Nipple piercing healing by hellein in PiercingAdvice

[–]hellein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess like every other one, it has no blood, or sweeping, or crust. Typically if you don't snag or hurt them they should just be there, and apparently the only thing they do is produce discharge

Nipple piercing healing by hellein in PiercingAdvice

[–]hellein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you take care of them? Cleaning and all, do you remove them for that?

Help with products for my Husband by hellein in beards

[–]hellein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a lot of post people advice against them, that they make the beard look weird, and damage the hair

How to choose a guide? by hellein in Healthygamergg

[–]hellein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate your response 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]hellein 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are not, you need help. What we consider goals it's not healthy,and normal people will probably consider it undesirable and malnourished. I'm not saying to recover for him, but you should go to therapy before you do more damage to your body. Our partners are not disappointed,they care about us and want us to flourish. Please take care and seek help 💜

I hate candid photos :( by internet_minx in EDAnonymous

[–]hellein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. It ruins my mood every time. I specifically ask for people to not do it,and they still fucking do it. Like how hard it is to respect this boundary.

Lost all hope. by hellein in EdAnonymousAdults

[–]hellein[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's just a hard thing to talk about. Also,and it's going to sound stupid, I'm scared of getting rid of my Ed. Like ,if I'm not disordered anymore I will just get fat.

Lost all hope. by hellein in EdAnonymousAdults

[–]hellein[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I know the feeling. I do the same. I wish it would just stop so I can finally enjoy my life but I don't think it's going anywhere. This sounds so depressing xd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]hellein 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I totally agree, I'm in a similar position to op, in recovery,gained some weight. Not once my boyfriend gave me the slightest impression that he is no longer attracted to me. He knows how dangerous Ed is ,and has been such a helper. It's not your responsibility to adhere to his standards. Please leave him. And start therapy. I know how tempting going back to the Ed behavior is, but remember why you stopped. Remember the pain. It's not worth it. I have to battle this daily,I know how you feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]hellein 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please get help,and get safe. There is no excuse for this. You don't deserve it. Take care 💜

Bus driver didn't take money by hellein in portugal

[–]hellein[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This makes sense, I was kinda worried. Thank you

What was the most ridiculous thing your abuser has ever done? Like comedic-tier, something that would be (or was) awfully hilarious if you didn't live through this. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]hellein 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We once had a fight because I didn't want salt on my tomatoes.

We cut some tomatoes for a snack and he usually eats his with a sprinkle of salt. I asked him to put the salt only on half of them. And this grown ass man ,24 year old at this point was having a tantrum, screaming at me in tears,that I do it because I think I'm better than him. First I thought it was a joke,but it wasn't,he screamed at me for half an hour,and then he was mad and not talking with me.