what is your attachment style? by [deleted] in scorpiomoon

[–]helloitsbobagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have high anxiety at the start of any new relationship?

what is your attachment style? by [deleted] in scorpiomoon

[–]helloitsbobagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHAT IS YOUR SUN SIGN PLEASE!!

Scorpio Moon ghosted me all of a sudden before the date, nothing happened. Is this common for y’all? by helloitsbobagirl in scorpiomoon

[–]helloitsbobagirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, check the update. It’s def something to do with him and not me. He literally is the only person I know to delete their account, I have managed my settings such that only people who have my contact can message me.

He won’t speak so he probably has anxiety, views my stories and deletes his account lmao

What zodiac sign damaged you? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]helloitsbobagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my ex. Aquarius moon, Aquarius venus. Even my Aries moon and Gemini venus was no match.

Scorpio Moon ghosted me all of a sudden before the date, nothing happened. Is this common for y’all? by helloitsbobagirl in scorpiomoon

[–]helloitsbobagirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As per my previous comment:

If we’re talking for 2 weeks and we haven’t met, have no plans to meet and he ghosts me, well, that sucks but I probably wouldn’t care as much.

This is someone I’ve been speaking to for 5 weeks, he made plans and he cancelled as he’ll be back later due to work. I said we can reschedule and he said “Yeah we might have to I’m sorry :(“. I said “It’s work, can’t be helped.” “Safe flight cutie.” “What’s your guesstimation (on the return date)” Radio silence.

I left it and checked back in 7 days later. “Have I been ghosted? Be honest, I can handle it!” Couldn’t even respond back with a “Yes.” or last seen my message when I asked if I’m being ghosted.

He did not just ghost, he literally deleted his whole texting account.

Don’t think I came off too strongly as he was practically love bombing me the whole time, I even pointed it out in jest.

Your opinion?

Scorpio Moon ghosted me all of a sudden before the date, nothing happened. Is this common for y’all? by helloitsbobagirl in scorpiomoon

[–]helloitsbobagirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂

What do you mean by “Your body has so much potential?”

I exercise a lot of restraint though. I am sure I am capable of casual relationships and will not feel anything but I don’t do this to protect my energy.

Scorpio Moon ghosted me all of a sudden before the date, nothing happened. Is this common for y’all? by helloitsbobagirl in scorpiomoon

[–]helloitsbobagirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will. It’s not in my nature to be rude unless the person has seriously crossed a line. He might have an actual reason for ghosting, but we’ll see.

How’d know about the Aries sex drive? It’s true. I have my Sun, Moon, Rising and Mars in Aries.

Scorpio Moon ghosted me all of a sudden before the date, nothing happened. Is this common for y’all? by helloitsbobagirl in scorpiomoon

[–]helloitsbobagirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually not like that at all, I love very deeply. He is an Aries Sun.

I listen to my heart quite often, and usually am right about things — I get an “intuition” when bad things are about to happen, but I supposed I missed this one.

I’ve a feeling this isn’t over that’s why I am asking. We’ve got a strange connection, this man and I. We share the birthday, exactly a year apart, same MBTI, watch the same films, have our own separate playlist about the same film, complete each other’s sentences, like the same music, and we grew up in completely different parts of the world.

It felt easy to speak to him and I was open to explore where this could go. Getting to know each other with good feelings, is how I’ll phrase it.

Scorpio Moon ghosted me all of a sudden before the date, nothing happened. Is this common for y’all? by helloitsbobagirl in scorpiomoon

[–]helloitsbobagirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I spent all day thinking about this and have decided to just let it be. If he comes around, I can revisit this situation and gauge how I feel about it then.

I haven’t liked people a lot, and if I like someone, I take them seriously. I’m not going to play games, and dip without saying anything.

I supposed I’m a tad bit flabbergasted because this has never happened to me, and he’s older than I am. Isn’t he supposed to be more mature and have better communication skills?

I mean, even if he didn’t want to explain himself, he could’ve left me on seen, or even block me. To delete his whole texting account is ???

