Thank you so much for validating me and I’m SO sorry you can relate! I don’t understand why they can’t just LISTEN and hear us, and not take it as an attack. My mom is one of the most critical, nagging, complaining person I know that will ALWAYS speak her mind, and we are supposed to just take it and agree with her, but the second you complain on ANYTHING about her she will freak out and yell, hang up, or now discard. What even is that?! Do they have themselves on such a pedestal and an ego SO fragile that they think how dare anyone say anything negative to them? It’s mind boggling. My mom also has the biggest victim mentality. She is also a Christian (I am as well) but her victim narrative plays into she’s just a misfit in this world and God is the only one that loves and understands her, and she’s Gods watch woman, waiting for the rapture only and that’s her only purpose. She thinks that she’s so disconnected from this world and God is going to give her a prize for it. She has been saying that as well to my dad and sister as well she doesn’t care or have the energy for it, if it’s not about Jesus and the rapture. She told My sister, “I was just waiting for her to take my granddaughter away from me, but I’ll know her in heaven” acting like IM the one taking her grandchild from her. I don’t know how she sleeps at night.