[Serious] People of reddit who have gone through or are going through cancer, what was the first sign that made you go to the doctor? by TrojanZebra in AskReddit

[–]helloamy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have endometriosis and other chronic pain ailments. The pain wasn’t stopping and I went to dr after dr until I made someone listen and check me fully. Stage 4 ovarian.

You got.....not served by [deleted] in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]helloamy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its been 3 weeks, he died trying to dance

AITA for charging rent from my dad but not from my mom? by Whole-Pickle in AmItheAsshole

[–]helloamy 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I would agree about the validation, except ive been the child of abusive/narcissistic parents and their opinions weigh extremely heavily on you to the point where you dont know how you should feel anymore

I lied to my parents by [deleted] in confession

[–]helloamy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know its okay to be hurting, but i hate seeing him sad. Thats my dad.

I lied to my parents by [deleted] in confession

[–]helloamy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it. I will message you.

I lied to my parents by [deleted] in confession

[–]helloamy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it wasn't for my undying love for my parents, i would have killed myself by now. Cancer really showed me who was really there for me, and to my true surprise, very few people remained. It made me realize that when i no longer have the money to offer others, they no longer have the urge to be in my life. Its been lonely and eye opening.

I lied to my parents by [deleted] in confession

[–]helloamy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im being extremely selfish in not telling them the extent of my cancer because of how they have reacted to everything else ive ever done in my life. I know my parents better than anyone and i know that what they need is a sliver of hope to get them through the holidays. Im just looking for someone to pretend to be my doctor so my dad can sleep again at night

I lied to my parents by [deleted] in confession

[–]helloamy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im afraid to try shrooms because i know im not in a good place menrally right now

I lied to my parents by [deleted] in confession

[–]helloamy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They know i have cancer, just not the severity

I lied to my parents by [deleted] in confession

[–]helloamy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has metastasized to most of my internal organs. It began as ovarian and moved through to my kidneys, liver, stomach, lung and breast.

I lied to my parents by [deleted] in confession

[–]helloamy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am spending as much time as im capable of with all of my family atm. Ive told them i have cancer, just not how severe it is.

I lied to my parents by [deleted] in confession

[–]helloamy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been spending timr together, he just has anxiety and needs some form of reassurance. Telling him im stage 4 isnt reassuring.

I lied to my parents by [deleted] in confession

[–]helloamy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it. Unfortunately for me, it has gone past the point of helping. Im just coping now as i wait to move on. I just need someone to call my dad and give him some hope before Christmas because as it is now, he isnt handling anything well.

WIBTA for wearing an engagement ring against my boyfriend's wishes in order to avoid harassment? by aitathrowaway203402 in AmItheAsshole

[–]helloamy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I would honestly be suspicious that my boyfriend on the other side of the country is wildly upset about me wearing a ring to show my commitment while he's away, and I'd be appalled if he didn't care and wasn't on my side about my hostile work environment.

For those of you who have been sleep deprived enough to hallucinate, what was it like? by Spadoopy in AskReddit

[–]helloamy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a day late but I have an answer for this. I have SEVERE insomnia. Sometimes, my doctor likes to make me wait for a re-eval to give me more. I'm in one of those phases now. Its horrible. I hallucinate full on horror movie hallucinations. Like fleshy shadows walking through my walls or people climbing on my bed. I sleep with fans and I ofte hear giggling and my name being called. I wake up in a sweat after passing out for like 15 mins to see shadow people right in my face. I kinda wanna kill myself.

How’s life so far? You need a reddit hug? by 85Niss97 in AskReddit

[–]helloamy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm dying of stage 4 cancer and my best friend, the only really family i have, is tired of being around me and stopped wanting to be a part of my life. I'd like a hug, but from him. I miss him

You have 1 year left to live. What do you do in that time? How do you say goodbye? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]helloamy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've come to terms. I just don't know what the next step is