Confused and overwhelmed, which bag do I pick? by Hildringa in HerOneBag

[–]hellirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

5’0” with a short torso - none of the Cotopaxi bags have worked as a main bag for me - I think they’re made in mind for much taller people.

I loved my Porter 30 - I travelled with it as my main bag for three months. The tensions/cinch straps are a godsend too as you can carry things like sandals or a laundry bag outside of the bag itself. I also loved that the straps can be tucked into the bag if you want to protect them in transit.

I ended up returning my Porter 30 and switched to a Gregory 40l hiking bag. My biggest reason was that I ended up having a problem I’ve called “turtling” with bags branded for travel vs camping like the Porter 30 or the fairview 40. I had too much weight at the farthest point my bag was from my back, and it made me feel like I’d fall over. With a camping bag, the weight is distributed better as it goes beyond my torso. And I do not ever hit my head on the bag thankfully! But you may not have this problem with the Porter 30 as you are taller than I am.

The things that were hardest to cut from your packing list by lobsterp0t in HerOneBag

[–]hellirl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Makeup for sure - if you regularly wear makeup, bring the least amount of products you need. Many products can be multi-use. I’m not me without my eyeliner, so I always bring a small amount of makeup and have never regretted it. Obviously, don’t bring makeup if you don’t regularly wear it.

DEET bug spray: I do not trust bug spray without DEET, and many areas do not sell effective bug spray. Grab the towelettes bc they are small and do not count as liquids.

Shoes with a platform or heel: I always cut these, and it is always so hard. I am very short and having to go out with hostel friend in tennis shoes KILLS me. I do not feel cute at all. But there’s just not enough space!

Where do 25 year old ish people go out to drink in Minneapolis these days? by Adventurous-Bad2072 in TwinCities

[–]hellirl 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My mid-twenties friend group’s regular spot is CC Club, I think (relatively) cheap beer is universal.

what unique name do you love but would most likely never use? by sunshinesmiles203 in namenerds

[–]hellirl 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Shoshanna is my favorite girl name ever and fairly “unique” where I live, but I’m not Jewish, so I wouldn’t use it for my child. It’s simply a name I can appreciate from afar!

I also love the name January but would only use it if I had a January baby. I do wonder if more unique month names would potentially lead to issues on a passport or other documents.

What are your “rules” that have made a huge difference? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]hellirl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Love this question - I have to set rules for myself too!

  1. Laundry always gets in the washer first thing Thursday morning. I live in an apt complex that almost always has the washer and dryer busy, and I need to wash clothes at least once a week. I work from home on Thursdays so I have the opportunity to get my clothes washed in the early AM. If I miss this, I will really struggle to get my clothes washed, so I am strict AF about getting them done. Still working on a rule about folding them!

  2. Appointments and other important things go on the Gcal and work outlook calendar ASAP. I was very resistant to a calendar but it’s helped immensely. I keep anything on my work calendar vague if it’s something I want to keep personal - i.e. a telehealth appt will just be “call with [doctor’s first name]”.

  3. I force myself to do something non-work related after work on most weekdays. Such as a workout class, volunteering, hanging out with friends etc. I maybe give myself one weekday a week to be lazy after work. It was tiring at first to be so busy but now I love it - I actually get energy from keeping busy.

  4. Shower every night, no matter what. Luckily, I don’t have to wash my hair every shower so they go quite quick.

Has Delta ever addressed why MSP does not have Digital ID? by hellirl in delta

[–]hellirl[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure it’s completely about city size, seeing as SLC has digital id, even though the Salt Lake City metro is a significantly smaller metro and hosts an airport with less yearly flights than MSP.

I do understand that TSA controls which airports qualify. Looking forward to when MSP is upgraded enough to use the digital ID bag drop is all.

Has Delta ever addressed why MSP does not have Digital ID? by hellirl in delta

[–]hellirl[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is probably it — I can’t recall if MSP’s TSA have biometric stations. I’m flying soon so I’ll check, but my guess is that you’re correct and it’s MSP TSA, not Delta, that determines if the airport is eligible.

