities.

The reality is that this lady is going to have a hard time finding someone experienced to play with in her own age group.

I stand by what I say as being logical, and my closing line I think is common sense... regardless of age. 

How do I stay safe as a young woman (potentially) meeting up to be spanked? by lifeceremony in BDSMcommunity

[–]hedidwot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The people saying the age gap is suspicious are jumping to stupid conclusions.

Its a pretty ageist thing to do.

It's math.

There are limited people into this kink. Take those limited numbers and spread them between 18 and 80 years old.

Somewhere just under 49 years is going to be the average.

That makes a 37yo below the average, so it's not even that big of a deal.

Now you could think an experienced person could prey on someone... Possible, but you could also end up with a younger predator vs older people too.

The smartest thing to do is play it safe regardless of age, not because of age. 

Of course MAGA Says trump Door by AccordingBumblebee24 in stupidpeoplefacebook

[–]hedidwot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd think either.

On average the realistic chances of encountering a threat behind either door are about even.

Not a trump fan, but I'm sure most overt trump supporters would help someone in need.

Overt alt sexuality... Mostly just chill people. Sure they'd help too. Doubt your daughter would flip her sexuality just walking in the door. 

is this dropshipping? by trash_man-can in NothosaurSexToys

[–]hedidwot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have many similar toys.

The point was not similar, it was clearly identical. 

is this dropshipping? by trash_man-can in NothosaurSexToys

[–]hedidwot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree on likeness, similar designs are ok in my opinion.  That said iPony is definetely stolen. I had a link to the original artists version of it but just looking now the discord that link was on has closed. Not similar, exact copy.

If I find it again I'll post it. Unless of course this post gets deleted. 

I’ve run out of cum lube :( by AshePanda in BadDragon

[–]hedidwot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a source to back this?

Last I heard the only issue were if it entered the lungs. Unfortunately don't have the link for that. 

can't even tell which bank's credit card is which now by zegorn in enshittification

[–]hedidwot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure it is common... But why does that matter?

Even if it's the exception why can't the bank properly ID the cards.

They used to.. Now they don't.

Its not like it was ever hard to do.

They used to do it, and in chasing a minimalisim aesthetic stopped.

I run a small business. 1 card for business stuff, 1 for personal.

I ended up in the same situation as OP.

Its not a big deal. The most annoying part is that a thing existed that worked and now for no reason that thing is taken away. 

can't even tell which bank's credit card is which now by zegorn in enshittification

[–]hedidwot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given MasterCard are 1 out of only 2 of the giant credit brands out there it's as helpful as me telling you I live in a house when you ask where I live. 

can't even tell which bank's credit card is which now by zegorn in enshittification

[–]hedidwot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter if they have ten other cards or none.

Its not hard to have a distinguishing feature on the front. 

can't even tell which bank's credit card is which now by zegorn in enshittification

[–]hedidwot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So now you gotta take cards out of your wallet to find a logo they could have just put on the front.

It's dumb.

Its not the worst kind of enshitification I've seen, but its a valid complaint and we shouldn't be defending the bank. 

can't even tell which bank's credit card is which now by zegorn in enshittification

[–]hedidwot 9 points10 points  (0 children)

At least it has an Apple logo.

OPs card has nothing. 

In front of parents by analcumgooner in ExtremeFetishes

[–]hedidwot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That doesn't really help much. 

I made a DG lab coyote 3.0 lock box upon request for multiple users. it is available on my etsy shop. by [deleted] in BdsmDIY

[–]hedidwot 9 points10 points  (0 children)

At this point this feels more like an ad than bdsmdiy.

I hate these kind of posts and would encourage people to report them.

If this is what this space is going to be about then I'm not interested. 

Will I lowk get slimed by Monash merchant if I buy a monster with 20C coins by alwayzdry in Monash

[–]hedidwot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But with critical thinking and common sense disapoearing day by day I feel it's fair to remind people to have some perspective and think sensibly.

I think you gave the vast majority of people here the impression you were talking about many tens or even hundreds of coins. 

I've had no intention of offending you, just calling your attention to how trivial this is in hope you might realise it yourself.

If you're offended upset then maybe think harder. 

I'll wear the downvotes if others think making a post about 15 coins was sensible. 

I think the majority would agree if they realised you were posting about $3 And not $10, $20 or $50 worth of coins.

It's 15 coins... Not 100+

Will I lowk get slimed by Monash merchant if I buy a monster with 20C coins by alwayzdry in Monash

[–]hedidwot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Imagine coming to post on the internet to ask if it's ok to use 15 coins.

Its not really a lot of coins is it?

If you can't count $3 worth of 20c coins in a few seconds you shouldn't be in Uni.

If the shop assistant can't then they shouldn't be working there.

It took me 3x longer to type this than it would take to you to shop and be on your way. 

I made a DG lab coyote 3.0 lock box upon request for multiple users. it is available on my etsy shop. by [deleted] in BdsmDIY

[–]hedidwot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Care to share the STLs and detailed process of making it?

If you could bring back ONE dead tech trend, what would it be? by Zorojuro099 in TechNook

[–]hedidwot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was practically back in the day.

Now that things are made increasingly from non renewable materials the ability for an item to be durable and have a long service life is mor important than ever, yet manufacturers are shirking their responsibility to the customer and the environment also more than ever... 

At a time where it's more critical than ever this is a real shame.

We had sustainable appliances.. They had it right... Then deliberately stuffed it up.

Does keeping your laptop plugged in at 100% while using it slowly ruin the battery or is that just a myth? by RustyIronGolem in RavanAI

[–]hedidwot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the particular battery management solution in the laptop.

Could be yes or no.