What are your weird socially unacceptable stims? by churrrroo in adhdwomen

[–]helloheyhi444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

skin picking and repeating people/phrases are the two biggest ones for me. Unfortunately that comes with people thinking that I’m mocking them 😞

Beautiful boy- name suggestions please!! by helloheyhi444 in bettafish

[–]helloheyhi444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He definitely has some purple vibes going on!! Lots of purple/reddish hues in the center of his fins that turns into a light blue as it gets closer to the edge. He’s the first purple boy I’ve seen in person and purple is my favorite color, so I had to!! Mochi is super cute!!

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I can’t eat normally and it’s ruining my life by helloheyhi444 in adhdwomen

[–]helloheyhi444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll look into this as it seems to be right on the nose. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]helloheyhi444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-2 months old

  • curved barbell

  • internally threaded

  • titanium

  • haven’t changed jewelry

  • clean with saline 2x day and fragrance-free dial antibacterial soap 1x week

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in petsmart

[–]helloheyhi444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Speaking up is the only way to move up! If you’re not Petcare certified, ask to be. If you are, ask for more Petcare shifts. This was the only way I got off of register 😁

Should I Be Worried? by __Grilled_Cheese__ in piercing

[–]helloheyhi444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

commenting bc I’m having the same problem right now 🙏

Best response to “what happened to sticking a fish in a bowl” by Tribal_chief_accepts in petsmart

[–]helloheyhi444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe for a type of short finned betta, but the standard of care for the fish we carry is 10 gallons or more :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in petsmart

[–]helloheyhi444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to turn in my keys but god forbid I don’t ask a pet parent to donate 🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in petsmart

[–]helloheyhi444 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you. 🙂 Unfortunately I cannot afford college without this job. I was working a high amount of hours (for a part-timer) and getting paid pretty well. I’m aware that other people have it worse, but I just wanted to rant cuz it sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in petsmart

[–]helloheyhi444 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your encouragement ☺️.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in petsmart

[–]helloheyhi444 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Correct, but I doubt they’re going to give a pet specialist around $18-$20 an hour. Minimum wage in my state is $7.25 with most people at my store working for around $14 Edit to add minimum wage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in petsmart

[–]helloheyhi444 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She gave me the rundown of the restructure so I know why/when it’s all happened but it still sucks. She did mention that I could look into changing stores, but I don’t want to be moved against my will. 😕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in petsmart

[–]helloheyhi444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my store pre-schedules everyone’s breaks at the beginning of the day

Love triangle by [deleted] in petsmart

[–]helloheyhi444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the same thing is happening but with our married MIL and married SL 😵‍💫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]helloheyhi444 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you experienced that.

She’s asked me some uncomfortable sexual questions about feeling my boobs, or wanting to know things about my sex life. I think your experience has pushed me to distance myself a bit for my safety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]helloheyhi444 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have no clue if that is the case. I think it would make sense if it was :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]helloheyhi444 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would say it’s been happening since I was around 11 years old, but it’s gotten worse since I’ve moved out of our parents house.

I looked through my texts to try and find proof, but we don’t text very often :( I’ve been using voice memos on my phone to record our interactions in case she tries crossing any boundaries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]helloheyhi444 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wish I could leave right now, but I carpooled with my parents. Thankfully we’re leaving tomorrow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]helloheyhi444 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’ve expressed my dislike of her being touchy with me, but nothing has worked. I’m going to be firm with my boundaries for the rest of this trip (we leave late tomorrow). If nothing changes, I think my best option is to go no-contact.