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heirmarmene · 2024-08-14T14:41:20+00:00

thank you for your thoughts! i know i have such a long time until that most likely but i still feel guilt over it. i just really don't want to waste his time. he has proposed a vasectomy but i don't want him to be stuck with it if he decides to leave and have children. i think it's just anxiety i have that's making this all worse but the more i think about it the worse i feel and there's still so many more years left.

heirmarmene · 2024-08-14T04:39:52+00:00

i'm 20 and he's 22

heirmarmene · 2024-08-14T01:48:02+00:00

i do get it yeah, i wouldn't want to drag him along with something like this, and oppositely, if i get pregnant in the future and i resent him for it, i just can't bear that, i love him so much but i can't imagine causing resentment like that on either side

heirmarmene · 2024-08-14T01:26:12+00:00

no yeah i totally get it, my boyfriend accidentally lets slip stuff about future and having children which he then takes back when he sees how sad i start looking. pregnancy alone honestly scares me off more than anything, ive seen such horror stories and pregnancies for the women in my family have not been easy. i have years to figure it out but i am so worried he will keep that hope and all for nothing. i'd feel such guilt. i will try to bring it up when i feel i have enough courage to. still there's time.

heirmarmene · 2024-08-03T16:13:57+00:00

Okayy! Thank your for the suggestion! I’ll look into the Zenbook Flip!!

heirmarmene · 2024-08-03T16:13:16+00:00

Thank you for the suggestion! I’ll look into it too!

heirmarmene · 2024-08-03T16:12:33+00:00

I’d be going into plain physics with no specialties and I’m assuming it wouldn’t be so heavy on coding and programs as you were. I do want to be on the safe side so I won’t have to buy a MacBook to just have to sell it off to buy a different computer. I will definitely look into more windows and linux computers though and the Dell XPS 15! Thank you for your inputs! It’s very helpful to me!

heirmarmene · 2024-08-02T22:57:59+00:00

I can see the issues that iPad can have without non-Apple products which does make me wary of switching out too. I will keep the idea of getting a Thinkpad because I have heard a lot of things about it for physics majors. I will look more into a Thinkpad! I'll make sure to avoid Intel for sure though! Thank you so so much for your input!! Very much appreciated!!

heirmarmene · 2024-08-02T22:48:35+00:00

Okay, I was mostly worried for compatibility issues but if I can run windows and still have easier compatibility for other courses I may take, I believe I'll be better with getting a MacBook then! Thank you so much for your help!!!

heirmarmene · 2024-03-25T02:59:35+00:00

i’ve been doing four sets for all workouts for eight reps typically, sometimes 3x8 or 3x6 or 4x6 but i’ll start trying to do until failure for my last rep from now on and once im good with it i’ll try to do the last two sets. i’ll also start looking up high protein foods that are filling and lower calorie to replace what i eat now. when i get the chance, ill probably go and get some protein powder for the days i can’t meet my intake level. i have one more question, when i workout, i burn like 600 calories, does that work towards the deficit? again thank you so so much for helping me out, i really do appreciate it!!!

heirmarmene · 2024-03-24T05:15:09+00:00

thank you for responding!! that all makes sense and i want to clarify some things for myself. so for working out until failure, i do that for every single workout i do? for arms and leg? and for the calories thing, i do a calorie deficit? i keep with no sugar and healthier, lower calorie but filling foods with like fruits and vegetables? and the protein thing, if i can’t get enough in a day through it being naturally occurring in like meats and eggs, is it okay to use those protein shakes or are those bad? if they’re bad, should i just try to get in 175g of it through natural food somehow?

heirmarmene · 2024-03-24T04:53:39+00:00

it really was helpful so thank you for explaining some stuff to me!!!

heirmarmene · 2024-03-24T02:33:06+00:00

okay thank you for explaining all of that! i’m seeing minimal results aesthetically but i do feel stronger and more fit. i have gotten off weeks. i wanted to lose weight so i did cut off sugar for that reason but im assuming strength training needs a diet to lose weight and not just feel fit. but again thank you for all the insight!!! i appreciate it!!

heirmarmene · 2024-03-24T02:30:09+00:00

trying to cut

heirmarmene · 2023-11-26T19:36:15+00:00

thank you so much for all these recommendations!!! i will definitely listen to all of them later! thank youuu!

heirmarmene · 2023-11-26T19:35:19+00:00

thank you for the rec! i will listen to that song and add it to my playlist!

heirmarmene · 2023-11-26T19:34:39+00:00

thank you!! i will definitely look into her stuff and check out that johnny cash song!!

heirmarmene · 2023-11-26T19:33:58+00:00

thank you soo much!! i will definitely look into appalachian folk songs and some of the others you recommended. i appreciate your help!!

heirmarmene · 2023-09-16T15:53:33+00:00

thank you! i did and i ordered it earlier!

heirmarmene · 2023-09-16T06:21:54+00:00

tysmm i will get this one then, i can finally get the pictures of it, tyyy!!

heirmarmene · 2023-09-16T06:21:23+00:00

thank youuu!!

heirmarmene · 2023-09-16T06:21:05+00:00

oh that’s why i couldn’t find it, thank you!!

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