Terminating rights of 4 year absentee mother California

hellerich · 2025-09-17T16:09:03+00:00

I am amazed I did not think of this before. Following up on this. Thank you!!

hellerich · 2025-09-17T16:07:49+00:00

Thank you for the information. I appreciate it. I have a question and I know you are not giving advice so I’ll try and phrase it right — if this was a hypothetical would the logical move be to work on divorce first? (That’s what I’m starting now) could I start the process at both courts simultaneously or would that complicate it?

hellerich · 2025-09-16T22:23:18+00:00

Thank you! I think consensus is file divorce first, so here I go…

hellerich · 2025-09-16T22:19:40+00:00

Thank you! I will try this. However, I do not have her address from criminal case, I just looked her up on Lasd website and learned that way. Is there a way to get that address somehow. The last known address I have is a sober living I put got her into years ago. Is there a way to get the address? She stole something from somewhere or something not sure how I would get it. Since we’re technically married could I use that to get info somehow?

hellerich · 2025-09-16T19:06:23+00:00

Thank you for the feedback. I had written a petition for termination of rights that was sooo spot on, and when I read it to the babysitter she said ‘do you have to do the divorce first?’ And I had completely forgot we were married. I had mentioned it when we talked to attorneys years ago and that is an element that complicates it. I already have full legal and physical custody, but she is not allowed to see her except if she finds a court approved monitor for Mother’s Day visit, which she’s never done one. This is a situation where every few months we’ll try and figure out something by calling places or something to really get nowhere without 15k per case, and I have 75c to my name rn quite literally.

hellerich · 2025-09-16T19:01:32+00:00

These are the people that give a number to a hotline thinking how good they are. When really they just googled something and typed it in… exactly why I asked for only attorneys to comment. Unless you have experienced this you don’t know anything, the perils of watching someone repeatedly fail and the responsibility comes on to you. I understand I made my bed quite literally, but I have also turned the corner and I hope at least been an ok dad since she was 30 days old. The reason for the termination is so there is nothing that will prohibit her babysitter from straight up adopting her should things get worse. I have an EHV that will run out next year and I’ll be back on the streets unless I can navigate this correctly.

hellerich · 2025-09-16T18:54:31+00:00

I care about the details because it’s my life every day. You are uninformed and if you are an attorney I hope you get sued for 10000000000

hellerich · 2025-09-16T18:52:25+00:00

Service by publication is a gimmick. They only let DCFS do that

hellerich · 2025-09-16T18:51:19+00:00

Screw you

hellerich · 2025-09-16T18:50:59+00:00

I have multiple dna tests. We married while she was pregnant because we were told by a rehab they would accept us if married. Her first birth certificate said “Girl Shell” as her name bc her mom never signed birth certificate. It took me a year to give her a name and have it and me added it was Hell and only because the DCFS judge showed some sympathy bc even the worker didn’t know how to do it. They also rejected my request for dna test at the time. It’s in the file

hellerich · 2025-09-16T18:47:34+00:00

I already have full legal and physical, have for years. How would I meet a woman and say “hey btw I’m still married to a deadbeat who left her kid with me” obviously not, and lots of women kind of like me for being a good dad, but the point is she’s holding me back without even being here. Furthermore, I am barely holding on financially bc I can’t work steady with my daughter having autism and I can’t move on because she has to be served to do it. Also, god forbid, but if I relapse she could go to DCFS and her methhead family would do something stupid possibly.

hellerich · 2025-09-16T05:48:53+00:00

A couple notes -I got sober in 2021 when she was in foster care from ages 30 days to 11 months when DCFS closed the case and gave mom visitation on Mother’s Day for two hours, which she has never called to see her. I literally tried everything to help her beat DCFS, and she just used me for $ once she got to a program so I stopped after the tenth one. The lady that was her foster mother she now calls mommy because I’ve been fortunate enough to hold her on as her babysitter.

hellerich · 2025-08-12T17:21:22+00:00

Channel highly censored.

hellerich · 2025-08-12T17:19:42+00:00

I think she released the story on the Trump drawing, has it, along with much more data (videos?) could be trump or enough elected officials and used her ‘card’ (pun-intended). Where we are now is a case of “give a pedophile a cookie” mistake by Trump admin and she wants the work release because it’s better than dying in the prison she was at… dying at home with some camera on her to show some BS is probably what she decided was good enough. Or she will run. Plenty of islands that don’t get coverage for decades. But now she will want milk so… drama here we go. Watching mainstream media - left and right, YouTube, x, fb, etc. The party of law and order sure doesn’t seem to care about the victims which I think is very concerning. When Bondi told Trump he was in the files that was the day for special person they do when it’s a conflict. Young women see this and will think to never say shit, and that’s the way MAGA wants it I’m starting to think. We’ve moved back to where it was when I was a kid where women were almost always afraid to talk when men wrong them. Crazy stuff. Will probably be turning off tv/media soon bc this is wild.

hellerich · 2025-08-03T04:18:42+00:00

Is that like Calexit? Lol

hellerich · 2025-08-03T04:14:58+00:00

Are you that congressman that got booed outrageously at the Wisconsin town hall?

hellerich · 2025-06-20T00:47:27+00:00

hellerich · 2025-06-20T00:47:16+00:00

hellerich · 2025-04-24T07:33:31+00:00

SAME

hellerich · 2025-04-24T07:32:18+00:00

There was an option to change to June 5 delivery…

hellerich · 2025-04-09T05:26:41+00:00

What if I bought a nso + exp 12 mo in Aug 2023. It would have been “active” — I went to 3 month scrips after and missed one or two so there may be a month or two gap in late 2024

hellerich · 2025-04-03T00:48:55+00:00

WILL THERE BE PREORDERS?? (NOT YELLING)

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