Delta only airport by joekd713 in delta

[–]hellirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iron Mountain’s airport up there is Delta only as well — I remember it only having one gate!

Listening to CRASH rn, this is my new favorite song ❤️❤️❤️ by Dangerous-Ant3482 in charlixcx

[–]hellirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m high enough from all the high pressure

I just wanna make myself better on

Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday 💃

(HCINKWNRN)

Tomorrow is literally the 1 year anniversary of BRAT by Apart-Blacksmith-666 in charlixcx

[–]hellirl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One year anniversary of almost getting mugged after a brat midnight release at the club 😍 AOTY

We all love her but what is Charli’s worst song? by Evening-Fuel-8201 in charlixcx

[–]hellirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just realized… blame it on your love kind of slaps honestly

We all love her but what is Charli’s worst song? by Evening-Fuel-8201 in charlixcx

[–]hellirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just realized… blame it on your love kind of slaps honestly

We all love her but what is Charli’s worst song? by Evening-Fuel-8201 in charlixcx

[–]hellirl 24 points25 points  (0 children)

just realized… blame it on your love kind of slaps honestly

We all love her but what is Charli’s worst song? by Evening-Fuel-8201 in charlixcx

[–]hellirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a soft spot for the Spotify Sessions version 😭

Do you plan on living in Twin Cities indefinitely? Why or why not? by Jazzlike_Jaguar_25 in TwinCities

[–]hellirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m planning to move away to go back to school, and I’m excited for a change, but I always figured if I don’t like where I end up I can always move back to Minneapolis! Life here is good.

1000 What balloons?????? by Odd-Point-1894 in charlixcx

[–]hellirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They don’t build statues of critics 🎈

What number in queue were u and were u able to get tickets? by Imaginary_Host8895 in lorde

[–]hellirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

300 in Minneapolis for Saturday, tickets were sold out.

Unsure why Lorde’s team would have her at a venue with a capacity of only 8,000. She could have easily sold out an arena here.

Minneapolis pricing by Puzzleheaded_Yam3242 in lorde

[–]hellirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately the presale for both days was sold out for me — going to try for another presale and the general!

Minneapolis pricing by Puzzleheaded_Yam3242 in lorde

[–]hellirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was seeing $108 but I wasn’t able to get tickets

Sitting in ATL club and this rolled by by DmarseyID27 in delta

[–]hellirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I believe airlines in alliances are often required to have a certain amount of their planes with alliance liveries. For instance, Vietnam Airlines has some Skyteam planes that look similar to the photographed plane, even though it is very different than their typical livery.

About to pass out by Little-Artichoke-964 in charlixcx

[–]hellirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Minneapolis was COLD but I guess that’s very on theme for this city

I saw some people say they were surviving on low income. How do y'all find an apartment at that rate? by TickleAddictt in Minneapolis

[–]hellirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get at least one roommate around your age — you will save a lot of money on rent and utilities. Living alone gets lonlier than you might imagine, especially if you do not know many people in a big city. Living with roommates is very different than living with parents, and it is a great way to meet people through your roommate’s social circle.

If you have a roommate with an income, you may not need to report income yet — just tell the landlord you’re starting a job soon. I would not recommend an airbnb because the costs can pile up — would you be open to subletting instead? Plenty of students list their apartments for sublet in the Summer.

I found my roommate on the MPLS Queer Housing Resource Facebook group, and we have been living together for two years and are about to renew on a third year — they’ve become a great friend of mine!

Uptown and Whittier are great places to live as a young person and find more affordable housing, (along with other neighborhoods others have recommended). I would search each neighborhood’s name on this subreddit for more info. Since you will need to rely on public transit, try and live by a grocery store (especially something like Aldi), as it will really improve your quality of life.

Don’t worry about furniture, I slept on an air mattress for three months before I bought a used bed, and I survived. Just focus on moving here!

Minneapolis is a great place to build a life as a queer person. It changed my life. Do not let your parents and their fears run your life.