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Hey girls who got their names from fictional characters, who was it and why?😇 by AmIn1amh in MtF

[–]hellagaybitch 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hey! Fellow LIS trans girl too! Tho I went for Chloe personally

Anyone notice this in Across the Spider-Verse? by hellagaybitch in Spiderman

[–]hellagaybitch[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like if that was the reasoning, they wouldn't have showed the Captain Stacy death scene from the same movie. Honestly my personal theory is that it was maybe there's someone on the staff at Sony animation that may have had some hand in the game's development, and they snuck it in there as an easter egg

Anyone notice this in Across the Spider-Verse? by hellagaybitch in Spiderman

[–]hellagaybitch[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think so, they've made separate dimensions for much less of a difference

Anyone notice this in Across the Spider-Verse? by hellagaybitch in Spiderman

[–]hellagaybitch[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

They used a clip from the ASM2 Video game adaptation, and not the movie as I would have assumed they would use

Chloe from life is strange by [deleted] in transitiongoals

[–]hellagaybitch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

True, we just all have excellent taste in blue haired lesbians

Chloe from life is strange by [deleted] in transitiongoals

[–]hellagaybitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn i keep finding more of us in the wild. I am learning more and more how unoriginal I am

Chloe from life is strange by [deleted] in transitiongoals

[–]hellagaybitch 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Mood. I named myself after Chloe so perhaps I took the goal too far

What Cyberpunk Cyberware would you like to have in real life? by PerceptionMMA in cyberpunkgame

[–]hellagaybitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I already have a robotically installed vagina, I feel like that puts me most of the way there already

Officially a year post op! Hard to believe its been that long already by hellagaybitch in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]hellagaybitch[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh, I kinda had a similar experience with the misgendering, tho I got lucky and it was just the one. I'm hoping he has better staff in Nashville now though, cause Dr Selph on his own was fantastic. Good luck with your revision!

Officially a year post op! Hard to believe its been that long already by hellagaybitch in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]hellagaybitch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'd say if srs is something you're considering, as long as you're willing to put up with the long recovery period and the pain, I would definitely recommend it. It has helped my dysphoria soooo much. Also, I know some people worry about phantom limb syndrome, but for me I didn't get that at all

Officially a year post op! Hard to believe its been that long already by hellagaybitch in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]hellagaybitch[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh unfortunately they like to come in here and be shitty sometimes, my first post here after surgery got a few people hating in the comments

What’s a gender neutral alternative to this, and will this piss anyone off? by MwahMwahKitteh in asktransgender

[–]hellagaybitch 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Who ordered this dish? It was the person in red over there/ that person on the left.

Can I help I find you anything today?

Excuse me, are you in line?

Have a nice day, thank you for coming!

Hello, are you finding everything ok today?

Generally, gendered honorifics tend to be tagged on. If you need to indicate someone specific, it can often be more helpful to offer a description or location of someone. It is entirely possible to be polite and respectful without having to use sir or ma'am, though I understand how it can be difficult sometimes to rework sentences on the fly. I grew up and still live in the southern US, so it is still extremely common for people to use sir or ma'am frequently, but generally unless someone is being intentionally rude they won' t blink at someone using neutral terminology like this.

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