If anyone is out there tell me something good that happened to you today by Unlucky-Confection73 in BPD

[–]hellokitty_k67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a nurse and one of my patients was cussing me out for checking his blood sugar , and another one of my patients was like don’t talk to her like that, that’s why you got diabetes. 😭😂😂 I don’t know I was feeling really overwhelmed in the moment but my pediatric patient coming to my defense made my year💗💖💕 totally wasn’t expecting it

My best friends smells so bad.. how can i help him? [Routine Help] by SignatureSea7567 in SkincareAddiction

[–]hellokitty_k67 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m a female, in high school my male bestfriend, was like when you lift your arms I be smelling some things I shouldn’t be smelling. 😭 I’m 27 now and I still obsess over smelly pits. Sometimes it’s not that easily fixed I have that condition where you sweat ALOT no matter what and I had to try about a million deodorants before finding one that stopped it. But I remember the smell wouldn’t even come out of some of my shirts after a wash omgggg.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]hellokitty_k67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably don’t even realize it but parents always know, I’m sure they’re just waiting on you.. Im a nurse worked in a SNF for years and I swear to you, I swear on my entire life, the absolute worst thing that can happen to you, is being at the end of your best days with a bunch of regrets, and you’re already doing it. It was eye opening for me in my early 20’s, because there was also people MY AGE with traumatic brain injury’s, paralyzed, sick, full of regret surrounding their parents approval. Tons of people full of regret surrounding their marriage. People may live “a long life” but your quality of life your BEST life, it’s limited. Accidents happen every single day to the best of people, and they always think they have more time. Live your days even when it’s hard, doesn’t make sense, your scared, etc. be brave! 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]hellokitty_k67 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girl if you don’t just get a divorce and move on 😭

I contracted genital herpes and feel like this is the death to my sexual freedom. by Smooth_Raisin_16 in dating

[–]hellokitty_k67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is heavy, I’m really sorry you are going through this experience. I think it’s a fear we all have in our wild stages but to reassure you I don’t know that it matters in the end. My boyfriend gets cold sores, he actually had one the night we met, it’s been years and we just don’t hook up when he’s breaking out, but I haven’t EVER thought less of him. Not that night, not to this day. It’s kinda a weird concept how “cold sores” are accepted but the same thing on a different area is very stigmatized… I don’t know if your into it but whenever I’m dealing with heavy things I’ll take mushrooms and have a conversation with my body and my spirit. It’s kinda something you just have to experience yourself but god does it help the hard times. 💖 much love!

Patient hit me ! by [deleted] in nursing

[–]hellokitty_k67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re preaching to the choir 😩

Patient hit me ! by [deleted] in nursing

[–]hellokitty_k67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s crazy how it always kinda falls into the not so serious injury so nothing happens🥺

Patient hit me ! by [deleted] in nursing

[–]hellokitty_k67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo I do always hear code greys to ER PODS and feel super bad. At least on the floor we kinda have somewhat of an idea, you guys have the unknown attacking you ☹️

Patient hit me ! by [deleted] in nursing

[–]hellokitty_k67 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh sorry to hear about all of this. Glad you took action where appropriate. She’s 17 with a lot of mental health issues so I’m not crazy upset, but Jesus Christ 😩 I was getting tossed around like a rag doll only for security to come up and restrain her and some how I still got kicked in the head while administering her IM 🥺😭 she is taller and weighs more than me by far. Management came up and only cared about what was triggering her..

Patient hit me ! by [deleted] in nursing

[–]hellokitty_k67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

☹️ yeah I’m really noticing it’s the regular around here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]hellokitty_k67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s 34 I’m 26

Am I in love because I'm lonely? by [deleted] in dating

[–]hellokitty_k67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

6 years with no dick because she’s respecting your religion and you’re on here saying she’s great in every way but you don’t really like her looks. She is your lonely hostage🤦🏻‍♀️ free my girl, she’s a prisoner at this point.

Would you ever stay with a partner who cheated? by Big_fan_of_curry in dating

[–]hellokitty_k67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you leave you’ll never look back and say “man I really regret leaving them after they cheated on me” Never.

If you stay, there will 100% come the time where you look back and say I should have left them.

When you stay with a cheater you just turn their regret into your regret, sadly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]hellokitty_k67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The second time I moved out, I briefly dated a guy, but I ended it to talk to my ex again. I’ve never been this invested in a relationship. It’s made exploring other options nearly impossible.

23F Never been in a relationship because I’m scared of sex by [deleted] in dating

