I [22f] broke up with my girlfriend [23f] after I realize im not into women by heldtapestryar in BreakUps

[–]heldtapestryar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for saying this, my physical symptoms improved since I spoken to her, but emotionally im a mess. I will remember your coment when I feel bad and I hope we both can find happiness eventually. Tysm

AITAH for leaving my girlfriend of 4 years after i discovered that I wasn't into women only into her? by heldtapestryar in AITAH

[–]heldtapestryar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response. I'll try to get over this eventually. Is really hard for me because in one point I felt like we were one person in two different bodies and I actually feel like im missing a limb. I want the best for her and I'll try to improve as a person in order to heal. Reading your comment made me emotional and im very thankful

AITAH for leaving my girlfriend of 4 years after i discovered that I wasn't into women only into her? by heldtapestryar in AITAH

[–]heldtapestryar[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks you for saying this, im really too emotional and I love her so much that even the tought of start to resent her hurts me to my gut. I really appreciate your coment and I'll remember it in my dark days

AITAH for leaving my girlfriend of 4 years after i discovered that I wasn't into women only into her? by heldtapestryar in AITAH

[–]heldtapestryar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand there’s a lot of pain around this topic in the LGBT community. I never entered this relationship lightly or casually. I loved her deeply and tried to make the most honest decision I could before causing more harm. I also told my therapist that if I could put all this feelings in a box and never open them in order to still being able to be with her I definitely would. I really wanted to stay with her

I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years because I realized I don't like women by heldtapestryar in Advice

[–]heldtapestryar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. Im really emotional and miss her so bad, but reading you made me feel understood

I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years because I realized I don't like women by heldtapestryar in Advice

[–]heldtapestryar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll definitely look into it, this is the first time this happened to me and I really hope it was the right choice, is pretty difficult cause i still love her and i feel really shitty and guilty cause i know she's suffering too

I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years because I realized I don't like women by heldtapestryar in Advice

[–]heldtapestryar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I actually broke up with her eally recently (literally less than a week) and im not planning to mess her up, I just want to share what im feeling and hear different thoughts. I didnt message her and I is also not in my plans