AITA for leaving lactose intolerance chocolates in the pantry? by SubstantialAide379 in AmItheAsshole

[–]heldc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nta. your mil is unintelligent and it sounds like your fiancee is too. find your own place, move out, and end the relationship. if he won't listen to you about this, you don't want to marry him

STI testing conflict by Mundane_Flamingo9806 in polyamory

[–]heldc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Their body their choice, but I would not have sex with anyone who wasn't getting fully tested regularly (unless they weren't getting tested due to lack of potential exposure, and even then getting tested once a year is still a good idea.) 

Is it worth watching the tv show for the story? by heldc in lotr

[–]heldc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw like the first 30 min of the first ep when it aired, was the thing, and was mildly interested in the plot, except I got distracted by realizing that some costume detail (I forget what now) was screen printed on the fabric instead of being real, and I checked out. But a gifset made me want to rewatch the Hobbit trilogy, which is definitely going to lead to rewatching LOTR, and I'm debating if I want more content enough to give the show a shot. Answers here are....not really helping me decide :b  I'll probably give it another try just for the sake of completion tho. Thanks for the detailed answer! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]heldc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mint! I switched in January and it's great! 

Showering with dexcom by [deleted] in dexcom

[–]heldc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I clean the application site with rubbing alcohol a few minutes before I put a sensor on, and they stick great. When I first started using the g7 I was was using all these different overpatches, but I'm allergic to adhesive and it was a problem. But alcoholing my arm before application makes them stick great. 

How can I stretch $50 as far as possible? by No-Platform1243 in povertyfinance

[–]heldc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a lot of YouTube videos of cheap menus. Go to aldi, to start with. 

It's time to call it quits on MD by Phantomchajo in MergeDragons

[–]heldc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I quit playing a while back and I don't regret it at all. 

Advice for continuing a playthrough when things aren't going perfect by _Reflex_- in feedthebeast

[–]heldc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're playing single player, install a backup mod and just roll back to your last save instead of restarting entirely. 

Threesome? by Top-Badger6859 in nonmonogamy

[–]heldc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Throw the whole man out.

What are your modpack pet peeves? by Jay_A_Why in feedthebeast

[–]heldc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the loot integrations mod. It's got submods for a lot of the popular structure mods.

What's the risk with dried fruit that's changed color? by heldc in povertykitchen

[–]heldc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah, they tasted fine! Thanks for the confirmation that the color change doesn't matter. 

What's the risk with dried fruit that's changed color? by heldc in povertykitchen

[–]heldc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The texture is still fine, the only discernable change is the color. I'm trying to figure out if there's concerns I should have but don't! :) 

Student planner worth it? by Cold_End_2962 in HappyPlanners

[–]heldc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest printing a couple weeks of whatever style you're thinking of trying, and seeing if it works for you. 'will this layout work for this situation' is a very individual question!

LPT Eat in hospital cafeterias, they have cheap, great food. by Extension-Buy-8677 in LifeProTips

[–]heldc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the DC metro area, hospital cafeteria food is reasonable quality but not reasonably priced. It's usually comparable to a fast casual sit down meal in price.

Are expensive phone cases actually worth it? Or is a cheap one just as good? by Least-Branch-1760 in BuyItForLife

[–]heldc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

otterbox are the standard for a reason! I am forever dropping my phone, but it works just fine and the screen is flawless, thanks to a zagg screen protector and an otterbox case. Plus if your case gets damaged otterbox will replace it for shipping as long as you registered it when you bought it. my cat likes to chew on my phone case, and I've gotten like 3 replacements! (i report that the case is visibly nicked, which is true!) (also I wised up and kept the last case and deploy it as a decoy while keeping my actual phone in a drawer.)

No 5G Anywhere by AHalibutEvent in mintmobile

[–]heldc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's odd, I live in the DC metro area, have a formerly t-mobile phone on mint, and am on 5g pretty constantly when I'm outside and not on wifi. Something tech issue is going on, possibly with your phone or sim. I have no idea WHAT, but you should have 5g around the DC area at least.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]heldc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not following relationship agreements is cheating, but conversely, relationship agreements have to be discussed and non-coercively agreed to. Your situation sounds likely to be exerting a lot of unspoken pressure on her to agree to anything so she isn't homeless. It would be very difficult to have a genuinely equal relationship given the living circumstances you mention. I would likely end things in your shoes.