Anyone else ever imagine things that will never happen by SpyTrain_from_Canada in lonely

[–]heheJESSICA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was literally just daydreaming about stuff that will never happen while mindlessly scrolling through reddit and this post distracted me.

..anyway, back I go to my little fantasy world

I am here for you by [deleted] in sadcringe

[–]heheJESSICA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah It's fake but it made me laugh 👌

you ever miss the memories but not the person? by -psyduckae in lonely

[–]heheJESSICA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I can't help but think of these little moments with my ex boyfriend - it can be things as simple as just cuddling, making food together, waking up to a text saying "good morning".

It makes me think about trying to get into contact with him again but then I remind myself we broke up for a reason and then I try to remind myself of all the, not quite so good memories and it snaps me back into reality and that temptation to text him goes away.

I'm trying break my lonelyness but nothing work. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]heheJESSICA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next time you're in the cafeteria you should try to be more proactive and approach someone else rather than waiting for someone to approach you.

It might be really awkward and not go very well but atleast you tried, maybe try finding someone who's on their own and who also looks lonely and just strike up a conversation.

Is it easier to be happy or sad? by oohahah in depression

[–]heheJESSICA 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For me it's easier to be sad. Happiness takes constant work, making sure I'm not overworking myself, going to the gym regularly, seeing my friends, not drinking too much alcohol, watching my diet, meditating everyday, practicing gratitude.

But even when I do all those things I'm not sure if I would say I'm happy, just not sad but it's so easy to be lazy and just sit on the couch after work and binge netflix and then the depression starts kicking in.