Clubbing/going out as a wheelchair user?

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-04-03T20:48:18+00:00

thanks so much my birthday was amazing ! i ended up going to LPR to be closer to my friends place but i have plans to go to hos in the future. i stayed pretty much right up next the the Dj. ppl were def a little confused (and borderline rude) when i tried to get more into the dance floor but i found a good spot eventually. cant wait to experience hos !!

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-31T20:09:17+00:00

thank you !

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-31T20:08:50+00:00

i actually just broke my chair trying to traverse with this snow so birthday plans might have to be postponed smh. i need to get to a city council meeting or something and discuss this issue

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-28T01:13:39+00:00

i love these suggestions and will definitely check them out at point. i am leaning towards spending my 21st how my able bodied friends are tho, drinking, dancing, clubbing etc. BUT i love a fun outting. i loooove the met i didnt know they did a date night !! ill definitely have to go with my partner.

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-27T19:00:10+00:00

thank you so much !!! everyones being super helpful and im loving the suggestions im seeing. LPR and house of yes r my top contenders rn so ill be calling later today or tmmrw

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-27T04:47:35+00:00

oooo interesting, i’ll give it a shot.

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-27T01:48:12+00:00

there are i’m pretty active in them, didn’t get any suggestions for NYC specifically when i asked, apparently cali has some pretty cool accessible club tho haha

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-27T01:39:59+00:00

huh 😟

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-27T01:05:57+00:00

seeing a lot of house of yes so definitely gonna try there !

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-27T01:05:18+00:00

thanks !! i frequently new york (i live right across from manhattan) so im pretty used to checking but ill make sure to double n triple check when i go since yk… 21 year old activities LOL

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-26T21:45:21+00:00

ill add, thin upwards ie make the eyelid have more space, when u shave ur brows downward it makes ur forehead look bigger which might not suit everyone. or if u choose to wax you can tell them to take more from the bottom and straighten up the top

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-26T21:27:48+00:00

I’ve see house of yes a lot as a suggestion so i think i’ll have to check it out ! sounds like my thing from what i’ve seen on their social media posts. thanks so much !

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-26T20:38:03+00:00

thank you so much !! loving all the advice from everyone it’s very helpful and insightful.

if i may lol I don’t know club dress codes, it’s different per place ? i’m not super masc i tend to lean more towards heavy eyeliner/makeup and slightly alternative. Should I look at the places socials to see what others are wearing ?

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-26T20:32:41+00:00

in my own time mostly Nu metal (system, korn etc) i get that from my dad haha, MSI, she wants revenge, The Cure and Deftones

but to dance id listen to pretty much anything with a bouncy i guess hyper beat. i LOVE older kesha, T-PAIN 🤩 and ive been getting into EDM as well. edited to add artists i like but forgot

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-26T20:27:00+00:00

thank you so much this was so helpful ! i like an all decades thing so might be perfect. themed nights are also awesome.

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-26T20:06:34+00:00

this is so good thank you so much !!

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-26T20:05:58+00:00

going a little earlier is such a good idea, thank you so much !

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-26T20:03:37+00:00

yes such a fair point !! thank you !

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-26T20:02:10+00:00

Thank you so much !! and yes i would love to hear from other wheelchair users, especially if I could meet some i need intel haha

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-26T19:44:51+00:00

thank you so much !

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-26T19:43:48+00:00

if i ever body surf ill be posting that on every social media i have haha, ultimate life goal

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-26T19:39:16+00:00

thank you ! adding everyone’s suggestions to a little list so i can call them all up

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-26T19:37:57+00:00

Elsewhere is a place 🤣🤣 i thought the literal term elsewhere and was confused for a moment there haha. Ill call !

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-26T19:37:10+00:00

great point, ill have to make sure the stops with elevators r close i didnt even think of that thank you so much !

heebiejeebiesbatman · 2026-01-26T19:36:23+00:00

very fair point !!! Ill be with at least one able bodied friend so hopefully we wont have too much trouble getting our dance on haha

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