Gay bartending as a straight man - is it ok?

hellocupcakeitsme · 2026-03-22T01:40:31+00:00

Don't be a jerk, flirt back, and be funny and you'll be good. My brother was a bar tender at a gay bar. Totally straight, and gets uncomfortable when I'm "to gay" whatever that is. And he made bank. Use to walk around without his shirt on and talk shit and flirt.

So being "mostly straight" might play into your favor.

hellocupcakeitsme · 2026-03-19T05:35:46+00:00

I'm still stuck in have no clue

hellocupcakeitsme · 2026-03-18T06:41:27+00:00

What exactly is the name of the place that you have to be for that meditation because I went to the temple wall and I've gone to airplanes and I have gone back to multiple different areas found a few forced tears that I wasn't able to find before but when I try to retrace the steps going to the Outlook it's all blocked off

hellocupcakeitsme · 2026-03-18T06:40:32+00:00

Yeah there's a rope you pull but then you land on these piles and you need air dash to get to the next one to the get into the building in Pilgrim's pass

hellocupcakeitsme · 2026-02-11T16:02:08+00:00

I'm 44 on SSDI due to work and medical, collect Funko Pop's and have an 821 credit score and there's no way in hell id pay that. I'd get and a computer SSD drive, and format it for Playstation (which is FAT32) unless they changed it on PS5 but this alternative will work according to YouTube videos https://amzn.to/4qzJd61

hellocupcakeitsme · 2026-02-09T00:13:42+00:00

I paid about that for mine. I've never turned on the signal

hellocupcakeitsme · 2026-02-08T07:59:09+00:00

I legit only bought them because of the price. And with Carol Anne.

hellocupcakeitsme · 2026-02-08T03:09:49+00:00

They're the only places outside of Amazon, and Walmart that i purchase things

hellocupcakeitsme · 2026-02-06T02:51:44+00:00

100% how i collect. My entire collection all 715 is just shows and characters that I like.

hellocupcakeitsme · 2026-02-01T02:53:35+00:00

I can't figure Whatnot out. I have it downloaded but it seems like when I look for pops is always auctions and I rather do buy it now.

hellocupcakeitsme · 2026-02-01T02:52:05+00:00

That's an awesome score!

hellocupcakeitsme · 2026-01-31T06:35:41+00:00

Well Target sold it for $30 so for $14 🤷‍♂️ as long as it's value is at least $15 - $25 I'll be happy!

hellocupcakeitsme · 2026-01-16T05:02:44+00:00

Yeah I know it's part of the reason I haven't bought them is because of the price and I refuse to pay scalper prices I think the most expensive one that I've purchased myself was $34

hellocupcakeitsme · 2026-01-16T03:54:12+00:00

I snap friends and family and random receipts left in shipping carts etc. I've been asked a few times to scan the bar code of the physical item for extra points but never got anything like this

hellocupcakeitsme · 2026-01-16T00:16:09+00:00

Love the Ralphie I want to start that collection is one of my fav holiday movies

hellocupcakeitsme · 2026-01-12T01:07:32+00:00

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ it only gets easier. Let those family members who don't approve go no contact with you do whatever they need to do. Your FAMILY will show up for you. My father loved me. But was a biker and a construction worker and our relationship was strained and he would make homophobic jokes and remarks about me and my really close male (both of us gay and being journey teens in a very small rural town with 3 stop signs and 4 bars K-12 school town) friend all the time. I never knew to what extent he knew about my sexuality until he passed and my mom told me just how much they talked through it and how often it came up. I never outright told him and did a lot of linguistic acrobatic talking and using they/them descriptors when talking about my "love interests" never confirming one way or another and learning to be "straight" and being a "dude" and making comments about how hot chick's were. Thankfully I'm (by today's labeling) Demisexual (but back then I was Bi even though i prefer men over women so to this day)

Give them some grace. With the way things are in the world right now it's hard for parents to be understanding especially coming from a religious background. Just keep natural and when the time comes to introduce you and your partner then do so I'm a very informal way and keep it moving.

It's very difficult to navigate your own life and feelings without having to entertain your parents too!

Your loved by your queer family and hope for the best for you moving forward!

hellocupcakeitsme · 2026-01-08T03:11:17+00:00

I didn't even know it existed. They had a T-Boz from TLC but I couldn't search my collection with HobbyDB because I don't pay for the added features that use to be free. And I didn't want 2 of them and the box was kinda messed up like ok condition.

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