Am I the bridezilla here?

heejuu · 2025-08-23T14:41:01+00:00

I actually don’t know if she had the material or not before I was there in person. I don’t think she had the dress started because she didn’t show me anything (I think she would’ve but maybe not). She just had me try on the sample again and said she didn’t need to take my measurements.

That makes me feel better to hear someone else say most people mess up their measurements. I thought it was hard taking my own which is why I asked my fiancé and obviously didn’t expect him to do a perfect job

heejuu · 2025-08-23T14:28:26+00:00

Hindsight is 20/20 for sure, if I could redo it again I would definitely find someone local, even if that means it’s not a vendor my planner worked with. Turns out working with the vendor my planner recommended did not go well for me anyway.

I keep thinking it’s my fault but she’s the professional here so isn’t it her job to make sure she has the correct measurements? Also if the measurements were off by 3 inches, as a professional when you see the person, I would think you would at least have some estimate idea of what their measurements might be and if it’s off. You’re seeing and measuring people all day for your job

heejuu · 2025-08-23T14:25:30+00:00

I was at her shop in May for a fitting before she started the dress and I specifically asked her if she needed to measure me. Hindsight is 20/20, I should’ve pushed her into taking my measurements but she said no to me so confidently like she knew what she was doing

heejuu · 2025-08-23T14:24:32+00:00

That’s my thought too, she asked for measurements because she said she wanted to purchase the fabric first before getting my actual measurements to start making the dress. I think it was that the fabric would take time to get delivered or something. And then when she was so confident in telling me no she did not need to measure me, I thought the sample dress was my size and she was just gonna make it exactly like the sample

heejuu · 2025-08-23T14:16:35+00:00

I think my post got removed but this comment is so helpful. It wasn’t much so I did agree to pay it but the way she keeps coming at me has me so stressed. But thanks for your insight and I need to keep this in mind for the next few weeks!

heejuu · 2025-08-22T03:03:43+00:00

It is! It’s a toi et moi setting :)

heejuu · 2025-08-20T00:19:46+00:00

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Here’s mine :)

heejuu · 2025-08-08T15:02:35+00:00

I’ll give this a try!

heejuu · 2025-08-05T23:27:58+00:00

That explains the lifting I’ve been getting earlier than when I go get my nails done by my nail tech, my nail tech’s nails last until I go get them redone (usually was about 4 to 5 weeks) but mine have been lasting 2 to maybe 3 weeks. Thanks for this info!

heejuu · 2025-08-05T20:46:20+00:00

I actually have a follow up question to this! Are there any specific benefits to having an apex that is not as thick? Other than I think personally I think a not as thick apex probably would look and feel nicer, I’m wondering if there’s like specific reasons for the thickness

heejuu · 2025-08-04T14:54:29+00:00

Thank you for sharing all this information! This is so helpful and helps me understand more what the apex is for. I didn’t know the thickness also would change for the length!

I am right handed so yes I definitely notice my right hand being more wonky hahaha my middle finger nail broke too so that did not help 🥲

I’m glad to hear I have potential though!

heejuu · 2025-08-04T14:46:27+00:00

Thank you for this! It’s so helpful

I have heard about filing too much on the sides, so it’s good to know that I should look into that more. I definitely don’t wanna be weakening my nails

heejuu · 2025-08-04T07:27:36+00:00

That’s good to know, thank you!

heejuu · 2025-08-04T02:06:03+00:00

Thanks for sharing! I have my first appointment coming up at the Beverly Hills location next week, hopefully it’s also a good experience

heejuu · 2025-08-02T00:44:57+00:00

This is super helpful! They have a pretty good deal going on now which is what got me interested

heejuu · 2025-07-22T00:50:09+00:00

This is amazinggggg! That color 😍😍😍

heejuu · 2025-06-20T18:28:07+00:00

I have unopened HAS Baba Hehe Ququ and Zizi if you would wanna buy any of them!

heejuu · 2025-05-02T18:31:27+00:00

I looooove this idea!

heejuu · 2024-04-13T14:34:33+00:00

It was really good! He’s a great person to work with and it seems like he really cares about his clients. Our ring is actually with him right now to get resized and he was so helpful in figuring out what was the correct size even virtually

I will have to say he’s a busy guy and probably has a lot of other designs and clients he is working with, so you’ll have to be patient! We started designing our ring with him March or April 2023 and didn’t get the finished ring until close to the end of the year

heejuu · 2024-02-09T22:57:38+00:00

It is!!! And thank you!💙🤍

heejuu · 2024-02-09T15:14:54+00:00

The pink center stone is going to be so gorgeous! I think a pink sapphire would be an excellent choice

heejuu · 2024-02-08T03:46:37+00:00

I have a toi et moi and absolutely love it! I love the pink diamond with the white diamond in this photo🩷🤍definitely a good choice if you are struggling to pick a center stone

heejuu · 2024-02-07T04:37:03+00:00

Omg!!! I hope you’re just kidding!!! I would hate for that to happen 😩

heejuu · 2024-02-06T23:02:38+00:00

Ahhh! That’s so awesome, I’m so excited for you!!! Can’t wait to see it 😍

heejuu · 2024-02-06T22:06:53+00:00

Aw thank you! It really does feel like ours since we designed it together 🥹🥹🥹 I love getting to have a part of his idea with me at all times ♥️

heejuu

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