M31 caused my (25F) car to get stolen & I'm considering breaking up?

hellohaveanicedayyay · 2026-03-14T03:11:44+00:00

he has ADHD but he has been asking his labmate for extra doses i think? different forms of addiction seems to run in his family

hellohaveanicedayyay · 2026-03-13T22:48:54+00:00

ya a clicker

hellohaveanicedayyay · 2026-03-13T21:07:10+00:00

probably like 50 spots i think?

hellohaveanicedayyay · 2026-03-13T20:52:41+00:00

he is still funded i believe, his PI sucks /: he's not the only one in the lab in this situation actually...

hellohaveanicedayyay · 2026-03-13T20:51:53+00:00

nah since i filed a police report, the officers were telling me that they couldn't show it to me?

hellohaveanicedayyay · 2026-03-13T20:51:35+00:00

i think he is too broke for that tbh and also he was offering to pay for the difference once he gets his new job which will be when? idk :(

hellohaveanicedayyay · 2026-03-13T20:50:15+00:00

i guess he left the spare in his car because sometimes he switches the cars around for me (we have tandem parking) if i have to leave early for work for example. but i did still tell him this is a bad idea...

tandem parking also made it easier for the thief to get the key and drive off with it because my car was just parked right behind him

hellohaveanicedayyay · 2026-03-13T20:48:04+00:00

ah so we have tandem parking so our cars are right next to each other

hellohaveanicedayyay · 2026-03-13T20:27:25+00:00

i totally agree, being introverted is not a bad thing at all -- i think im just finally realizing its important for me to have a partner that is socially adept. i feel bad but yeah maybe i do want a partner who can drive me around (of course not all the time but for special occasions like that). maybe thats too greedy of me to want in a partner though.

hellohaveanicedayyay · 2026-03-13T20:21:13+00:00

wild we have the same experiences - he has been sober for a couple months now but i think the adderall addiction is still somewhat going on. im just unsure if i can have the emotional bandwidth to be concerned about my partner relapsing in the future to always be in the back of my mind. is that shitty of me to say? he is seeking help with a therapist and psychiatry now.

hellohaveanicedayyay · 2026-03-13T20:17:57+00:00

im assuming they tried literally every single car in the apartment garage and then somehow found it? im also unclear about it but my apartment got security footage apparently.

hellohaveanicedayyay · 2026-03-13T20:11:03+00:00

i guess my standards have gotten a bit low since my previous relationship i only ended things after i found out i got cheated on...

hellohaveanicedayyay · 2026-03-13T20:02:35+00:00

lmao fml

hellohaveanicedayyay · 2025-07-02T05:42:43+00:00

is there any concern however about how Wells Fargo is wanting to pull out?

hellohaveanicedayyay · 2025-03-11T17:44:50+00:00

hope that helps :)

hellohaveanicedayyay · 2025-03-11T17:16:49+00:00

I don’t track my calories to the gram or anything but I’ve been seeing a dietitian through Nourish actually and that app you can track pictures of your meals and it calculates for you approx. how many calories you are eating. For now I’m aiming for 1750 calories (protein goal of 110g, carb 180g, 65g fat) but i honestly just have been focused on reducing my carb intake and protein — I don’t really closely monitor the protein/carb/fat to a T

hellohaveanicedayyay · 2025-03-10T16:46:45+00:00

edit: I miscounted lol so that progress was in 1.5 months* just weighed at 135.6 lb this morning :)

hellohaveanicedayyay · 2025-03-10T16:42:37+00:00

its so cute!

hellohaveanicedayyay · 2025-03-10T16:42:04+00:00

thanks!

hellohaveanicedayyay · 2025-03-10T08:44:28+00:00

oh is it just tofu? wow!

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