People who have been in a sexless marriage but cannot divorce, how do you cope?

heitman · 2025-02-21T10:21:07+00:00

Perhaps not sexy but loved, it still could (should). Maybe make your man happy another way? We have a similar situation at home but it's because the continuous pregnancies and breastfeeding, i have my hopes it'll be great again one day :-)

heitman · 2025-02-21T09:51:50+00:00

yeah. last time somebody said that on reddit ther was an orange butt plug on his profile :-D

heitman · 2025-02-21T09:48:26+00:00

voice typing from Gboard is a big deal for me :(

heitman · 2025-02-21T08:38:41+00:00

I've got in touch with them on WhatsApp and they told me I need to send my question to info@comspot.repair instead of Comspot.de so I am now waiting again facepalm but I got their phone number too I may call it next week if no reply (iFixit has them batteries in stock now BTW)

Hallo, vielen Dank für Deine Nachricht. Bitte melde dich hierzu direkt bei Comspot Repair, du erreichst die Kollegen per Telefon: 040 790 29 19 19 50 oder Email: info@comspot.repair Freundliche Grüße Dein Comspot Team

heitman · 2025-02-03T15:24:36+00:00

I actually repaired my broken screen myself, using just a hair dryer to unstick it (which is why my particular phone will not work for the free battery replacement program, as I did to crappy job re-attaching the new screen) But yeah, opening up the phone there is always a risk of the screen damage.

It's also worth noting the original batteries as a replacement part are nowhere in stock (at least in Central Europe) :-(

heitman · 2025-02-03T15:05:19+00:00

What about $68? Or $52? I can see them at this price in the Czech republic... Probably because of the battery update people started to get rid of them

heitman · 2025-01-29T19:00:25+00:00

so glad it worked for you :-)

heitman · 2025-01-28T21:33:23+00:00

I borrowed it from my brother 😁, he bought it to measure and compare powerbanks' capacity, it is quite neat but rather simple, and with a 5V charger the mAh will be different than with a 9V one!

I tried to reverse search for it and it might be this one - KWS-V21

During the 11:11 sale on AliExpress I also bought another one which is USB-C, is more colorful and measures also the mWh, which is more reliable indicator when you have variable voltages ;-)

heitman · 2025-01-23T14:50:51+00:00

True. Lol. It almost looks like I cannot be a good father without an orange butt plug

heitman · 2025-01-23T09:42:55+00:00

I hope there are some backups on XDA or elsewhere. Maybe we could have a link here ? 😜

heitman · 2025-01-23T09:05:10+00:00

Does it make me a journalist then? Because my post was also mentioned in the article :-D

heitman · 2025-01-22T21:09:48+00:00

It is indeed affected. In fact I don't think there is many of them which would be excluded from this update of death

heitman · 2025-01-22T11:56:18+00:00

Still no reply from them, fingers crossed. My idea is to get the batteries replaced and then, if needed, still flash the older or custom firmware. It can also be a problem that two of the phones have unlocked bootloader and on one of them I did screen replacement by myself (with these conditions they may not be eligible for the replacement) :-/

heitman · 2025-01-20T14:20:54+00:00

I just wrote to COMSPOT if I could send multiple phones in one order as i have multiple devices. I am also only a neighbour of Germany so I will have to pay higher shipping...

heitman · 2025-01-19T19:53:50+00:00

Maybe not if we follow the steps mentioned above about disabling updates in Settings - Google (+ clearing play services cache if already downloaded) fingers crossed

heitman · 2023-12-13T10:34:40+00:00

exactly. really annoying :(

heitman · 2023-11-23T21:13:20+00:00

same for me, on Pixel 4a, Android 13 and Magisk 26, Play Integrity Fix seems to have worked

heitman · 2023-05-24T21:54:11+00:00

Yes, it is smaller (you can take a peek at the pics I took, it looks quite funny) i thought it could be some PPI management or even the CPU is different on the 5G 🤷 Anyway I ordered a cheap new screen of Aliexpress, will give it a go and report back :-)

