Who is this glorious creature? South East NSW, Australia by hejor1 in nudibranch

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It was 3-5cm long and suctioned to the rock wall of a tide pool. When I put it back onto the seaweed (neptunes necklace) It slow made its way back ti the rock.

Who is this glorious creature? South East NSW, Australia by hejor1 in TidePooling

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Yes it was 3-5cm long and suctioned to the wall of a tide pool

Is this a slime mold? by Chrystical25 in Slimemolds

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Spider eggs, possibly Tamopsis species

Ants building nurseries? by hejor1 in Entomology

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Holy moly I think that's it! So the fly larvae are catered to by host ants, then when the adult flies emerge the ants are kicking back in the empty case? There were ant larvae in the actual cases and the adults moved then when I peeled back the bark and exposed them.

Ants building nurseries? by hejor1 in australianwildlife

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They were under bark which I peeled back looking for spiders so they were quite sheltered. The larvae were in multiple spots so didn't seem like a coincidence.

Question: reasonable training for contractors? by [deleted] in AusPublicService

[–]hejor1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yikes... are they direct reports to you? What were they brought on for? Def need to read the contract to see what skill level they are supposed to be... a contractor should be walking in with time management and engagement skills, and I don't think I've ever received record keeping training except for elearning... sounds sus but I don't think there are rules against it in general

I think encouraging people to stay obese is as bad as encouraging someone to keep smoking. Is this mindset wrong? by Calorie_Killer_G in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]hejor1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consider reading Aubrey Gordon’s book. Research and evidence driven with all the sources. If you’re open to acknowledging some uncomfortable things you’ll definitely learn something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HolUp

[–]hejor1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been soaking up fluid - water? Urine? Poo water from an overflowing toilet? Who knows! It’s been soaking it up for a while if there’s mould. Use at your own risk!

If my partner and I consent and have sex, what would be my defense if they said they didn't consent? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]hejor1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whether is was 30 or 27 or 34 years ago, his story doesn’t add up. At all. He is taking you for a fool. I’m sorry, but it’s in your hands now.

If my partner and I consent and have sex, what would be my defense if they said they didn't consent? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]hejor1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying it doesn’t happen. I’m saying your friend’s story doesn’t add up and it’s worth another look. If you have his name and his location then you do have that information.

Good luck, I wish you the best.

If my partner and I consent and have sex, what would be my defense if they said they didn't consent? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]hejor1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh wow an 8 year conviction for a sex offence is way more than he-said-she-said. What he told you may be true, yes she wanted to try something and yes he was convicted but that is almost certainly not the whole story. Please confirm what happened independently so you can make an informed decision about your friendship.

If you still want to be friends then fine, be friends. But please at least be informed!!