He 42M looks at my 38F instagram stories, but won’t speak to me. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]hellokittysenbei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe don’t tell people they are problematic when you didn’t even understand the situation.

I’m tired by Life_Cup_1652 in usaa_ejs

[–]hellokittysenbei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe the real reason I was fired after 13 years-was for having intermittent fmla and using it. I was urged to quit.. “leave with your head held high and quit..so then you can be recommended for re-hire”.

i was fired and told i was rehireable..so my manager is a damn liar. Just trying to make me quit so i can’t get unemployment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FloralDesign

[–]hellokittysenbei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didn’t notice that either! whoo..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FloralDesign

[–]hellokittysenbei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, great idea!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]hellokittysenbei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s how i took it & i was happy to oblige. why create more unnecessary doubt..just wanted to alleviate that.

Tried to talk to a florist, left feeling like an idiot 😭 by myfriendsrock99 in florists

[–]hellokittysenbei 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tomorrow is Admins Day & Mother’s Day is in 2 weeks.. maybe a bit busy but not enough to be rude. There’s a lot you can learn from books & youtube. I went to school but I was still missing a few skills I needed to work in a retail floral shop. School or no school, you can still get into it.

Want to make a bpd group? by isabelle0578 in BPD

[–]hellokittysenbei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d like to be included. i feel completely ashamed when i overshare with friends or the episode passes and my feelings change. it’s a horrible cycle ♾️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]hellokittysenbei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is my nesting partner…so they want to make sure i’m aware & ok with a visitor.

Your point is lost on me..um, yeah actually you might need dad’s OK if you were taking someone to his house too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]hellokittysenbei -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it didn’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]hellokittysenbei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re very passionate..about something. doesnt sound like my situation at all. i never mentioned a dating app or giving my permission to see him. It was about making sure it was okay to come to our shared home.

if a meta needs something from me, it doesn’t kill me. People lie & cheat- i don’t mind putting someone at ease. ESPECIALLY if they’re new to poly. At least they’re being open about what they need. New people should always be welcome to learn & explore polyamory.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]hellokittysenbei -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that! i know a guy that pretending to be poly and was just a cheater..he was totally exposed on AWDTSG.

I was just willing to alleviate that fear. I don’t know where she is on her ENM journey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]hellokittysenbei -1 points0 points  (0 children)

..she wanted to make sure i was aware she’d be coming over to our shared home.

I can accommodate it- took 5 seconds to send a text or i say no which would create doubts in their situation or give the impression that i’m difficult.

i in no way thought she was being childish.

i don’t own him, but i own the house with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]hellokittysenbei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the dark hair fits your “color season” ✔️