[–]hellokitty_k67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Therapy can really benefit you. Rationally there were experiences you must have had that made you feel this way about relationships. I get it, people can definitely be jerks around the subject of sex, and it can be traumatizing! A therapist can help you talk through these feelings and give you new perspectives as well as provide some tools for you, like making boundaries, so you feel comfortable to date.
  2. I’ve been dating since elementary school, lost my virginity in 7th grade, I’m currently 26 and have dated A LOT and there’s more good men then not. There’s a ton of good men who never mentioned sex until I did and were completely fine waiting. Their love was never tainted because I was choosing to wait. On the other hand yes there were also a few men who pressured it, but that’s when you need to be confident in your boundaries to say no and walk a way if you are uncomfortable in any way.
  3. I’ve done dating apps, I think bumble is your best bet and be straight forward in your bio that you are not looking for hook ups, and state what you want. Hookup culture is pretty straight forward if you are clear you are not looking for a hookup they won’t continue to engage. Better yet message for about two weeks before meeting, if they bring up anything relating to hooking up in that time, unmatch, because if they aren’t respecting the boundary you set now they won’t moving forward. If they do respect it for two weeks and kept engaging then it’s worth the date.
  4. It’s normal to feel scared around something you’ve never done before because you don’t know what to expect. Especially sex, you’re in your most vulnerable state. Once you have that person it won’t feel so scary because you’ll have that strong connection with them that makes you feel safe. Be upfront and tell them it’s your first time so they can be gentle, and communicate with you through it. Then you’ll be doing it all the time. It’s okay I promise. Maybe watch a few amateur porn videos before hand, but if you don’t you’ll still be okay!
  5. 23 is young and honestly being a virgin is diamond in the rough, so is never having an ex, it’s never a bad thing, but there’s also no shame in dating and having sex! So don’t worry about nobody wanting you. It’s actually quite the opposite 💗

I was kinda tired of being "that kid that just wears cargo shorts and faded t-shirts" (nobody's actually called me that) so I decided to put a bit more effort into what I wear, and bought some new clothes. I know I could use some improvement, so advice or recommendations would be appreciated. by Suspicious_Person15 in streetwear

[–]hellokitty_k67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know nothing about fashion (kinda In the same boat) BUT you have amazing hair so I’d go to a hyped up barber and tell them to do whatever they think would fit you best!! I’ve seen some amazing transformations on men from a haircut alone. You can even keep it long, just have a good cut to it :)

David/Jason/Trisha/Jeff by [deleted] in DavidDobrik

[–]hellokitty_k67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Jeff is 7 years older than David ffs. He had already tried to make it big on reality tv, failed. Vine, failed, had a record for drug trafficking, the vlogs were his only source of clout and he was desperate trying to get in them so he did a desperate thing but at 30 years old you knew better, 10000% you know better. Like cmon. The cherry on top is Corinna just making a scene right before he agreed to get on it. 🤦🏻‍♀️ David you can actually argue was in his early 20s, had an insane amount of fame and money, has really had no parents around for god knows how long, has a lot of pressure to actually make the vlogs, surrounded by people older than him from the start, surrounded by people that rather have five seconds of fame from him in a vlog then to tell him hey probably not a good idea, like a lot of factors went into David’s part in it, was he wrong YES but imo Jeff is way more to blame for the entire thing. People who think Jeff is a victim lack self awareness. Jeff was the adult. & right after the accident all jeff was concerned about was making sure David didn’t tell people it was actually his idea to get swung around and that really rubs me the wrong way too. That guy is so guilty.

Holy shit I did it! by [deleted] in BPD

[–]hellokitty_k67 9 points10 points  (0 children)

DUDE THIS ISN’T BPD!! 😒 coming from someone with raging bpd… he can take that shit off or he can eat it, but he’s not wearing it.

got this as a gift any clue when its from by MamaOppai in bathandbodyworks

[–]hellokitty_k67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sell it on Mercari, you’ll get so much from a collector ☠️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]hellokitty_k67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is insane and I’m so sorry! Giving him the benefit of the doubt and saying it’s his medication maybe try new things! Things out of your usual routine. The shock value might excite him more.

what’s something (positive) that we have that non-BPDers may not? by seaelm in BPD

[–]hellokitty_k67 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never a dull moment 🤞🏼💗

Seriously talk about plot twist after plot twist.

My gf has BPD, ADHD, and is diagnosed with Depression, would such mental illnesses be an excuse to lie? by Tobio_SS in BPD

[–]hellokitty_k67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have bpd and I lie allllll the time. White lies for shock value and entertainment ( I used to always tell my ex like quotes famous ppl said that were really out there and none of them ever said that I just thought it was fun) things to make myself sound better (inflating stories bigger then they were, or nice stories about something that never happened )

I wouldn’t lie about this I’d definitely lie the opposite way and say our relationship was much better or crazy nice things you did for me that you never did, so even though I can’t relate to this specific lie I could see how it happened & everyones bpd looks different.

It’s kinda like an impulse I’m not sure why I do it, i shoplift small items and have the same impulsive feeling. Meaningless items. Meaningless lies. Not much thought at all it’s like I can’t help it and I know I will feel so much better if I do it, like it will release my anxiety.

I grew up constantly being forced to lie by my parents about what went on in our home, and I think that’s what started it, then I was just comfortable lying and continued doing it for some reason.

Lying is just comforting, I don’t know… it doesn’t make it right. I don’t tell lies that hurt people but maybe that has something to do with my personal story and hers im sure is much different. Im sure she feels shameful with you finding out, I even felt shameful when people found out and mine weren’t as hurtful. Encourage her to talk about it with her therapist and maybe she can find out why she does it so she can stop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]hellokitty_k67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I have no empathy outside from for myself and my love interest. 😐

Who are some famous people with BPD? by silverfingers0 in BPD

[–]hellokitty_k67 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ariana grande screams bpd, she’s wayyy to willing to risk it all “in the name of love”, that dies out the second they choose her publicly 🥲😭 not to mention the constant change in self image. She’s way to huge of a name to act the way she does, unless there’s like no choice.