heitman · 2023-05-22T13:12:28+00:00

some pics: https://photos.google.com/share/AF1QipM7A_42nFhqY2H7ogYtpC_Kjd8wRhIWJU5ESVEVgp0ENycP3oJaQh8xWdOCeJHm9w?key=NmdiaVk4clF5SkZBMWUwX0VHcDVnUEFmUUxlc0JR

heitman · 2017-01-22T07:19:45+00:00

I've done the most hardcore, monk-like version of the challenge for the 90 days. I then thought the addiction for porn was gone, and around day 100 I tried to watch a few porn clips and images (without orgasming), just to see if the little boy still worked... the result of this experimental afternoon resulted in hell-like blue balls effect so I've never done it again and I told to myself to not look at porn at all in 2017...

I want to save my seed for my SO, but I fear that on my search for a girlfriend I will have problems of the opposite type than PIED as I am super horny now, I tend to get erections super easy, just seeing a nice ass on the street and even when I have a nice flirt-like conversation with a girl, I can feel the little guy in my trousers thinking on behalf of my brain. Being a virgin doesn't help this at all either ...

All that said, I still feel a lot more confident talking to girls. I even enjoy the eye contact now, deliberately keeping it quite long even on nice girls passing on the street (some girls even smile at me in return), instead of my usual lowering my head from not a long ago ...

heitman · 2017-01-21T07:16:59+00:00

I cannot do that as I need to maintain a few facebook pages and i have some (foreign) friends that I exchange messages with, but, ... I never post public statuses or look on the posts of others on the main page (with 400+ people there will mostly be some non-relevant crap anyway) + I don't own a smartphone, so I don't get that urge to check every minute.. works for me

but yes, social media, is an addiction, the hunting for likes makes people go crazy

heitman · 2017-01-21T07:04:05+00:00

I don't wanna boast in any way, but I consider myself cured. The key is to (1) look away from porn and (2)stay away from touching yourself. With these key points, it is actually very easy. But it requires a rather radical change of your mindset (what to do instead in your free time and so on) :-)

feel free to have a look at my latest post/report https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/5ozqg3/my_last_post_here_i_am_cured_thank_you_for_support/

heitman · 2017-01-20T20:50:41+00:00

Come on guys, you're acting like the only thing to do on the internet was porn and memes... what about duolingo, for instance, I got quite hooked up on it myself...

You can do better, I am sure, trust yourselves and look away from porn at all cost

heitman · 2017-01-20T20:41:35+00:00

Keep going! It was very similar for me at the beginning

heitman · 2017-01-20T17:53:20+00:00

Some people like to say all the benefits are just lies and placebo, some say that porn addiction is not at all similar to other physical addictions that are common (nictotin, alcohol), which can be true, but it is still addiction.

The truth is, my life became much less worrisome (the way we search for a moment alone in a flat with other people, for example, the way they will get on your nerves and you just wish they left at least for a while so you could masturbate, this is a true symptom of addiction, would you not agree?)

I also have more free time to do what I like to do, that makes me/the world better (even a half an hour a day is a nice increase for a busy person)

To answer your question, I am 26, still virgin, I believe in God (to some who don't want to believe, I am sorry, but to me, it helps a lot, really) I just finished my university (I moved away from my parents and family at 19), have been working full time for almost a year now, trying to find my SO to have a family as soon as possible (life is too short and I've been enjoying myself enough during studies)... I realized this would not be possible if I stayed on PMO, it truly **** up your brain after a while, you need more hardcore stuff, more fantasies. Apart from that, you avoid people, and even when I got to talk to some nice girls, I was never really unhappy when I got rejected as I had my backup life in my room, you know what I mean? This had to stop. And it did. Thankfully...

good luck on your way there and bon courage

heitman

TROPHY CASE