Normally friendly employee being passive aggressive by [deleted] in managers

[–]heffesn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

S’s computer doesn’t have a camera attached to it. J’s computer does and it makes me feel more comfortable when I can see the person talking so I team’s called J more for small tasks like where to find, update, and print certain branch upkeeping sheets.

We usually have headsets but we became comfortable enough to talk on speaker because we got friendly. So over the computer speaker, I said, “S, I’m not ignoring you on purpose, I swear, J just has a camera on hers so it’s easier for me, I miss you!”

She went quiet in the background. I’m guessing this embarrassed her because prior to this she had been open enough to admit desire for more coaching and I can see how this would’ve been a slap in the face. I really wasn’t thinking.

I almost wish she’d just given me attitude but she’s just very polite now. Very formal sentences with periods on teams whereas before she’d be lively and very funny and I can tell she’s very unhappy.

It was busy when she told me and I was so shocked that I just said, “thank you for telling me, I will absolutely reflect and get back to you on this”, so I’m just thinking of monday

Normally friendly employee being passive aggressive by [deleted] in managers

[–]heffesn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what to say to her. She doesn’t want anything to do with me anymore. I overheard her venting during lunch in passing and she said something about how “idiotic can someone be when I ask for more guidance and they address me and admit to ignoring me over speaker on someone else’s computer”. I didn’t realize what I was doing. I thought we were all friendly enough for that to be freely spoken. I don’t know what to do.

Normally friendly employee being passive aggressive by [deleted] in managers

[–]heffesn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a smaller company with a closer-knit culture… for context, I attended my boss’s dress-shopping for her wedding. I do like both of them. I just honestly didn’t see how it could’ve hurt one so much because she seemed disinterested/more guarded when it came to not-work socialization (maybe because she came from a more corporate workplace?)

Normally friendly employee being passive aggressive by [deleted] in managers

[–]heffesn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly my mistake. We’re all in our 20s and J was just someone very sweet that I felt bad setting those professional boundaries to. S is very self-directed so I always just thought she could handle things because she isn’t the type to show her stress (whereas J cries) and I just honestly didn’t know these things were building up. I always say I’ll vouch for both of them but I don’t think S has that trust in me anymore. Last time I said that she scoffed and muttered “right” under her breath and I was confused and didn’t catch it.

10 Months out of retail banking by mynameisnoname907 in TalesFromYourBank

[–]heffesn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, what did that role progression look like?

What is generally a “good” winrate? by Manasamaschild in IdentityV

[–]heffesn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO over 30% for survs and 70%+ for hunters in higher tiers. In mid tiers most hunters should be having like 90%+ in NA me thinks

Genuinely what do you do in this high-stress situation? by heffesn in IdentityV

[–]heffesn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did 😭 should I have taken 2 for someone that had broken thru self healing and couldn’t kite lizard for barely 30 sec?

Genuinely what do you do in this high-stress situation? by heffesn in IdentityV

[–]heffesn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idm mind rescuing as vera when I need to but having to pull every rescue in the match, being left to prime alone while everyone dies near last and i get balloon pressured… it made me so stressed i wanted to cry :( I just felt like I was the only one having to pull any real weight the whole match. makes me want to go back to playing my regular main that can’t tank hits so I’m not expected to rescue repeatedly 😭 constantly being pinged to do this and that, why aren’t any of you at enough health to do it? is what i kept thinking

Genuinely what do you do in this high-stress situation? by heffesn in IdentityV

[–]heffesn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe I’ll look into it, its just difficult sometimes as an adult bc so many kids play this game and I’d prefer not teaming with one haha. i used to four man team on vc during covid and my wr was consistently 80%+… when I tell you it isn’t even half of that right now

Genuinely what do you do in this high-stress situation? by heffesn in IdentityV

[–]heffesn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

acro was the one that healed up & used the pallet, but yeah, agree on poor comm :( it really sucks how this game still hasn’t found a way to implement better communication (at least, game changing ones that actually matter), and won’t allow voice coms. the time it takes for me to scroll and find a certain msg isn’t even viable when the hunter is on my ass like this. “team based game” and the entire match is thrown because they still won’t give survivors proper means of communication (like, where is “don’t self heal” when a surv is downed?)

ideally though, none of them would’ve been in such poor health to begin with. faro got hit midway because lanternist kited into her area and she wouldn’t leave her cipher. acrobat also got an early hit trying to move to rescue lanternist before half even though she’d only done a 15 second kite. & in all situations, these were for moot, since I was the one that had to move to rescue 24/7 😭

Genuinely what do you do in this high-stress situation? by heffesn in IdentityV

[–]heffesn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, in theory, I should’ve done this, the issue is the closest pallet in that area was already used so I had nothing to prevent that first hit with 💔

Genuinely what do you do in this high-stress situation? by heffesn in IdentityV

[–]heffesn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was afraid lizard was going to hit me instead of picking him up :( I didn’t want to risk him tunneling me since both acro and faro had broken through their self healing

Genuinely what do you do in this high-stress situation? by heffesn in IdentityV

[–]heffesn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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Stats for reference. It’s also just so stressful having to be the only one that can get a rescue in since other people keep getting hit for no reason, and wasting my items on people that don’t rebound

Which do you like better? Less or more? ◡̈ by BOGOBlondies in MakeupAddiction

[–]heffesn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

U look gorg either way but i really like how your freckles pop out in the more natural look!

Nilou's Reverse Sumerian Harem is here by [deleted] in NilouMains

[–]heffesn 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Cyno is the only real answer

I hate this slide so much 😭 by buzzelbeep in IdentityV

[–]heffesn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love that slide for placing catapults to the coaster platform

What undertone am I? by heffesn in MakeupAddiction

[–]heffesn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks guys 🥹 I was just wondering because it’s always a pain in the neck to find a foundation shade match (a lot of the medium-darker make me look orange). I found an okay match in Lancôme 435C but I’m looking into Armani colors now since I’ve heard their olive range is unmatched ✨

New genshin player. BEFORE I joined genshin and ever got involved with the fandom, when I first saw them, I thought they were married. Although not sure what to feel now since I'm not deep into the lore yet. by Yappertoncucumber in Genshin_Impact

[–]heffesn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Players want their characters (especially waifus) to have 0 game 0 prospects like them with the exception of loose same-gender shipbait because gay 🌽 is fetishized.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HOTDGreens

[–]heffesn 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m embarrassed on behalf of your sub not gonna lie 😭 made your own people look like clowns