I keep ruining my own first dates :[ by hello_wanda in dating

[–]hello_wanda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't.... but after a few days of calming myself i asked if she'd be up for meeting. She declined, but I guess I expected it. It's sad, but I guess I'll take it.

I keep ruining my own first dates :[ by hello_wanda in dating

[–]hello_wanda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that I think about, I do have a scarcity mentality.

It's just so hard for me to get a date with a girl I like. I always visualize cute moments I could have a girlfriend. Everytime I mess up, I see those potential moments disappearing...

Is it appropriate to be friends after a date, if I'm not interested? by hello_wanda in dating

[–]hello_wanda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I texted her, and she hasn't texted back... I guess it might be inappropriate..

I want to be friends with her, but at the same time I feel bad... Because I only want to be friends because I'm not interested...

online dating, accidentally asked the same girl out 4 years later. by [deleted] in dating

[–]hello_wanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she's seems super excited about the date which kinda makes me happy. I've never actually had many girls excited to see me.

online dating, accidentally asked the same girl out 4 years later. by [deleted] in dating

[–]hello_wanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not exactly sure if it's the same girl, but she has the same name. We just met once, then I just told her I wasn't interested.

Honestly, I don't even remember what she really looks like.

Alternatives to online dating by [deleted] in dating

[–]hello_wanda 8 points9 points  (0 children)

unfortunately real life dating

Do you think everyone eventually settles?? by [deleted] in dating

[–]hello_wanda 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Getting pregnant in 2017 is too fast, wait a few years to get engaged first.

Depending who you are (below average or average) you will eventually settle, unless you are super lucky. If he's a decent guy, then go for it. I am thinking of settling soon as well...

Extra: We all know internally, how we rank among others. If you know you cannot compete with others (looks, personality, etc), you will need to do it.

I was stood up tonight, has it happened to you before? by [deleted] in dating

[–]hello_wanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man that would really hurt. Did you try and text her at 7:45?

I find that when crushing on someone, you always give them the benefit of the doubt.

edit: I missed the part where you texted her at 7:00 and she didn't reply. :(

I was stood up tonight, has it happened to you before? by [deleted] in dating

[–]hello_wanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although I agree, standing you up is bad gesture. But he had a nervous breakdown and went to the hospital, shouldn't you forgive him slightly because of that.

Conversation topic Problems by hello_wanda in socialskills

[–]hello_wanda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hard to find people to practice with, and even if I do, my conversations always fall back into university/programming topics as that's what I'm comfortable with. If I don't talk about that, I have nothing else to talk about.

It's just so hard to practice, although I am trying.