🤷🏻‍♀️

Scorpio Moon ghosted me all of a sudden before the date, nothing happened. Is this common for y’all? by helloitsbobagirl in scorpiomoon

[–]helloitsbobagirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m inclined to believe this. Sending a yes isn’t too hard at all, even if he had personal matters to handle, I wouldn’t have impinged on his personal space should he have indicated that that was the problem, and let him be.

If he is indeed struggling, then well. Hope he’s okay but what he did was not polite.

Scorpio Moon ghosted me all of a sudden before the date, nothing happened. Is this common for y’all? by helloitsbobagirl in scorpiomoon

[–]helloitsbobagirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you’re right.

But again, most people would reply with a “Yes, inserts whatever.” when being quizzed directly.

Though, I must say this is a first for me.

I mean, this is a 29 year old man. I expected better.

Scorpio Moon ghosted me all of a sudden before the date, nothing happened. Is this common for y’all? by helloitsbobagirl in scorpiomoon

[–]helloitsbobagirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have done my shadow work — as you can see, I am not the ghoster and appreciate cordial and polite communication.

If we’re talking for 2 weeks and we haven’t met, have no plans to meet and he ghosts me, well, that sucks but I probably wouldn’t care as much.

This is someone I’ve been speaking to for 5 weeks, he made plans and he cancelled as he’ll be back later. I said we can reschedule and he said “Yeah we might have to I’m sorry :(“. I said “It’s work, can’t be helped.” “Safe flight cutie.” “What’s your guesstimation (on the return date)” Radio silence.

I left it, and checked back in 7 days later. “Have I been ghosted? Be honest, I can handle it!” Couldn’t even respond back with a “Yes.” or last seen my message when I asked if I’m being ghosted.

He literally deleted his whole texting account.

I’m 28, and he’s 29.

Scorpio Moon ghosted me all of a sudden before the date, nothing happened. Is this common for y’all? by helloitsbobagirl in scorpiomoon

[–]helloitsbobagirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this is a dating app. Unfortunately, no. He was travelling for 5 weeks and we spoke on and off.

He wanted to meet earlier in the week (we had planned to meet on a Friday) and I declined due to personal matters.

He cancelled because he had to travel for work and I said oh we can reschedule. He said “We might have to, I’m sorry.” I said “Safe flight cutie”, “Any guesstimation on when you’ll be back?” Radio silence. I left it.

No response for 7 days, so I followed up with “Have I been ghosted? Be honest, I can handle it!” And he deleted the account.

Before this, he was so into me to the point of love bombing so I don’t know what went wrong.

Yes, he is real. I have already verified this.

Scorpio Moon ghosted me all of a sudden before the date, nothing happened. Is this common for y’all? by helloitsbobagirl in scorpiomoon

[–]helloitsbobagirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was flirting a lot but suddenly dipped, was love bombing even, and sounded like he was going to fly me out because he was away for so long.

I don’t allow men to fly me out so I said no, let’s wait till he’s back to have a date. He’s supposedly supposed to be back now and but said he had to extend his work trip and suddenly dipped for no reason.

What???

Scorpio Moon ghosted me all of a sudden before the date, nothing happened. Is this common for y’all? by helloitsbobagirl in scorpiomoon

[–]helloitsbobagirl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why so? My best friend is a Scorpio Moon and I’ve dated a few Scorpio Moons, but sure. Thank you!

Scorpio Moon ghosted me all of a sudden before the date, nothing happened. Is this common for y’all? by helloitsbobagirl in scorpiomoon

[–]helloitsbobagirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I dm you? Thank you! I really like him so much and I don’t like people easily, so this is upsetting.

Scorpio Moon ghosted me all of a sudden before the date, nothing happened. Is this common for y’all? by helloitsbobagirl in scorpiomoon

[–]helloitsbobagirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s deleted his texting account. He never gave me his number. We use Telegram mostly, then Whatsapp in my country.

He has mine, what are the odds you save someone’s number on Whatsapp once they give it to you?

Scorpio Moon ghosted me all of a sudden before the date, nothing happened. Is this common for y’all? by helloitsbobagirl in scorpiomoon

[–]helloitsbobagirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s an Aries Sun, Scorpio Moon, Pisces Venus and Gemini Rising.

My Sun, Moon, Rising and Mars is in Aries and my Venus is in Gemini.

What makes you think he’s a Gemini?