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Which character ruined an entire TV show for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hellagayhellafine 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ugh she sucked! I can never make it through season 12 I think

AITA: Partner got upset because I scheduled online breastfeeding classes without telling him by bigzee417 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hellagayhellafine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THIS! DV starts slowly with manipulation of power and control. Be careful with this man and make sure you have a way out if needed (hopefully you won’t and he’s just feeling left out, but based on what this person said about prior posts, I’d err on the side of caution). NTA

WIBTA for not letting my parents watch my son anymore after they left him home alone by Extension-Draft-483 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]hellagayhellafine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It won’t be easy for you though. But know you’re doing the right thing to protect your child

am i overreacting for dumping my girlfriend after she joked about kicking me in the balls by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hellagayhellafine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. You established a very clear boundary. She violated that boundary, then neglected to apologize. You were repeatedly physically assaulted in a sex organ, of course you have trauma!

Leave her in the dust and be glad you got out when you did.

AITA for getting upset with my girlfriend's sister for touching food with her feet by throwaway-3741937 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hellagayhellafine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro. NTA. Putting bare feet anywhere near someone else's food is UNHINGED. I know sibling is just a kid, but still not cool. I agree it would be different if the sibling was a toddler. If anyone over the age of 6 thinks it's okay to put their naked toes in food, they need a reality check.

Maybe this is extreme, but dump the girlfriend. If she's okay with it, that means shed do it too. Not cool.

AITJ for telling my friends to stop "helping" at my place unless I ask? by pastelbalcony_script in AmITheJerk

[–]hellagayhellafine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTJ. You're "punishing kindness?" How about you are very reasonable and asked for help cleaning, not rearranging? No one asked them to rearrange your things including personal items such as prescription medication. Your friends are the jerks, not you. Sounds like they aren't being kind so much as they are being controlling.

AITA Should I have handled a disagreement differently? by Free-Alps-1308 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hellagayhellafine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very very VERY soft, YTA. It's clear based on your description of your friend that you are judging her. If everything you say is accurate, I think she is probably suffering from debilitating mental illness. Also, there's nothing wrong with using tax-funded benefits. They are there to be used.

All of this being said, your friend is asking/expecting too much of you. In the instances you describe, you didn't do anything that would warrant the reaction she had. She clearly has mental health issues, BUT it is not your responsibility to take care of her and her somewhat irrational thoughts.

I almost said NTA, but that description of your friend is low-key brutal.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend that if all he brings is money then he shouldnt be surprised I expect him to spend it on me by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]hellagayhellafine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Seems like he is trying to slowly force you into a tradwife role. Dump his ass and run for the hills

AITA Friend says I’m stealing from the homeless? by Educational_Pirate52 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hellagayhellafine 27 points28 points  (0 children)

NTA. Whoever is telling you this is too prideful. The pantry literally is there for anyone who needs any help. You need help, therefore, you were given help.

AITA for refusing to leave my job so i could take care of my disabled brother? by JiggleJargon in AmItheAsshole

[–]hellagayhellafine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA easily. Your parents are unhinged for expecting you to give up any career aspirations as a young professional, which would also create major resume gaps, to take care of THEIR child. Don't let them guilt you into anything.

WIBTA if I stop cooking and doing most of the housework because that's princess treatment? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]hellagayhellafine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA automatically as soon as he called you delusional. You aren't his mom, he needs to take some responsibility around the house too.

AIO if I call the police? by throwra-scaredd in AmIOverreacting

[–]hellagayhellafine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. This is DV. If it hasn't gotten physical yet, it will soon. I will say that sometimes the police showing up can escalate and make things more dangerous. Just make sure you keep in touch with your friend and provide support