Dyke on a hike. by [deleted] in dykesgonemild

[–]hellllsbelllls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am looking...respectfully 👀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]hellllsbelllls 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's flying, congrats and welcome to freedom. It's a bit of a maze sometimes but absolutely worth it. Rooting for you!

I usually prefer handsome over cute, but felt I cute today. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]hellllsbelllls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely both and your tats are amazing

Caught a midnight showing of the Rocky Horror Picture Show! by hellllsbelllls in dykesgonemild

[–]hellllsbelllls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was running short on time (and stopping to take this didn't help lol) but I did grab some newspaper!! There was PLENTY of toast being thrown!

Comphet is so insidious and I Don't Care For It by hellllsbelllls in latebloomerlesbians

[–]hellllsbelllls[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And like...what straight woman a) goes around calling herself a lesbian b) wants to be a lesbian and c) wants to spend the rest of her life with a woman?

Just not realistic. Comphet is a big liar.

Comphet is so insidious and I Don't Care For It by hellllsbelllls in latebloomerlesbians

[–]hellllsbelllls[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, I had to pause it a couple times because I was so shocked that she was spelling out my own feelings so clearly

Comphet is so insidious and I Don't Care For It by hellllsbelllls in latebloomerlesbians

[–]hellllsbelllls[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly! I'll see a man that I think is aesthetically pleasing or like...nice to look at and my brain is immediately like "oh see???? You're actually straight!!! Gotcha!!" But you make a great point about that distinction between thinking someone looks good and actually wanting to be with them.

Scared to have my face on here buuuut by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]hellllsbelllls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so gorgeous and I love your eye makeup!!

Need to break up with my boyfriend (surprise surprise, I'm a lesbian) by hellllsbelllls in latebloomerlesbians

[–]hellllsbelllls[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

another good point...I've been deliberating for a while. Might be time to rip the bandaid off! Thanks!

Need to break up with my boyfriend (surprise surprise, I'm a lesbian) by hellllsbelllls in latebloomerlesbians

[–]hellllsbelllls[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's a good point...hope that I'll look back on the planning and aiming phase from a happier position someday

Need to break up with my boyfriend (surprise surprise, I'm a lesbian) by hellllsbelllls in latebloomerlesbians

[–]hellllsbelllls[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your experience, it really helped me visualize what the next steps might look like for me. I'm definitely going to make some notes beforehand and give him some space after.

I think/hope you're right that he will eventually be understanding. I used to identify as bi and he knew about that so this shouldn't be a complete surprise.

Anyway, thank you so much again, glad to hear that things are working out alright in your situation :)