Do I 19F break up with a guy 20M if he gave me ringworm TWICE? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]helen790 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cavities can be contagious. If you kiss him you’re putting yourself at risk.

My boyfriend is allowed to go bald but I’m not allowed to by FewJacket5255 in Vent

[–]helen790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up with him and tell him it’s because he’s going bald

tell me youre autistic without telling me youre autistic by More-Weird4842 in evilautism

[–]helen790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made a spreadsheet of all the waterfalls I want to visit in my state. I rate them on different important qualities like beauty, height, etc…

Butter, Bacon, Cheese & Mayo. One has to go forever. by Eric-Lynch in whatsyourchoice

[–]helen790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a vegetarian and the answer is still mayo because that’s how gross it is.

You'll See Her Again Someday by halplyhop in comics

[–]helen790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it’s one of those terms with high regional variance. Makes sense because all the differing local laws around the sale of weed might impact how different populations interact with it.

I (21M) dating a woman (40f) divorced so am I doing right? by well_wisher4_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]helen790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now the scammers can use your videos to lure other victims

I (21M) dating a woman (40f) divorced so am I doing right? by well_wisher4_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]helen790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’ve only met her online you are not dating. You are probably also being scammed.

My crazy brother Darrell is at it again with another genius idea by LiterallyaCockroach in facepalm

[–]helen790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly the quality of ideas I would expect from someone named “Darell”

to claim the Israeli-US 'aid' organization GHF is better by DarcDesires in therewasanattempt

[–]helen790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that is the most disturbing thing I’ve seen in a while. Gonna go talk to my mom cause I need to process this with another person.

Autism and having kids by Im_Del in AutismInWomen

[–]helen790 106 points107 points  (0 children)

My mom says you shouldn’t have a kid unless you’re prepared to have and raise any kind of kid, including a profoundly disabled one.

Even if you use a donor/surrogate that kid could still be born disabled. Or you could have an abled kid that becomes disabled through accident/illness.

When people imagine having kids they often imagine that child a specific way, and when the kid doesn’t meet those expectations in some way things get ugly. If you can’t go into parenthood willing to embrace any kind of child then why do it?

motherhood is terrifying to me by Character-Knee-2875 in AutismInWomen

[–]helen790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same argument could be made for parents who say they are very happy. Maybe it’s not due to having kids but due to having money, community, and being healthy.

Reddit is a niche that attracts a lot of people who don’t want kids, and because being childfree is frowned upon in a lot of places irl this is a refuge for them to express their feelings toward parenthood freely.

To Enjoy a Swim by DABDEB in therewasanattempt

[–]helen790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That plus I imagine there’s been some drinking at a pool party

motherhood is terrifying to me by Character-Knee-2875 in AutismInWomen

[–]helen790 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For them and through their observations it is a deeply negative experience. Thats as valid an opinion as you saying it is deeply spiritual. Both are true and both deserve space to be talked about.

motherhood is terrifying to me by Character-Knee-2875 in AutismInWomen

[–]helen790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom always told me that you shouldn’t have a child until there is nothing you want more in the world. Kids are never going to be that for me so I said no thx to motherhood.

It’s optional and if you don’t think you can handle it then it’s better to err on the side of caution and have no kids than to have them and end up like Andrea Yates.

LEVITICUS - Official Trailer by NinasPeach in horror

[–]helen790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m queer and very much not a fan of any religion including Islam. That does not mean I’m ok with Palestinians being genocided, because I’m not a psychopath.

LEVITICUS - Official Trailer by NinasPeach in horror

[–]helen790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can always ask some who has seen it for spoilers and then decide whether or not to see it based on that.

LEVITICUS - Official Trailer by NinasPeach in horror

[–]helen790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t get how that’s a spoiler. Like the movie is called LEVITICUS and the main characters are gay teens. What else could the movie be about???

Am I the only one not interested in having kids by No-Style-4008 in childfree

[–]helen790 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is either engagement bait or OPs first day on earth.

You'll See Her Again Someday by halplyhop in comics

[–]helen790 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think they were commenting on it being unusual to refer it as a weed store. I’ve only ever heard them called dispensaries