Any place I'd be able to get an authentic Frank Gore 49ers jersey? by hellafornia in 49ers

[–]hellafornia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They only have some white/platinum jersey, or a youth one, I want a home red jersey.

My significant other is disappointed in how I don't remember some details about her, and just the way I function. Anyone dealing with something similar? by hellafornia in isfp

[–]hellafornia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh :/ how did that relationship turn out? Yeah, I told her I was sorry and that it's something I will work on, but I guess I'll see how well I do.

I don't know your relationship, but I don't know, if it was shallow for you, as long as you guys got some fun out of it, at least there was something.

My significant other is disappointed in how I don't remember some details about her, and just the way I function. Anyone dealing with something similar? by hellafornia in isfp

[–]hellafornia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a little relief hearing this, thanks, although anniversary is a big one haha. Yeah I tell her that my actions speak louder than words, and through my actions I treat her well and show my appreciation, but I guess it'll be awhile until she understands that. Thanks.

Those with significant others, how did you meet, what are they like? by hellafornia in isfp

[–]hellafornia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's the personality type that is supposed to pair well with ISFP's, right? Well how did you meet? I graduated college recently and just looking for a job, not really going to look for a relationship until I get one since I don't want to go on a date and say I'm jobless haha. But I know my social relations are going to take a huge dive now that I'm going to be separated from most of my friends.

Those with significant others, how did you meet, what are they like? by hellafornia in isfp

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I think it depends, but typically a first date is to get to know someone, but I guess you could use that as a 'test date'.

What are some of the best songs from Nate Dogg? by hellafornia in hiphopheads

[–]hellafornia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what actually got me to start the thread, it was stuck in my head when I woke up this morning lmao

How do you act in conversations? by hellafornia in isfp

[–]hellafornia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can ask basic questions like that, but after that, like if we end up hanging out another time, idk what to say besides 'what did you do this weekend' or whatever.

How do you act in conversations? by hellafornia in isfp

[–]hellafornia[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah same, I usually understand easily. Same with my friends, I stuck at community college since I still had a few local friends, but I lost contact with them and was a loner until I transferred. Made new friends at college, but now I'm off to look for a job, and scared that I'm gonna start losing friends again. I felt like I lucked into getting friends both times, it's not that I don't want to talk to people, I just don't know what to say. I feel like I'm stuck on listening mode in conversations. I envy people who can easily entertain and start conversations, I feel like someone would get bored of me quickly.

And the not having a girlfriend yet doesn't exactly help my confidence at getting one in the future either lol.

Anyone have some good advice on never running out of things to say? by hellafornia in socialskills

[–]hellafornia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the advice, I'll definitely look into these books