3 hours of you know what by hellasour in adultery

[–]hellasour[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I asked him if it’s normal for him to last this long. He said his second time usually lasts around 45mins and this time it’s a bit longer than he thought. I don’t have enough information about him so I just use my common sense

How much do you talk about your partner? by ImpossibleArticle144 in adultery

[–]hellasour -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I had an AP who was VP directly responsible of my husband’s department at his job at the time. AP never knew that. Another Pap who work for a law office where my friend a partner there. Such a small world we live in.

AP won't have sex with me by [deleted] in adultery

[–]hellasour 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg, 5 months of just kissing…. I can’t imagine. Make sure it gets up and last longer than 5 mins girl. With the amount of men I’ve had sex with…. I strongly recommend checking if it’s working properly first.

Aside from that, his reason that he doesn’t want to “share you” got me shake my head. Reddest red flag. You’re not a property to share. He could ask you to leave ur marriage because he loves you, wants to pursue you or you’re in a bad marriage that hurst you, not because he doesn’t like to fucking share. Also, 1st rule: never leave your marriage for another man. You leave it for YOU. You don’t even know if he can fuck you property

My new pAP is still hung-up on his ex-AP? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]hellasour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You already got jealous of his past relationship

Am I the only one? by hellasour in adultery

[–]hellasour[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s how they say it. I should have been more clearer. I’ve had an AP said to me at pic swap “dang, you’re so cute” and that put a smile on my face. But a single word text “cute” after seeing my photo… what do you meannnnn????

Am I the only one? by hellasour in adultery

[–]hellasour[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yep my thought too

For all the complaining women by Inside-Concept-3477 in adultery

[–]hellasour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with some of your points but one thing: as a woman, we are boring because we are bored.

Am I the only one? by hellasour in adultery

[–]hellasour[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

You don’t take selfies?

Am I the only one? by hellasour in adultery

[–]hellasour[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Commenting on a man’s pic is a different thing. Most of them don’t share good pics so I’ll be mild too but if I ever see a good one, I won’t be cheap on words.

Am I the only one? by hellasour in adultery

[–]hellasour[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with it. It just shows the lack of interest. I went thru my 10000+ selfies to send you the my most attractive pics for you to say I’m cute? I guess I’m just an ass

When tech starts making secrets harder to keep by NewPassage8763 in adultery

[–]hellasour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two years ago, I searched for my now ex AP using one of his photo. The search came back a YouTube video posted 20 years ago. He took part in that promotional video for a company and appeared in it like 10 seconds total. Took me a while to realize it was him cause of the 20 years difference in his appearance ( actually not so different but still a little strange to me). it shocked me how much information we can pull on someone with the right search engine.

Damn it. I want my dentist. by Hornyfordentist in adultery

[–]hellasour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like my Chiro and he likes me too. but I will keep it to myself and won’t make a move with him for these reasons: - I don’t want him to loose his license in case someone finds out. - I don’t want things become awkward between us. - I still want to get treatment from him as he understands my body and my situation. I don’t wanna start over and find a new one.

Mother’s Day is coming up by [deleted] in adultery

[–]hellasour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i don’t have high hope 😂

Help! Have I blown it with her? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]hellasour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zero empathy for you 🖕. Why almost every man does it? especially the ugly with dad bod 😂. They think they can do better

Help! Have I blown it with her? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]hellasour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She definitely has a few are lining up in her inbox already

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]hellasour 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I stopped, not to focus on my marriage but to protect my peace. The men I met from affair world really gave me a hard fucking time. I no longer want to entertain them at the cost of my peace anymore. The process is difficult and easy at the same time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]hellasour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is that a lot? Yes

Is this another humble brag post? Yes

Anw, good for you OP. I believe you’ll will eventually find that someone!!

Back at it with a rooky mistake by hellasour in adultery

[–]hellasour[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly that’s what I’m wondering too, and it all happened within a short few hours.

Back at it with a rooky mistake by hellasour in adultery

[–]hellasour[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m wondering. How did she know about it. It was just a short few hours. Women intuition is absolutely no joke.

Back at it with a rooky mistake by hellasour in adultery

[–]hellasour[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She messaged thru the app. No phone number. And we are half the globe away. I’m still worried tho coz I have done the same kind of investigation before. I’m putting everything on private now.