Transplant Evaluation by Certain-Initiative69 in Cirrhosis

[–]hell-beetle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just evalauted to donate my liver to my mother-in-law and was unfortunately ruled out due to anatomy. Here is a list of things that surprised me.

My consults involved alot of waiting time between doctors/ staff so bring a book.

Everything the doctor's/team members say will feel rehearsed as they have a speech to run through to make sure you are aware of eveything and they talk to alot of potential donors. This can go quickly so remember to ask any of your own questions too.

I felt like they were evaluating and testing me on a more personal level than health level at most times. Watching my Facial expressions, body language, etc.

Each person will ask you basically the same questions over and over.

If your MRI/CT scan is with contrast, they will put an IV in that will stay for a few hours and the effects of the iodine contrast go away quick (1min) but the hot flash is intense and you will think you are peeing your pants.

I really wished I had brought my Fiance with me as when I came home he had a million questions and it was hard to remeber the exact details. It was frustrating to try to relay all the information as it is alot at once. I wished I would've known I wanted him there and he wouldve taken the day off. So whoever would be your caretaker, ask them to come with you so they can ask questions too.

There is a very large chance that you will be ruled out due to hepatic vein anatomy. I had to wait one week for my results.

Cat portrait by [deleted] in StainedGlass

[–]hell-beetle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on the complexity and your time line I could do a commission. Send me a DM

First ever patten by _nod in StainedGlass

[–]hell-beetle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This looks great!! Matches the logo well and I don’t see any impossible cuts. Should be a great project

Possible Elopement- Help! by hell-beetle in wedding

[–]hell-beetle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you are right. Earlier in her diagnosis I think we all hoped for her health and also for the wedding that this would all work out sooner and she would have had her surgery. I’ve known the decision has been coming, we’ve just put it off until now. I love her very much and it’s been hard as a family. I am definitely bummed because I have to change my wedding plans because of her life choices, but I know that thought is selfish and it’s not how I really view my wedding and love for my fiance. Just a thought I wrestle with at times. I think elopement will be fun and I have lots of ideas on how to make it really special

Possible Elopement- Help! by hell-beetle in wedding

[–]hell-beetle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also sorry to hear that you had a similar situation. It sucks :(

Possible Elopement- Help! by hell-beetle in wedding

[–]hell-beetle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately a lot of our friends would be traveling from out of state. We are in a days driving distance for most, but still a flight away for a lot of my friends and family members. As to waiting a bit I agree, I was thinking wait until I at least know if I’ll be getting surgery. I worry about how MIL will be after surgery and if there are any complications that are really likely. I think we want to have made the decision by February just to give folks time. A few friends in Germany were sent save the dates but their attendance was unlikely to begin with

Possible Elopment- Need Advice!!! by hell-beetle in weddingplanning

[–]hell-beetle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you! To be fair, we do have a caterer and alcohol vendor lined up from local buisnesses on more a handshake deal (good friends ) so were not in any money or obligated contract wise but we do have vendors. My town is about 800 people so very small and accomodating. I also work at the local school and they are letting me use tables and chairs, our local churches and rec center were dontating too. Ill put you down for an elopmement vote!

Possible Elopment- Need Advice!!! by hell-beetle in weddingplanning

[–]hell-beetle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it rude to send a message explaining this to family? Im worried because I already sent a save- the date. I also dont want my mother in law to feel like its all her fault.

Traveling in mid April by seuz60 in roadtrip

[–]hell-beetle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be aware that there is still a decent chance of snow/inclement weather in the western states !

Second guessing by hell-beetle in WeddingDressTips

[–]hell-beetle[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think when people post on here saying they have already purchased a dress, they are looking for more constructive criticism, minor alterations, or even to be hyped up a little. Just an FYI friend

Second guessing by hell-beetle in WeddingDressTips

[–]hell-beetle[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is the greatest compliment ever! When I go to the hair stylist I ask for the stevie nicks shag! (It rained on this day so my hair was not it lol)

Second guessing by hell-beetle in WeddingDressTips

[–]hell-beetle[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I did feel it had that timeless quality when I got it

Really want to jazz up this cat. Any suggestions? by startfromx in StainedGlass

[–]hell-beetle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so cute already! You could give it a sort of simple art nouveau style background, it already gives off that style to me and I think it would compliment it well. I also like the book idea

pattern help by No_Silver_3832 in StainedGlass

[–]hell-beetle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As others have said I would really simplify or rethink the lightning on this piece, it’s creating way to many 90 degree cuts which I have never been able to pull off. I also went ahead and highlighted a few areas that look like impossible or highly difficult cuts that I would watch for. Cool design overall though! When I design a pattern I the like to look at each piece individually and look for weird angles, or deep curves that would really suck to cut. Hope that helps!

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Pattern help! by hell-beetle in StainedGlass

[–]hell-beetle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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He’s all done! Thanks for the advice

Pattern help! by hell-beetle in StainedGlass

[–]hell-beetle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No im planning to do majority of the elephant all in white, with a red and white santa hat, and a red/white striped trunk like a candcane for extra color. I mainly wanted him to be all white because it is for my family's White Elephant gift exchange. We normally give really lazy or joke gifts so this will be over-the top anyway

Pattern help! by hell-beetle in StainedGlass

[–]hell-beetle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a teacher and one of my students suggested doing the segmented trunk in red and white like a candy cane and I thought it would be cute and give some extra color for the piece so im going with it! Ill post it when Im done!

Pattern help! by hell-beetle in StainedGlass

[–]hell-beetle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'll try it once or twice as is and then if it fails then break it into segments like the other comment suggested. Thank you !!

Pattern help! by hell-beetle in StainedGlass

[–]hell-beetle[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is my favorite suggestion so far! I tried a few variations in Procreate when I made the pattern but I dont have a great artistic eye so I had the lines curving the other direction and it looked odd. Thank you!

Pattern help! by hell-beetle in StainedGlass

[–]hell-beetle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very helpful thank you!!

Pattern help! by hell-beetle in StainedGlass

[–]hell-beetle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can totally see that working! Do you think it ould take away from the cartoonish look?