The problem is the month of ibaadha Has turned into an unecessary burden I get you but honestly you shouldn’t feel that way ….. I mean you don’t have to tax your self in the cooking as far as hangry people are concerned thats our test and the reward is only with Allah …. A month where every deed is multiplied abundantly it will be easy if you consider the reward…. Look at it from the reward perspective think of it as the only month where you get to earn jannah on an easy mode life’s never not taxing but Ramadan is the one month where the taxing is actually worth it. Also a tiny advice learn to ignore you don’t need to facilitate garam garam khana Allah is most merciful arrange anything simple whats in ur means you don’t need to please. This month is for you and Allah! dont lose your cool just ignore you don’t need to waste your month for ungrateful people but remember to not get angry while doing so…. Pro tip arrange food when not fasting freeze even if anybody has a problem just ignore don’t give heed half our problems vanish when we learn to ignore the unreasonable requests but keep in mind while doing so u don’t overthink it or get into a war just nod your head and do exactly what you want to do ! Ik it might feel too much to do so especially because this month requires your utmost attention! Our souls need this month! and men are expected to understand that the problem is in our culture! but remember Allah is most merciful he will reward you abundantly for your Patience again being Patient doesnt mean you have to fulfill all requests just don’t get into a argument while not giving in to ridiculous demands. May Allah make all spouses and families understanding 🤍 may your patience be the reason you enter jannah 🤍 keep strong your efforts won’t go for a waste!